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Which would YOU choose
Guy 1 36%  36%  [ 4 ]
Guy 2 64%  64%  [ 7 ]
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15 Nov 2010, 5:17 am

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Where are all these folks that like #4 (or a slight variation thereof) coming from? Because if people like that existed in my life, I wouldnt be having all the problems that I'm having...

Or is it because I'm not thin?


Being fat is a big turnoff. Adderall is useful for ADHD treatment and weight loss too since you can easily go on a 1200-1300 calorie per day diet and lose 20-30 pounds in two months and keep it off.

If you are around 280lbs or so, are severely reduced calorie diet would work wonders for you since your body will burn calories very quickly.

Keep a food log for a day as well and post your results. Community input can be good for you to see things you might not normally.



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15 Nov 2010, 5:48 am

I'll go for guy #4 too... although preferably I'd like guy #8 (I think that's where we're up to) - basically someone like guy #4, but who also has long hair, chainmail and a large collection of multisided dice.

The problem with guys 1-3 is that being given only one significant trait makes them sound very 2D.
Guy #1 I imagine spending his whole life at the gym, regularly drinking protein shakes and having a massive fit if you even suggest buying icecream. He doesn't sound much fun to be with.
Guy #2 actually sounds the most promising because having a nice face is unlikely to be his life's work. He might be a really lovely, normal guy who just happens to be aesthetically pleasing. On the other hand he might spend his time sleeping with lots of girls because he can, and that's just not classy.
Guy #3 is possibly the closest to my boyfriend, except my boyfriend makes no way near that amount, just a lot more than me (I'm a student, it's not hard) and he does well at his job because he loves what he does. It's the fact that he loves his work that makes him sexy, not how much he gets paid for it. A guy who works hard just for the money and expects to be able to buy anything and anyone is really not someone I'd be interested in.



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15 Nov 2010, 6:33 am

RICKY5 wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
Where are all these folks that like #4 (or a slight variation thereof) coming from? Because if people like that existed in my life, I wouldnt be having all the problems that I'm having...

Or is it because I'm not thin?


Being fat is a big turnoff. Adderall is useful for ADHD treatment and weight loss too since you can easily go on a 1200-1300 calorie per day diet and lose 20-30 pounds in two months and keep it off.

If you are around 280lbs or so, are severely reduced calorie diet would work wonders for you since your body will burn calories very quickly.

Keep a food log for a day as well and post your results. Community input can be good for you to see things you might not normally.


Which is why I call BS.


When I was 130 pounds. No girl...and I mean NO girl would touch me. I have a regular looking face too.


Now fast foward years later, I just have a bad job....despite the economy....NO girl will touch me.


I wonder what's next after I get a better job when I am in my late 20s?



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15 Nov 2010, 6:37 am

The self-pity and loathing in this thread is a big turn off.
Way more so than any of the other things mentioned.
It's nothing about not being an alpha-male with muscles.
Get some self love and confidence. - Being all 'woe is me' is turned the ladies away.



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15 Nov 2010, 6:40 am

emlion wrote:
The self-pity and loathing in this thread is a big turn off.
Way more so than any of the other things mentioned.
It's nothing about not being an alpha-male with muscles.
Get some self love and confidence. - Being all 'woe is me' is turned the ladies away.



I noticed more girls were interest in me when I went from scrawny 130 toothpick-------->muscular guy


When I get a better job as a respiratory therapist, I expect the next thing will be not owning a house?


You can't win with women.



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15 Nov 2010, 6:42 am

ApsieGuy wrote:
emlion wrote:
The self-pity and loathing in this thread is a big turn off.
Way more so than any of the other things mentioned.
It's nothing about not being an alpha-male with muscles.
Get some self love and confidence. - Being all 'woe is me' is turned the ladies away.



I noticed more girls were interest in me when I went from scrawny 130 toothpick-------->muscular guy


When I get a better job as a respiratory therapist, I expect the next thing will be not owning a house?


You can't win with women.


Yay for generalising all women :roll:
Maybe you were more confident when you had more muscles.
People are more confident when they have better job prospects.



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15 Nov 2010, 7:42 am

emlion wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
emlion wrote:
The self-pity and loathing in this thread is a big turn off.
Way more so than any of the other things mentioned.
It's nothing about not being an alpha-male with muscles.
Get some self love and confidence. - Being all 'woe is me' is turned the ladies away.



I noticed more girls were interest in me when I went from scrawny 130 toothpick-------->muscular guy


When I get a better job as a respiratory therapist, I expect the next thing will be not owning a house?


You can't win with women.


Yay for generalising all women :roll:
Maybe you were more confident when you had more muscles.
People are more confident when they have better job prospects.



Well, to be honest. Yes, I was more confident with the muscles.


I think a better job would help with that too. I'm just frustrated. There's this Physicians Assistant at work who I dig who is 35 years old. I have a bad job. I can't get the balls to talk to her because of my bad job. So, I pass by this women every day doing my sh***y transport job unable to even talk to her.




