My gf seems to be bothered that I am 'white and privileged'.

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I will have to agree with Aspie1 in the sense that you keep posting about this and now this thread is 32 pages long. If you are getting tested constantly, that leads me to believe that she isn't mature enough for a relationship with you.

A rule of thumb for me and my relationships are:

If I have to post about a problem I am having on the internet, I will get many different opinions and that will lead me to overanalzying the s**t out of the problem. I am thankful that I do have a friend to talk to about some things so I don't find myself asking people I don't know about a personal issue.

I agree. The Red Pill says that a straight relationship should be EASY. That is, flow naturally and feel comfortable. Each partner plays a certain role they're equipped for---with the man being the protector and the woman being the nurturer---and the two roles fit together well. At the same time, the Red Pill quietly praises LGBT relationships for being largely peaceful and conflict-free, due to the matching mindsets of two men or two women.

The idea of a relationship being "hard work" is feminist Blue Pill thinking. Plus, it's exclusively the man who does the hard work, like scrambling to get "right" gifts and come up with "correct" answers to loaded questions in order to stay out of the doghouse.

I don't know about the red pill vs blue pill way of thinking but I can look it into it. As for a woman testing me, even if I left her and looked for another gf, I would still have to put up testing as I have had to in all the relationships I've had before so far.

So wouldn't I just be substituting one form of testing for another, and it's not worth it, if everything else in the relationship is good, since no matter who you date, there will always be testing?

When it comes to perspective, my wife doesn't test me. It is more of a memory thing. If I say one thing, then down the road I say or do something that doesn't go well with that thing I said, she will remind me. Earlier, she might ask questions to get to know me and see what rational thought I have for a decision I make. She wants to see where my morals are. They aren't tests in the sense that Aspie1 is saying they could be. They are questions to get to know me. Not once did I see myself get tested.

My 2 year old toddler will test me to see what I will allow him to do.

Oh okay. Well when it comes to a woman's tests it is said that I pass them by not giving in. However, does this always work though?

One time I had a gf who was testing and I finally said to her that if she tests me again I will break up with her. A few weeks down the road, she did it again and I broke up with her. So she didn't consider me passing the test, since she decided to do the one thing that I told her will end the relationship. So I wonder does not submitting to the test always work therefore?

If you're not a genuine alpha male, you will never genuinely pass a woman's tests; you can only fake-pass them until you fail. With the situation you're in with that liberal shrew of yours, the only way to truly win is to dump her, walk away, and act like you never met her. Then find a conservative woman; they're a joy to be around; take my word for it.

Oh okay, but the one I broke up with before was conservative though, and she still tested me though. I didn't think that that mattered since both sides of the political spectrum of women test, don't they?

I will repeat one thing: my 2 year old toddler will test me to see what I let him get away with.

A woman like yours is testing your boundaries and quite possibly isn't mature enough for a relationship with you. Unfortunately, you seem to have this mindset that you need to settle because everyone is all the same. Perhaps you need to take a look at your past relationships and look at the common denominations each type of woman you attracted were like. This one is immature, others tested you. I have to wonder if any of these ladies were fresh out of relationships or make it clear to you that they like to hang out alone with other men/boys.

Oh okay. None of them told me they like to hang out with other guys. Well it's just been my experience so far, and I cannot find any women who do not test so far, and I was told this is normal, especially if the woman wants a guy with some value, which most seem to want.

Well I've doing a lot of thinking and is it true that usually conservative women, don't test?

To be fair he's not going to listen you. He has a 20 something hot babe who is giving him attention and sex. Would you give that up because she's a little bit woke?

Why be in a happy, loving relationship with a woman when you can be bitter, alone and blame it all on liberals, who are somehow synonymous with the left? Isn't #foreveralone #allmyshortcomingsarethelibsfault the goal?

Yeah sure! because there's an epidemic of conservative hot 21 year old babes looking for middle aged men

There would be except for the wokeist leftists brainwashing them to be communist lesbians who only f**k alpha males and never settle for guys like me.

Oh the shame!

Or get a time machine and go back to the 1950s, when Aspie1's paleolithic mindset wasn't so obviously ludicrous.