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just move to thailand, you'll be swimming in a sea of smoldering hot sex with beautiful women. Prostitutes there are better than an actual gf back home. For the overhead costs of a relationship in a western country (unlimited basically) you could live in Thailand for the rest of your life...

Hey Menintights or whatever the f**k your name is. Why don't you shut the f**k up and go back to your eggnog. How the f**k do you expect me to "do what I have to do" when the mother and her husband don't want me anywhere near the child? You think i like having to watch my son grow up on FaceBook, forbidden to contact him because her FaceBook friends would f*****g attack me the second I do? Well f**k you b***h whore. I'm not suppose to raise him, He would probably grow up to hate me! Why don't you go suck on your fathers cock.... f*****g b***h

Woa a little much on the profanity. Have you truly established that is your son with a DNA test or are you just going off of his photos on his facebook because there could be a chance its someone elses son. If you legally want to your son you should go for it because every kid should see their dad and regardless of what the mother and her parents feel if your are proven by DNA to be his father you can have rights. So regardless of what her parents feel I would get a lawyer and get a DNA test because they can't legally forbid you on any grounds.

I think you need to obtain a job that pays enough to take legal action. Unforgivably, brute force and just walking over there would just put you in prison....which would guarantee that you would never see the kid.



Your only hope is to hire a lawyer. However, you might be able to find a lawyer who will do the case for free IF he/she see's enough profit in it.



meintights, your comment was uncalled for. If you have a basic knowledge of genetics, you know that two people with undesirable traits can produce an offspring with desirable traits. In CONTRAST, two people with desirable traits can produce an offspring with very UNDESIRABLE traits.

Look at me, I am an EXTREMELY high functioning autistic with perfectly normal biological parents(average looks,intellect). So, you really have no biological proof as to whether this gentleman is worthy of reproduction do you? Unless you have access to very expensive machinery that is.

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It will become considerably easier after 30 for a man to find a girlfriend pending he is decent looking with a decent job. The pool of attractive people with good jobs shrinks a lot after 30. This theory also would apply to a women.

People start to become more realistic about who they will end up with.

I had assumed that she was a single mother and you had no contact with her whatsoever, but now that we know that's not the case...

Let's assume the son is yours.

If you didn't even care enough about the girl to not know that she was pregnant and if she didn't feel comfortable enough with you to tell you that you have a son, you have no right to be anywhere near him. Leave the family alone and quit stalking people on facebook.

This is why kids shouldn't be having sex. s**t happens and idiotic arguments ensue.

I'm getting an job in IT. IT is male-dominated and I don't want to end up like Bataar who works in IT, is past 30 and still plays with Magic cards.

I guess I need to consult with a professional match maker then

First, get trapped inside a chicken.

I fear this exact situation, namely that I will only start getting female attention again when I'm getting to the age where women are through their stage of chasing around after guys, and are looking for someone to settle down with, through the mindset of sober realism.

Yes, I probably could get quite some women by then, assuming i have a decent job by that point. But then I will have to put up non-stop with women telling me how unrealistic I am about relationships, because I'm just starting to get the chance to fulfill some of my fantasies, and not having actually gotten anywhere in all those years of youthful experimentation, I would have no clue whether I can expect better than what I had.

Plus there will almost certainly be a "moving up period" for me once I manage to prove what kind of partner I can be, and gain some experience. So what is realistic for me will almost definitely undergo some serious changes, and this will mean some trading up at the beginning, as well as maybe trading back down later.

It does seem that availability of interested females, at least for men, passes through a "valley" in the mid-20s. When I was around 15, girls were a lot more interested in me than I was in them, so availability was very high. I didn't take advantage of it, though, unfortunately. I also hear that there are a lot more women available when you're in your mid to late 30s--though then you have to deal a lot more with women who want to have kids, so ample precautions need to be taken to avoid playing into that by making a woman pregnant. And also, of course, I'd imagine it could be disheartening to continually hurt women who don't like that you are still in the experimenting stage, plus it seems that socializing with one's male peers could get more difficult at that time if one is still single, which wouldn't help one's confidence.

I'm the same way... hell, I just got a degree in this stuff. IT can pay the bills for sure, and at least I won't be an unemployed bum... but still, I'm in a field with not that many women around, I'm too socially awkward to be able to effectively branch out, and I'm unattractive with not much going for me (other than job prospects). I have to hope that somehow I can make 6 figures someday in the future (unlikely), or that there is a woman out there that would somehow like me enough to give me a genuine chance (even more unlikely) and that I wouldn't screw that chance up (which is the unlikeliest of all)...

You really are going to have to find some esteem that derives from something other than your paypacket, anyway. How s**t must it be to have a woman around who you believe is only with you because you earn x thousands of dollars.

Well, then, you tell me: why would a woman want to be with me? What do I really have to offer in a relationship other than the ability to fix computers, and a basic set of housekeeping skills?

Well, there's a couple things. Singing? You seem like a reasonably smart guy. You just need to put your mind to developing good things rather than wallowing in misery. I suspect you're a 'learned helplessness' guy. Think about it.

I know this one's been hashed out several times, so I'm not going to mess about.

Same thing you want her for? Companionship, love, warmth, someone to share the day with? Who wants any more than that, really?
You'd offer her all those things, right?

If you were in the boys shoes would you want your father to let your mothers friends or 'stepfather' scare you off? Or would you want him to have the guns to show up and see if you were really his child? You have rights to find out. As others suggested though I would only do so as a third party (through a lawyer). Paternity tests can be done without the child even knowing about you (should the mother want to hide whats going on until results came in) Everyone deserves to know who their parents are.

Well, I do offer that, but as far as i can tell, it's not what women in my generation want anymore. I offered all that and more to my ex (and to prove that I wasn't taking this for granted, I went all-out), and yet she didn't want any of it. I don't feel totally useless -- at the very least I can be a productive member of society -- but I feel as though what I do have is not something that women want. Most women my age want excitement, and the stability I offer is just plain boring to them. On the other end, what they see as "exciting", I see as "overwhelming"... This is why I say I am incompatible with the world, and why I say I am unlovable... it's not their fault, they have their own lives and I have no right to dictate how they want to live those lives. The problem is me... I am an aberration in the sight of my peers.