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RICKY5
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18 Aug 2010, 11:16 pm

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What do you know about love? All you want is to f**k women. That's not love, that's lust.


Yeah...and? :P 8)


Hey if all you want to do is get laid, then go do that. But don't expect every guy to behave in the same manner as you...


Sounds good to me. How's life as the White Knight of Rectal Certitude?



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18 Aug 2010, 11:18 pm

I wouldn't know, because i'm not any kind of "white knight". I'm just a guy that has different opinions and is tired of you shoving yours in all our faces...



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19 Aug 2010, 1:56 am

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Sweetie, you are in competition (for a guy's time, energy, affection, and money) with a number of other things (xbox, hobbies, other women...) that bring him enjoyment.


Don't you start talking down to me by calling me "sweetie." There's nothing more annoying than a condescending chauvinist pig.


ahhahahahahhahahaha whatever you say Princess...

With that attitude, let's get you fitted right now for a buzzcut, a plaid shirt, and a pair of Doc Martens! :D :P

You have no sense of humor.

What do I see here? Is Ricky busting his 'player' moves on Erisad? Or is he trying to kick someone allready down?

Its a shame you cant buy integrity as easily as you can get hookers as he needs the former more than the later :?
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I think Ricky, that your are disproportionally nasty to Erisad and Toady, Ive said much ruder things to you than they ever had, yet you have never been so nasty to me.

You should realise that your not different to Toad and Erisad, they are frightened of sex but you are frightened of love and that is just as maladapive and fear based.

You would serve yourself better if insted of focusing on Toad and Erisads inadequacies (in a mean way) you looked to yourself and examined where you could change your own unhelpful attitudes to relationships. You have clearly been effected by your mother being horrible so you should work on that insted of carrying it around with you. It holds you back and stops you from being the person your entitled to be.



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19 Aug 2010, 7:03 am

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I enjoy seeing working girls simply because it is far less stressful and time-consuming than approaching and running game is.


What is "Game"? The meaning is unclear from your and Roissy's posts.


Game means asserting yourself as a man at all times..


I never realised you were a man. Is it that hard to prove? :wink: :P



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19 Aug 2010, 7:30 am

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What do I see here? Is Ricky busting his 'player' moves on Erisad? Or is he trying to kick someone allready down?

Its a shame you cant buy integrity as easily as you can get hookers as he needs the former more than the later :?
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I think Ricky, that your are disproportionally nasty to Erisad and Toady, Ive said much ruder things to you than they ever had, yet you have never been so nasty to me.

You should realise that your not different to Toad and Erisad, they are frightened of sex but you are frightened of love and that is just as maladapive and fear based.

You would serve yourself better if insted of focusing on Toad and Erisads inadequacies (in a mean way) you looked to yourself and examined where you could change your own unhelpful attitudes to relationships. You have clearly been effected by your mother being horrible so you should work on that insted of carrying it around with you. It holds you back and stops you from being the person your entitled to be.


+1

Thank you! :D

Maybe I should develop a recipe for an "integrity muffin" and sell them around the world. I'd be rich! Lolz. ^_^



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19 Aug 2010, 11:54 pm

CrinklyCrustacean wrote:
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I enjoy seeing working girls simply because it is far less stressful and time-consuming than approaching and running game is.


What is "Game"? The meaning is unclear from your and Roissy's posts.


Game means asserting yourself as a man at all times..


I never realised you were a man. Is it that hard to prove? :wink: :P


No biggie. I thought you were a girl for a minute from your screen name. :P



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19 Aug 2010, 11:57 pm

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What do I see here? Is Ricky busting his 'player' moves on Erisad? Or is he trying to kick someone allready down?

Its a shame you cant buy integrity as easily as you can get hookers as he needs the former more than the later :?
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I think Ricky, that your are disproportionally nasty to Erisad and Toady, Ive said much ruder things to you than they ever had, yet you have never been so nasty to me.

You should realise that your not different to Toad and Erisad, they are frightened of sex but you are frightened of love and that is just as maladapive and fear based.

You would serve yourself better if insted of focusing on Toad and Erisads inadequacies (in a mean way) you looked to yourself and examined where you could change your own unhelpful attitudes to relationships. You have clearly been effected by your mother being horrible so you should work on that insted of carrying it around with you. It holds you back and stops you from being the person your entitled to be.


