AS Standards-Likes and dislikes in the opposite sex

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Dislike = poor personal hygiene and right-wingedness
Like = geeky metalheads that know where the shower is

ok so a few of my shallow ones:

likes:
slight squint
hoodies
tattoos (not prison ones though )
low voice
sarcastic/dark humour
arrogance (although too much can be a major turn-off)

dislikes:
emo haircuts
overly tight trousers
hair gel
uniforms
teetotals
indecisiveness

Must haves:

Is an Aspie
Likes the Simpsons and South Park, among other things
Politically conservative or libertarian
Can tolerate an "artsy meets yuppie" lifestyle
Christian
Is traditionalist when it comes to relationships, but isn't asexual, or waiting until marriage or believes that sex should be limited to procreational purposes.
Non drinker/non smoker/non drug user
Curvy in appearance.

those i can think of:

likes:
good looks
intelligence*
humor*
distrust in mankind (shows me a healthy way of reasoning)
if NT she must be a mothering type, who can pay bills for me without getting pissed off

*if a chick can crack me up, she doesnt even need the good looks to hit the z.

dislikes:
gullible attitude to authority and people in power
PC'ness, sighing or eyerolling to lame jokes.
stupidity/ignorance
promiscuity
insecurity-driven "enhancements"
insecurity-driven complaining and nagging, well
insecurity in general

I am 6'2 and 220lbs with a 36 inch waist. I do not have sculptured abs by any stretch of the imagination, I have love handles. But I look OK for 40 years old. But I continue to work on my fitness because it increases my ability to have social value at work. You can have a huge house, a great car, expensive clothing, and set world records, but when you walk into a room, people will judge you by your shape. If you look fit, you will get more respect-because it reflects personal discipline. It will also lessen the negitive effects of AS at the office. I'm one of two AS guys in the office. The other guy keeps getting austrizised for doing the same things I do, because he's fat. (we work with the millitary, who do not respect out of shape people at all). I had a former green beret give me a shoulder hug yesterday. He said.."you know, your one of us". I asked him why? He said because I kept going to the gym while all the other analyst waist away. Despite all the analyst working 14-16 hour shifts, I get the respect because i hit the gym. So why wouldn't dating be the same?

I think fitness and fashon are reflections of someones personality. For example, overly made up hair, heavy makup, perfect cloths and high-healed shoes, normaly attractive to most males, are a complete turn off to me. I think women who dress like that are a pain in the a**. If a woman showed up with permed hair, overwight, and "proud mom of three kids" on her shirt she would also probably not have much in common with me. I have never had anything in common with someone who put family members on thier shirt. I have never had anything in common with a person that wears a cowboy hat in the city (male or female). These are all shallow judgements, but based on my ability to get along with people, not an arbitrary value.