So, I guess it is a confidence issue. I've seen other women at my job nurses ect. who I would LOVE to date........but cant because of my job



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15 Nov 2010, 11:19 am

ApsieGuy wrote:
emlion wrote:
ApsieGuy wrote:
emlion wrote:
The self-pity and loathing in this thread is a big turn off.
Way more so than any of the other things mentioned.
It's nothing about not being an alpha-male with muscles.
Get some self love and confidence. - Being all 'woe is me' is turned the ladies away.



I noticed more girls were interest in me when I went from scrawny 130 toothpick-------->muscular guy


When I get a better job as a respiratory therapist, I expect the next thing will be not owning a house?


You can't win with women.


Yay for generalising all women :roll:
Maybe you were more confident when you had more muscles.
People are more confident when they have better job prospects.



Well, to be honest. Yes, I was more confident with the muscles.


I think a better job would help with that too. I'm just frustrated. There's this Physicians Assistant at work who I dig who is 35 years old. I have a bad job. I can't get the balls to talk to her because of my bad job. So, I pass by this women every day doing my sh***y transport job unable to even talk to her.




So, I guess it is a confidence issue. I've seen other women at my job nurses ect. who I would LOVE to date........but cant because of my job

well, you clearly understand that the problem is internal to you (confidence) and not external (women's choices), so please stop blaming us and generalizing about us. those kind of statmenets about women start unnecessary flame wars and leave us with little reason to sympathize.


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15 Nov 2010, 12:42 pm

Can you add The_Face_of_Boo to the list? I am sure he would win!!



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15 Nov 2010, 1:17 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Can you add The_Face_of_Boo to the list? I am sure he would win!!

guy #9 (or is it 10?) - handsome, intelligent lebanese man with a good job and a wicked sense of humour. cares a lot about other people, but not in a mushy softhearted way.

what else should i add? i don't know what your education or physical self is like.


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15 Nov 2010, 1:21 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Can you add The_Face_of_Boo to the list? I am sure he would win!!

guy #9 (or is it 10?) - handsome, intelligent lebanese man with a good job and a wicked sense of humour. cares a lot about other people, but not in a mushy softhearted way.

what else should i add? i don't know what your education or physical self is like.


I shall pick this man please.



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15 Nov 2010, 3:16 pm

ApsieGuy wrote:
RICKY5 wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
Where are all these folks that like #4 (or a slight variation thereof) coming from? Because if people like that existed in my life, I wouldnt be having all the problems that I'm having...

Or is it because I'm not thin?


Being fat is a big turnoff. Adderall is useful for ADHD treatment and weight loss too since you can easily go on a 1200-1300 calorie per day diet and lose 20-30 pounds in two months and keep it off.

If you are around 280lbs or so, are severely reduced calorie diet would work wonders for you since your body will burn calories very quickly.

Keep a food log for a day as well and post your results. Community input can be good for you to see things you might not normally.


I disagree. Losing weight would be good for Toads self esteem. Toad might benefit from so
E sort of MMA class just to build confidence. The ability to withstand a beating and give one out is a mood booster.

Which is why I call BS.


When I was 130 pounds. No girl...and I mean NO girl would touch me. I have a regular looking face too.


Now fast foward years later, I just have a bad job....despite the economy....NO girl will touch me.


I wonder what's next after I get a better job when I am in my late 20s?



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15 Nov 2010, 4:13 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Can you add The_Face_of_Boo to the list? I am sure he would win!!


If your talking about this Face of Bo (or is it Boe? XD), then he might very well win!

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Of course, his pansexuality might decrease his charm if your into fidelity and all that jazz...

Oh, and he MUST come with the trenchcoat! (Hell, remove the man, just gimme the trenchie!)
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Although it does look a tad itchy (looks woolen ;___; why can't it be like... cotton?! !! XD)



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15 Nov 2010, 4:21 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Can you add The_Face_of_Boo to the list? I am sure he would win!!

guy #9 (or is it 10?) - handsome, intelligent lebanese man with a good job and a wicked sense of humour. cares a lot about other people, but not in a mushy softhearted way.

what else should i add? i don't know what your education or physical self is like.

he looks very sexy from his real photo, slim and nerdy and dark :heart:



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15 Nov 2010, 4:26 pm

lotusblossom wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Can you add The_Face_of_Boo to the list? I am sure he would win!!

guy #9 (or is it 10?) - handsome, intelligent lebanese man with a good job and a wicked sense of humour. cares a lot about other people, but not in a mushy softhearted way.

what else should i add? i don't know what your education or physical self is like.

he looks very sexy from his real photo, slim and nerdy and dark :heart:


Ooh where is the real picture? (specifically, i don't wanna trawl through pages and pages >.<)



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15 Nov 2010, 4:46 pm

emlion wrote:
lotusblossom wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Can you add The_Face_of_Boo to the list? I am sure he would win!!

guy #9 (or is it 10?) - handsome, intelligent lebanese man with a good job and a wicked sense of humour. cares a lot about other people, but not in a mushy softhearted way.

what else should i add? i don't know what your education or physical self is like.

he looks very sexy from his real photo, slim and nerdy and dark :heart:


Ooh where is the real picture? (specifically, i don't wanna trawl through pages and pages >.<)

somewhere lost in the depths of the picture threads, you will never find it as its minimum a year ago.