+1

Thank you! :D

Maybe I should develop a recipe for an "integrity muffin" and sell them around the world. I'd be rich! Lolz. ^_^


That sounds like an awesome MacGuffin (Google it) for an action thriller movie.

The pitch:

Aspie girl invents integrity muffin. Corrupt politicians (I know that is a bit redundant) try to have her assassinated. Jason Statham stars as the guy who has to take her to safety.

The script writes itself!



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19 Aug 2010, 11:59 pm

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Sweetie, you are in competition (for a guy's time, energy, affection, and money) with a number of other things (xbox, hobbies, other women...) that bring him enjoyment.


Don't you start talking down to me by calling me "sweetie." There's nothing more annoying than a condescending chauvinist pig.


Calling people names isn't going to change your unlovable image, Mrs ToadofSteel.


So him telling me that it's my duty to suck a man's dick is okay but calling him out on it isn't? Also, you don't have to remind me that I'm an unlovable b***h. I already know that.

RICKY5 - I DO have a sense of humor. I just don't tolerate sexism. Just because I'm not a frail little flower doesn't mean I'm a butch lesbian. Granted, this will probably fall on deaf ears because you're sooo convinced that you're better than me because of your penis. D:


Lighten up toots! :P

Simply saying that your attitude sucks ass (and not in the fun way either).

Why would a guy want to come home to Debbie Downer? "Love" is being happy to see someone. "Love" is you can't wait to come home to see them again. "Love" is also a two-way street.


love is a personal thing, a girl I really liked was a real b***h to most people, but I enjoyed being around her.
No she didn't like me that way, but I still tried, my point is, you can't define love by what you feel it is
and if you wanna get laid, cool, but most people here are gonna flame you for it
just sayin

and toad-you are a white knight, accept it



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20 Aug 2010, 7:35 am

RICKY5 wrote:
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lotusblossom wrote:
What do I see here? Is Ricky busting his 'player' moves on Erisad? Or is he trying to kick someone allready down?

Its a shame you cant buy integrity as easily as you can get hookers as he needs the former more than the later :?
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I think Ricky, that your are disproportionally nasty to Erisad and Toady, Ive said much ruder things to you than they ever had, yet you have never been so nasty to me.

You should realise that your not different to Toad and Erisad, they are frightened of sex but you are frightened of love and that is just as maladapive and fear based.

You would serve yourself better if insted of focusing on Toad and Erisads inadequacies (in a mean way) you looked to yourself and examined where you could change your own unhelpful attitudes to relationships. You have clearly been effected by your mother being horrible so you should work on that insted of carrying it around with you. It holds you back and stops you from being the person your entitled to be.


+1

Thank you! :D

Maybe I should develop a recipe for an "integrity muffin" and sell them around the world. I'd be rich! Lolz. ^_^


That sounds like an awesome MacGuffin (Google it) for an action thriller movie.

The pitch:

Aspie girl invents integrity muffin. Corrupt politicians (I know that is a bit redundant) try to have her assassinated. Jason Statham stars as the guy who has to take her to safety.

The script writes itself!


I should totally use that for my drama writing class. I'd get an A or at least a "Very interesting..." out of the prof. :o



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20 Aug 2010, 8:49 am

I know the commandments are generally true, but they're useless presented in this format, as is most pick-up material. These skills and mindsets are what a guy after years of successful social interaction might develop on a subconscious level. Reading material on game and trying to apply it from scratch is useless and will make you a mega-jerk that gets nowhere with women.

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As a kid, I didn't give two s**ts about everyone else's needs and thought I was the most important person in the universe. And everybody hated me. Now that I realize that it's not all about me, I'm actually fairly well liked. So, in a way, I am focusing on my own needs, by helping others with theirs.


And are you really appreciated for it? Are your needs really met by being so "nice" to others? It seems to me that they are not being met.

You really should read John Glover's Overcoming the Nice Guy Syndrome. You have the toxic shame in a bad way.


Toad seems to be on the right track here actually. Becoming a social person and learning to think about others is the bulk of the work when learning to be better with women. That takes years of practice to get good, while anybody with a spare hour can learn all they need to know about this male empowerment mantra. However, that material sells because it gives hope to the hopeless. Going from a socially-adjusted "nice guy" to someone with pick-up skills is a pretty small adjustment compared to spanning that bridge starting at bitter internet troll.

