How can I tell my girlfriend she is fat?

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Living where I do, I kind of get Cat23's line of thinking better than anyone else in the thread.

She didn't say a guy that earns enough money to buy a $3.5M house now. She said an older guy who owns a house that's worth $3.5M now, and that he likely bought it decades ago for $30K.

This is very common here, too. I get the whole bit about the elderly who can't even afford to pay their property taxes yet live in what is now a multimillion dollar home. Heck, I'm posting from the house in the suburbs where I rent from family. It's worth a bit more than $1M now. My father, a drywaller (regular blue collar construction worker) bought his first house about 1984 for $89K, sold it approx 10 years ago for ~$450K (to my older brother, which was a deal) and bought this one brand new for $450K (another cheap deal, it was the lowest price paid in the entire development). That's out in the somewhat undesirable suburbs. Other areas of town have appreciated far, FAR, more. It's how we have $60M mansions. Now new prices are in the stratosphere.. one new condo building coming up will average $5.5M per unit, the most expensive in the city to date at $3000/sf. But yeah, a lot of regular people who are relatively cash poor now live in houses worth more than $1M & there are many semi-retired people who's property's appreciated far more, so it's not a stretch to find some older guy with a $3.5M home if he bought into the market years ago.

Women when looking for a guy: He needs to have a nice house, nice car, well paying job, be in shape, know how to read her body language, be taller than her, be social

Men when looking for a woman: Don't be fat and don't be b*tchy
Yet naturally men get all the hate for being shallow.

I can tell you’re never going to get anyone. No, I’m not fat, either.

You don't even know me. I won't get anyone, because I speak the truth and refuse to live in delusion? What, do you just scour the forums to make comments like that? I can tell YOU might get with someone, because well you're a woman and any woman can find a man. I just feel sorry for the guy you get with. If you're this bitchy online, who knows how bad you are in real life. By the way, I dated someone who is schizophrenic. Anything you could say to me pales in comparison to what I've dealt with.

I don’t need to. You fixate on what people look like rather than who they are. Why were you going on and on about that girl being fat? Give it a rest about the fat girl. She’s not your girlfriend so shut up about her. I don’t like you. You don’t like me, and that’s fine.