What do men want?

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A woman who isnt a gold digger or reject me after finding out im an aspie! Aspergers or any other form of autism tends to act like a lady repellent!

See this is what is strange. I mean there are tons of male singers out there who are very good looking, dance well, sing well, etc. I loved NSYNC, 98 Degrees, Backstreet Boys, O-Town, Take That, but I didn't get sexually interested. Just thought that their songs were great. There were also some good looking college men in the music dept at my college but none interested me in that way. But Pitbull is different. I did like some rap prior to him. I like 2 Pac Changes, Puff Daddy Missing You, Will Smith MIB theme from first movie, Bone Thugs N Harmony Crossroads, and Blackstreet No Diggity. But with Pitbull I like so many of his songs. Maroon 5 is another band I like and think the Adam the lead singer is good looking, but I'm not sexually interested. But Pitbull is hot too. He dresses well and dances well. Maybe its his lyrics that get me sexually interested? Words like

Pull that g string down south from Hotel Room Service

I was playing with her, and she was playing with me, next thing you know we are playing with 3. That's from Rain Over Me.

Back In Time doesn't have sexually explicit lyrics yet I go nuts when I hear it. So I really don't know why I am so into him when rap isn't even my main type of music I like. Probably a lot of ladies like Pit because he turns them on with his lyrics?

When I had boyfriend I did things that I wouldn't do to please him, to let him think I'm like all the normal girls. I went to raves and never liked it. I didn't like to be around people who dressed weird and did X. I didn't understand the whole glowing lights thing. I wanted to do certain sexually things for the boyfriend but in my mind I didn't want to do it. I want to do things to make a man love me. But I think the main thing is I have to do things that I want to do and not do things to make the man think I'm normal. Love yourself and be yourself in other wards. So if by chance Pit or any man like him wants me to go down on him, I will have to decline. I'm not into that whole oral thing. I rather have my first date be a walk on the beach. Why does it have to be sex all the time? Is sex all the time a key to a loving happy relationship? What is the whole thing with open relationship that Pit likes? That means that he will never get a girlfriend? Never propose? Never get married? If he has children from various women it shows me he doesn't have any romantic feelings for them. But I could be wrong. So if he does have a steady girlfriend, then she would have to accept that he will have sex with other women? If he gets married, then his wife will have to accept that he will have affairs? Or that he would have to marry a woman who is also into open relationship so that they can be swingers? So a man or woman in open relationship don't truly love

I'm just assuming that Mr. Pitbull has vaginal coitus with a different audience member immediately following each performance. But, I don't know. I'd rather go to church than a Pitbull concert.

I can't think of a less sexy way to refer to sex than "vaginal coitus."

You know that a lot of guys will coax you into doing it? You may have to be quite assertive in getting across the fact that you don't want to have sex with them.

Yes, but this is Pitbull we're talking about.

Since I go to church of my own free will, I'd rather go to the DMV than a Pitbull concert.

I don't find Pittbull hot in the least.

There are a lot of hot singers/rappers/preformers.

Pittbull is not one of them.

Did he choose his stage name based on people apparently wanting to muzzle him?

Sexy just isn't in our bag here at WP

Well I assume that the lady fan would have to sit in front row to get his eye. Most likely she would have to have a big chest, be very attractive, and be Latina, dress in tight clothing like Jennifer Lopez. I don't wear anything close to what Jennifer Lopez wears. I don't have a huge chest like Dolly Parton. I'm not Latina. I don't consider myself attractive, just ok looking. I'm not overweight though. I'm petite.

http://www.mjsbigblog.com/myphotos/gall ... 2011-5.jpg

Maybe show him his chest to get attention? If some of his concerts are 21 and up, maybe alcohol and showing the chest is ok?? I don't know. I rather see Michael Buble in concert over Pitbull so that I feel safe. I know that certain rap concerts can attract violence and mosh pits.

Well any man who is trying to coax me or pressure me to have sex doesn't love me for who I am. He doesn't care about my feelings and my morals. If a man truly loves me for ME and not for my outer image, then he is good. But someone like Pit is different I guess. I don't know. When a very attractive man wants to make out, it's tempting no matter what. Plus I don't want to be a wuss and say nah no sex. I don't know.

You're not going to get with Pitbull - and any man who knows that Pitbull is your ideal mate will most likely be turned off. Unless he happens to be bald and cuban, or a douchebag.

http://en.mediamass.net/people/pitbull/married.html

Interesting. Apparently the fans in Miami also know more about his private life.

So a man like Pitbull is not good enough for a person like me?

Agreed.