I don't understand why I can't get a woman! [! SATIRE !]

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It wasn’t my worst Wednesday night.

Another elder: take the 19 year old young woman aside at church and tell her that since she’s “a large-chested woman” she needs to be “more careful” about what she wears. (Say it in front of other elders so multiple people’s attention can be focused on the same bosom at the same time.) She was a modest dresser and not particularly large-chested IMO although I suppose that's subjective. He made his daughter wear baggy, oversized sweaters that covered everything.

ANYWAY, talk about awkward! The young woman in question, whoever she may be, felt very self conscious after that around certain headships.

Apparently, being a cult leader entitles one to make such observations to a lowly female.

Advice on how to “get” a woman: join a cult! Single JW women who stay with the religion outnumber single JW men who do. Misogynistic beliefs wouldn’t be a problem, either. Win-win.

Have I mentioned booby traps, OP? I must have.

Boobies can be a trap to lure hapless young men away from the path of true righteousness.

Serious, triggering question that's been bugging me:











Would it be a turn off to most people if it was clear that the other person did NOT want to sleep with you - like if they had already said no and were crying or whatever? Or would a normal person just not act on it? Could following through be related to sadism?

Sting your Willy with a wasp.It will make it huge, right?All b*****s want is a big thic pud.

Don’t even try this.I saw the results and it makes it lopsided and comical.
Not to mention it’s just stupid as hell.
Supposedly it’s in the Kama sutra but I don’t know.

It sounds painful. I should tell my ex about this so he'll try it.

Tell him it will be YUGE!!

Unless you're that alpha, girls won't like you. You gotta wait until your facial markings come in.

Or a really big red one.

I have always been puzzled by how rapists/offenders can even be physically aroused while the other person is clearly physically rejecting them or not showing any enthusiasm toward them. It is a total turn off to me if my partner shows the slightest disinterest in the moment; let alone if she is crying or not wanting me nearby.

I could only find one study on this subject https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/889413/ (trigger warning).

^ Thank you. That’s very helpful!

I can see play involving those ideas being enjoyable.

I really struggle to see how genuinely harming someone would be though.

The whole idea with play is that usually you've discussed rules to ensure things don't go too far; but also, you know it's something that's desired, in a controlled setting, not something undesired in an uncontrolled setting.

I don’t even like bdsm or any of the sort; not my thing.

I wasn’t talking about bdsm.

I was wondering if a normal person would stay aroused in an obviously nonconsensual situation.

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I understand, but some insights might still be applicable.

I think seeing someone flinch (for example) has a subconscious effect, I'd anticipate other helplessly defensive behaviours provoke similar responses. I'd certainly hope that for most people that would subconsciously trigger an inhibition on their aggression.

I would think that it would require an exceptionally high degree of sadism, possibly combined with an inability to understand the depth of distress another person can feel to be able to ignore or even feed off of that sort of level of distress you're implying.

Callousness often involves issues with how one experiences their own emotions just as much as with how one interacts with others, if one's deepest distresses don't carry substantial emotional weight they might fail to realize that's not how most people feel extreme distress. This might also help explain the tendency for people with that trait to gaslight others on their negative experiences, it's not that bad because for them, it literally couldn't be that bad, so they insist it's not as big of deal as it was.

Personally, even with all sorts of conscious elements working against those subconscious factors, they can be triggered and that's where I start not feeling so comfortable with further participation.

Although, I might be projecting inhibitions on to others.