I've known some guys who were amazing with women. They could have all the sex they could handle and could routinely meet girls and bring them home the same day. They were really good, nice guys. Not douchebags at all. About 90% of what they did could be classified as regular social interaction with a tiny bit of game.



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21 Aug 2010, 5:32 pm

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I've known some guys who were amazing with women. They could have all the sex they could handle and could routinely meet girls and bring them home the same day. They were really good, nice guys. Not douchebags at all. About 90% of what they did could be classified as regular social interaction with a tiny bit of game.

The question is, how much money did they earn? If they have well-paying jobs/careers, that could've had something to do with it.



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22 Aug 2010, 10:34 am

BPalmer wrote:
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I've known some guys who were amazing with women. They could have all the sex they could handle and could routinely meet girls and bring them home the same day. They were really good, nice guys. Not douchebags at all. About 90% of what they did could be classified as regular social interaction with a tiny bit of game.

The question is, how much money did they earn? If they have well-paying jobs/careers, that could've had something to do with it.


I guess they wern't bums, but not well off either. A lot of this was during college, and everyone is relatively poor then. However, even afterward a better job might help, but did not guarantee success. All that money did was help a bit in the qualification process. By that I mean does she find the guy to be up to her standards. However, there are a lot of guys that measured up that wouldn't get laid.

What actually got a guy from an introduction to the bedroom was totally skill based. Both general conversation skills, and knowing when to "make a move". Also, it was usually the more popular guys that got the women. It only makes sense as they're constantly meeting new people (more opportunities) and have excellent social skills. Although this could be worked around, it generally took a lot more skill to do the lone wolf thing.



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If you allow a woman to make the rules she will resent you with a seething contempt even a rapist cannot inspire. The strongest woman and the most strident feminist wants to be led by, and to submit to, a more powerful man. Polarity is the core of a healthy loving relationship. She does not want the prerogative to walk all over you with her capricious demands and mercurial moods. Her emotions are a hurricane, her soul a saboteur. Think of yourself as a bulwark against her tempest. When she grasps for a pillar to steady herself against the whipping winds or yearns for an authority figure to foil her worst instincts, it is you who has to be there… strong, solid, unshakeable and immovable.


This IMO is very bad advice. You should never try and dominate in a relationship. People should always treat each other as equals and as fellow intelligent adults.


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If you allow a woman to make the rules she will resent you with a seething contempt even a rapist cannot inspire. The strongest woman and the most strident feminist wants to be led by, and to submit to, a more powerful man. Polarity is the core of a healthy loving relationship. She does not want the prerogative to walk all over you with her capricious demands and mercurial moods. Her emotions are a hurricane, her soul a saboteur. Think of yourself as a bulwark against her tempest. When she grasps for a pillar to steady herself against the whipping winds or yearns for an authority figure to foil her worst instincts, it is you who has to be there… strong, solid, unshakeable and immovable.


This IMO is very bad advice. You should never try and dominate in a relationship. People should always treat each other as equals and as fellow intelligent adults.


I suspect that this list is a satire.



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22 Aug 2010, 10:58 am

This one sounds plain DANGEROUS.

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XIII. Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little

Touching a woman inappropriately on the first date will get you further with her than not touching her at all. Don’t let a woman’s faux indignation at your boldness sway you; they secretly love it when a man aggressively pursues what he wants and makes his sexual intentions known. You don’t have to be an a**hole, but if you have no choice, being an inconsiderate a**hole beats being a polite beta, every time.


He's basically saying that if she's uncomfortable with something, you should do it anyway. He's saying that no doesn't really mean no, and that if she says no it's okay to keep forcing her.


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If you allow a woman to make the rules she will resent you with a seething contempt even a rapist cannot inspire. The strongest woman and the most strident feminist wants to be led by, and to submit to, a more powerful man. Polarity is the core of a healthy loving relationship. She does not want the prerogative to walk all over you with her capricious demands and mercurial moods. Her emotions are a hurricane, her soul a saboteur. Think of yourself as a bulwark against her tempest. When she grasps for a pillar to steady herself against the whipping winds or yearns for an authority figure to foil her worst instincts, it is you who has to be there… strong, solid, unshakeable and immovable.


This IMO is very bad advice. You should never try and dominate in a relationship. People should always treat each other as equals and as fellow intelligent adults.


I suspect that this list is a satire.


I really hope so.


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