But it’s all about personality >.>

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I'm getting to this party really late, but I see nothing wrong with what she wants. In fact, I think she's a little lenient. They should definitely have a decent job and a decent car. I should post what some of the men want from women on that Eharmony site. Let's just say it's A LOT.

Yes you should. Show 'em that it's not just girls who make demands.

She made me feel so ooold

agreed

i read sly's reply first, and then the woman's post second and while i was reading it i kept anticipating a really demanding prerequisite, something big that would make her seem really needy, but it never came.

hell, I fit her criteria. (granted, my car isn't that comfortable).

i think most judgement should be reserved until we find out what she wants his money and auto for.

it's one thing to look for someone to be her chauffeur, and who'll use his income to buy herself stuff. it's something else entirely if she's looking for someone to build a long term partnership, maybe a family with....
but i feel she should have said so in the post if the latter fits her intentions.

i will agree that a lack of ideal personality traits listed could seem suspicious.

I get it I’m horrible and worthless. I don’t even meet the bare minimum to be a real man who’s loveable, ok I get it .

Slap me why?

I am super defective otherwise I’d have a good job, bmw, nice house like all real men do. I wouldn’t only be able to work part time and be on government aid. Men who beat women are better and more loveable then me it seems as most of them have gfs and wives. Theyre ambitious and have good jobs, cars and home to themselves. My biological dad and grandad had all that, they cheated, beat their wife and sexual abused their child. They real men they rolled in money. Highly sought after by women too hence always having gfs and side women to cheat with. In societies eyes they’re far better men then me.

No I don’t enjoy hurting other lifeforms, I avoid hurting worms, slugs,insects etc.

If it's any consolation I had to spend the evening with people who are richer then me. I had fun thinking about my poor financial decisions that lead to me being poor compared to them.

It’s not.
I serve upper middle class people every day. I also play video games with upper middle class people. My uncle is upper upper middle class. I deal with rich people complaining about their rich people problems all the time at work. I nod and say um hmm, pret being to understand but I don’t. Gosh I wish I had their “problems”

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That means you have a job. That's more than some people have.

I work at a store geared towards upper middle class shoppers with lots of money.
2,000 dollar tent no problem. 10-30 thousand on guns a month no problem. Exnpensive boats and boat stuff no problem. One of their problems is whether to buy a new boat this month or a new multi thousand dollar gun. We do get some lower middle class people but they’re the minority. The poor people seem to just steal from us.
Before I worked their it’s a store I would look at and not buy from. I still can’t afford most the stuff. Like a $500 sika jacket. Even our store brand jacket is $350.
I paid $35 for my Columbia jacket. And our prices are usually higher then other stores for the same thing. Upper middle class prefer it for the status and brand etc. gives me some extra money though, so in grin and bare it. Non of them would give me time of day outside of work, and if they knew I was on ssi they’d be pissed at me.
It’s funny bough they have so much money and be buying something for thousands of dollars but fight you over $5 price difference. They mostly nice enough, some ignore me outright though when I try to greet them. Had one person bump into me and was about to apologize then turned around and was like oh it’s just an employee, and then carried on.

Lower middle class ones are nicer. They buy the cheaper stuff. So come into my department a lot regularly. I still can’t empthize with their “problems” though. Especially ones about their wife not letting them buy things. I don’t have a gf.nber have, why do they assume I do? 0.o do they not see where I work. Maybe they assume retail pays more given the store I work in. That or they assume like most the younger employees I’m in college and only working here temporarily. I don’t tell the, the truth. Seems pointless and I’m sure Corp wouldn’t approve. They wouldn’t understand. I’m like a flea compared to them. Even my coworkers don’t get it. The one who asked just told me I need to get to it(finding s wife starting a family) as Times running out
I’m well aware dude, don’t need you pointing out how horrible my life is. But he’s upper middle class too. A lot of employees there are working it as a extra income for discounts. Besides the managers, everyone’s either in college, working another full time good paying job, or retired. Then there’s crappy me 29 and this is my sole job forever.
Some are nice to me but again I pretend and can relate. They buy thousands of dollars of stuff s month. I can’t afford that they assume I can. So I make excuses why I can’t. Lucky this is holidays so I’m like no I already spent so much on Christmas gifts.

I’ll have to figure out new excuses after holidays thoughas to why I can’t afford a $300 scope for a $1500 gun I can’t afford and don’t have .

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But a lot of women and men don’t consider it a job. Anything min wage isn’t a job to them. Doesn’t matter how hard I work.

Hi Sly,

The class issues you see at work also apply to relationships. More often than not, there is an education gap as well. Even if the less educated partner is really smart, the gaps in education will make it hard to keep a relationship together. Lower income people often stay that way even though they inherit money or win the lottery. They never learn how to manage money. This is a huge stress on a relationship if the two parties have vastly different views on handling money.

Educated people often spend a lot of go to Special Interest conferences to socialize. I've been to dozens myself.

^ Well in that case I'm screwed because I never got into college

Also I'm so bad at managing money that I can't even buy a house. This means I have to pay rent. Playing rent means I don't have enough money to buy a house. It's a vicious cycle. No wonder girls don't want me.

College doesn’t equal smart. Lots of rich people are stupid but dady donates millions to the college.

Also I’m
Much better at managing money then most middle class I’ve met. Sure they make a lot more but they also waste a lot more.

But I get it I’m not good enough for any women. Why do you keep beating a dead horse.

They go to conferences to keep up on their job. Technology is always changing. I I’d became a mechanic I’d had to go to conferences and classes that wouldn’t made me educated or intelligent in others my minds.

Guess you think I should tell this girl I’m not good enough and block her.
I probably won’t have to though she’s been talking less . I shouldn’t messaged her but then I didn’t know she was a nurse until after talking for a while .

College provides further education. Not just in academic subjects, but social interaction as well.