Am I the only physically attractive aspie?

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03 Aug 2010, 12:44 pm

Why oh why did that brain damaged idiot have to post in a thread that was dead for so long?
can't a mod just...delete this thread? = /

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03 Aug 2010, 12:55 pm

It depends what you think is attractive.

I don't think I am to be honest. :nerdy:

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03 Aug 2010, 12:56 pm

JohnG wrote:

To NT standards I mean. I somehow get the feeling that people think I am a handsome/physically attractive guy. My mom says so. Even my IM buddy said so when I sent a picture of my face to him. I also started working out on the first day of March. I work out with dumbbells and machines 3 days in a week and in the future I also plan to do cardio on the rest of the 4 ddays of the week so I can keep myself with that lean and toned muscular look. I say that my outlook on myself is a far cry from a couple years ago.

So, yeah, I may be somewhat-wildly physically attractive, but I still don't quite have much social skills still.

Once again today this song is relevant:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJ_P0IY2jEo[/youtube]

But, seriously, how is this thread five pages?

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03 Aug 2010, 1:12 pm

Pfft....I'm an aspie and I'm attractive :roll:

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05 Jan 2013, 7:56 pm

Apparently I'm an attractive aspie lol people tell me every now and then but only few people even know I'm one

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05 Jan 2013, 8:00 pm

Way to necro-bump a 2-year-old thread.

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05 Jan 2013, 8:11 pm

Lol I didn't didn't know it was that old this is my first post on anything

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05 Jan 2013, 8:16 pm

hee hee... no problem. Welcome aboard and good job using this site's odd "search" feature.

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05 Jan 2013, 8:36 pm

i need to be more attractive

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05 Jan 2013, 8:59 pm

Man, what's with the resurrection of old threads as of late? O.o

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05 Jan 2013, 10:07 pm

OMGitsKenny wrote:

Man, what's with the resurrection of old threads as of late? O.o

IDK, but I always wondered what I was like a couple of years ago.

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06 Jan 2013, 9:12 pm

There can be attractive aspies.

Many people with aspies can become average or even be above-average if they cared about how they look. For instance, not combing their hair, dressing in sloppy clothes, person hygeine, etc.

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06 Jan 2013, 9:51 pm

Attractiveness is subjective. Unless of course you're a male/female supermodel with perfect proportions and a perfect face (which is extremely, extremely rare).

I think what a lot of aspies don't realize is that complimenting people on their looks is a social nicety that most people engage in on a daily basis - and exaggerating the truth or telling white lies is a standard part of the process.

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06 Jan 2013, 9:56 pm

When I finished school and people actually started wanting to talk to me I couldn't understand for a while why the compliments I received were so disproportionate to what I saw when I looked in the mirror, as I took every appearance-based compliment I received literally rather than understanding them to be the most flattering version of the truth.

I hope this makes sense. I think this is why a lot of aspies feel overwhelmed and confused by so many people apparently considering them to be extremely attractive.

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25 Feb 2013, 5:44 pm

JohnG wrote:

if you are able to get girls then definetley you are

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27 Feb 2013, 3:01 pm

yup you are.

Face it, we aspergerians aren't known for our looks.

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