Aspie Affection????

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I told the girl I was after I don;t care if she overweight as long as she tries then thats sexy.

Are you talking to anyone that's replied to this thread? To me prehaps?

hellnzrn told me to stop gloating then he said something about making up lies about yourself and aspies. He said he was just trying to be a badass about gloating.

Gloating should be done with tact help the others which I DO.

I just don't think gloating should happen at all. That's what I think. I've never put much thought into doing it.

Unless you think everyone is trying to kill/ hurt you damn truama. But seriously If you work hard you don;t have the right to when its not directed toward someone? I know its not true but it is harassing me non stop I can;t even live normally.

oh well it's just that i was in such a situation... i was in an online relationship for like 1 1/2 years... and the thing is, the girl really liked me online... but when we met it was like a disaster...! and it certainy didn't help that i had no idea i had aspergers or that i had nice guy syndrome or love-shy syndrome... she always felt that there was something wrong with me... because i was being nice to her ... but then she'd get upset cos she thought i was too needy... and then i'd try harder to be nicer, etc... and it was a disaster..!

bascailly i think u should tell her right from the get go, what aspergers is and that u have it.. but maybe u should get a second opinion on that... on second thought, just flip a coin..! if she's too stupid to want to find out what aspergers is, then your better off without her... and she's better off with a tall jerk with a sixpack and a foot long penis.

use the website to MEET your potential LTR mate... DON"T use the internet to carry your relationship...! !! !! after you meet in real life, exchange phone numbers etc, just forget the computer... u want to talk to her, give her a call or meet... forget the online stuff like email and website, etc!

well, i'm not an expert, so just get a second opin... i mean throw a dice...! and make sure it's a male one... a female one will just land on a corner or something crazy like that!

Why did I even think of getting advice from you?

I'm thinking more and more that dating websites are really the only viable option for me in Southern Ontario. The few single girls around here left are getting snapped up rapidly and there are almost zero single girls that I have been able to find. Meanwhile there are swarms of single guys all over this university. But I can't find the single women, because the few that are single are temporarily single and get snapped up by guys like me.

Dating websites at least almost fully guarantee that the girl you're meeting is single, and there are a handful of singles in this region - it's just that they are impossible to find in the real world. For awhile I knew a few singles but it's appearig that there's always a number of girls in transition from one boyfriend to the next. The few other single women I know are simply not looking for a boyfriend at the moment, either due to lack of desire or being too busy with various other activities.

The women I have found online so far are all in that transition phase. All of them have been in relationships before and are looking for the next one. The key to finding a single girl is finding someone in that transition phase, and almost all of the girls I've found at that point in their dating life are online.

So if you're a desperate girl, or gay guy, come on up to Southern Ontario and watch yourself get into a relationship within a matter of days! And you don't even have to be considered attractive. Here, if you're a girl and you exist, swarms of guys jump all over, notwithstanding their attractiveness, because a lot of guys just want a girl, not necessarily a good-looking girl. At least if they have been seen with a girlfriend for a period of time, more attractive or otherwise desirable girls will see that the guy is in demand, and is not "damaged goods", which is something women monitor very closely in their calculus. Around here, I can only name one young woman age 18 or over who has never had a boyfriend. I was able to name two until about three weeks ago, and the one that is left is not at all interested in a relationship with anyone. Is it because of the high number of engineering schools here? Is it a product of randomly high numbers of female fetuses being aborted in Canada (which has one of the highest abortion rates in the world)? Is it a product of immigration whereby many more men than women are entering the country? And why would it be the other way around in Telford, England? Who knows.

This sounds like a utopia to many young women I'm sure, but all you need to do is travel to Toronto, Ottawa, London, Kitchener, Windsor, Sudbury, or Kingston, and just stand on a street corner. And you'll be in a relationship within hours.

As I've said before, there's suddenly and suspiciously a lot of people from Senegal and Cote D'Ivorie on Aspie Affection. Seems to me as if it's some kind of organized thing that happens on a lot of dating sites.

I've considered joining sex-only sites like Adult Friend Finder, but after looking through the members photos of women from Norway there I'm sure there are only prostitutes or people looking for a laugh or free porn on that website. I also have too bad social skills to trust people so I'd rather stay a virgin forever, thanks.

You're a loser. (sorry, this is not a flame, just stating a fact) But you probably have admitted this to yourself already, right?

I know it and I've accepted it.

can you find something postive to say with that negative?

You mean apart from the pretty obvious fact that I'm only looking for casual sex?

Yeah I expected this much.

trying to teach social skills