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25 Jun 2012, 4:06 am

Maybe she didn't read your questions lol.

I'm also on OKCupid and I just disabled my account for the 4-5th time because I never get responses from ppl I'd actually be interested in.



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25 Jun 2012, 4:08 am

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I'm really confused. First let me start this off by saying that I'm not racist, nor do I hate Christians. I just am not personally sexually attracted to african americans and I've answered the question "Would you strongly prefer to go out with somebody of your own race" yes. I also have answered a question that I'm not interested in going out with Christians as well, not because I hate Christians but because it would just cause drama with me being an atheist. So I've noticed that about once a day a girl who is african american and has "Christian- And Very Serious About It" on her profile visits my profile. She hasn't messaged me or anything and so I'm just kind of confused... Shouldn't she know by reading my questions that I'm not interested?



Forget it.

What happened with the awesome girl?



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25 Jun 2012, 6:31 am

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I'm really confused. First let me start this off by saying that I'm not racist, nor do I hate Christians. I just am not personally sexually attracted to african americans and I've answered the question "Would you strongly prefer to go out with somebody of your own race" yes. I also have answered a question that I'm not interested in going out with Christians as well, not because I hate Christians but because it would just cause drama with me being an atheist. So I've noticed that about once a day a girl who is african american and has "Christian- And Very Serious About It" on her profile visits my profile. She hasn't messaged me or anything and so I'm just kind of confused... Shouldn't she know by reading my questions that I'm not interested?



Forget it.

Aye, forget it and browse anonymously so you are not distracted by such things again.



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25 Jun 2012, 12:52 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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I'm really confused. First let me start this off by saying that I'm not racist, nor do I hate Christians. I just am not personally sexually attracted to african americans and I've answered the question "Would you strongly prefer to go out with somebody of your own race" yes. I also have answered a question that I'm not interested in going out with Christians as well, not because I hate Christians but because it would just cause drama with me being an atheist. So I've noticed that about once a day a girl who is african american and has "Christian- And Very Serious About It" on her profile visits my profile. She hasn't messaged me or anything and so I'm just kind of confused... Shouldn't she know by reading my questions that I'm not interested?



Forget it.

What happened with the awesome girl?


We're still talking. I asked her out to a movie sometime and as soon as I can get money together we're going to try and meet up halfway and do something.



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25 Jun 2012, 1:13 pm

The questions may not be showing up in the profile snippit she sees before viewing your whole profile.



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06 Jul 2012, 5:08 am

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Irrelevant... but just got a job interview call (2nd one) with a same company ;P wish me luck

:shrug: I might end up +1 to this diaspora....


When you'll be there, you'll still be chasing Lebanese girls?
Even in Lebanon, you only go after the girls of your community, or exclude foreigners?


3rd interview today for the same position...

I hate it how they leave the pay discussion for the last interview (how many more? I dunno).



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06 Jul 2012, 10:32 am

I'm not.


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06 Jul 2012, 11:01 am

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06 Jul 2012, 12:09 pm

^ lol, even I doing better......



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06 Jul 2012, 12:15 pm

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^ lol, even I doing better......


But unlike you, I have admirers IRL...

And I didn't need a photo on OKC to get those responses in the first place!



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06 Jul 2012, 12:23 pm

Tempted to go back on OKC with a new profile for boost of esteem. Doubt I'd use it to find any real dates, though.

I do better offline. In real life people get to see me for who I am. On a dating site like OKC I find they just tick boxes on a checklist and I'm doing the same so no deeper connection is really being made.



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06 Jul 2012, 12:27 pm

smudge wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ lol, even I doing better......


But unlike you, I have admirers IRL...




oh... and you think i don't IRL? ;) you're so f---- wrong. I mean hey.... okc/yagharami.com/skout admirers are turning to IRL admirers (and some might soon )

but unlike you, my admirers don't run the other way once they learn about the main preference.


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And I didn't need a photo on OKC to get those responses in the first place![



OOOHH, a female profile getting responses on okcupid! what an achievement! are you kidding me?

besides, weren't you saying that you got nothing from it?



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06 Jul 2012, 12:46 pm

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I'm not.


I am, and have got nothing from it. There was one guy I saw on there who viewed my profile and in his said he was autistic. Big coincidence? :? I couldn't be bothered to message him, so I just rated him. Another guy with a lot of money rated me, and I messaged him. No reply. No surprise. Maybe I should message the autistic.

Oh yeh, and as soon as I registered, within 10 minutes I got a 3-4 paragraphs of this guy saying how similar he was to me. I looked at his profile and he's the complete opposite of me. Creep.


but the autistic probably lacks the money Image

So since you have no chance with guy 1 you go for ..the "lower"... Mr. option 2? Image

Ladder theory in action!! ! Image



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06 Jul 2012, 12:54 pm

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But unlike you, I have admirers IRL...


I mean hey.... okc/yagharami.com/skout admirers are turning to IRL admirers (and some might soon )


Sorry, what does that mean? Turning into? They either like you, or they don't. You're still on here, blagging that you got dates from posting a shallow topless photo of yourself, going against what you supposedly believe in. Well done!

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but unlike you, my admirers don't run the other way once they learn about the main preference.


And what that might be? And err...you don't know how my relationships have ended, nor how my dates have gone. How many relationships have you had, Boo?

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OOOHH, a female profile getting responses on okcupid! what an achievement! are you kidding me?

besides, weren't you saying that you got nothing from it?


Am I smelling a little bitterness? Ooh, you posted a picture of yourself, and got dates, and they didn't go so well, did they? :?



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06 Jul 2012, 12:58 pm

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Sorry, what does that mean? Turning into? They either like you, or they don't. You're still on here, blagging that you got dates from posting a shallow topless photo of yourself, going against what you supposedly believe in. Well done!


It means I don't currently have only online admirers as you were implying.



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And what that might be? And err...you don't know how my relationships have ended, nor how my dates have gone. How many relationships have you had, Boo?


I am talking about admirers, not relationships. Besides, let's focus on our presents, not the pasts ;).



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Am I smelling a little bitterness?


no, it was my fart ;).

Beans effect.



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06 Jul 2012, 1:01 pm

smudge wrote:
WintersTale wrote:
I'm not.


I am, and have got nothing from it. There was one guy I saw on there who viewed my profile and in his said he was autistic. Big coincidence? :? I couldn't be bothered to message him, so I just rated him. Another guy with a lot of money rated me, and I messaged him. No reply. No surprise. Maybe I should message the autistic.

Oh yeh, and as soon as I registered, within 10 minutes I got a 3-4 paragraphs of this guy saying how similar he was to me. I looked at his profile and he's the complete opposite of me. Creep.


I guess money seems to play a big part in the guys that you speak to.
That's a real shame. There's no denying it, either.