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sunshower
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19 Sep 2011, 10:12 pm

I don't know why everyone's so obsessed with money. You don't need much of it to lead a happy and comfortable life.


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26 Sep 2011, 7:30 pm

sunshower wrote:
I don't know why everyone's so obsessed with money. You don't need much of it to lead a happy and comfortable life.


Ain't that the truth just spent a week : :D



www.cockatooisland.gov.au/



$35 dollars a night I think I got a special rate for weekly down to $29 , I had the best views in Sydney! and most importantly I was well away from the burnt and boozed backpackers :)

.Even if I was rich I'd still go down that route the freedom and simplicity of it. :D Though I did draw the line with Canberra -4 C and raining so I instead booked a cabin for an extra $30 a night I was mighty tempted though Fritz the prancing German stayed in a tent though he was in his early 20's . (and a little bit crazy)



Though this would be a little rough and ready for you yes ?


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10 Oct 2015, 9:01 am

about women: Most of my NT acquaintances were constantly asking what kind of car my boyfriend drove, where he worked, etc. yes, sadly, that was their conversation. Many of them were constantly saying they wanted a husband who would come home in a suit, sad, but true. Some who had the means, they worked at banks, etc. even checked the guys credit history. Most would tell me that I was an idiot when I would not pay attention to a guy who would talk to me about his car, how much money he made, etc...even though it was all true and not made up. I had a couple of guys who wanted me to quit my job, they would pay for me to go back to school, etc. and I said "not interested"...my friends thought I was an idiot.

about me: I never dated anyone based on how much money they had or didn't have. I always wanted someone I could build something together with, not someone who could give me everything. I wanted someone I could talk to, hang out with, would encourage my career and I would do the same with theirs, but not necessarily support me. In fact, one of the biggest issues I have right now is that fact that I am not working, I am homeschooling my son, and it drives me NUTS to not have a career and feel like I am contributing financially to this household, even though I made much more money than my husband for probably 12 years or so.

PS most girls who I know who married for money, are no longer with their husbands...eventually, the money was normal, even the lavish lifestyle they had and they had nothing in common with their husbands :-) My husband and I have been through he#$% and back, still have issues to work through, many of them, but somehow we always stay together because after all the stress is over, we share many common interests and that makes up for 99% of the issues we have dealt with.

FYI to the guys looking to support a girl, to those claiming that when they aren't very good looking, that is what they must do, be careful...women like that aren't worth it in the end...



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10 Oct 2015, 9:27 am

^^
Yeah, but this what is happening on WP, when guys describe the same experiences with women like one you described it, a certain group of female users here comes and calls them misogynists - and they start to do posts in the Women's section saying how misogynists guys are in L&D viewtopic.php?f=27&t=292315- ; how dare them they say that materialism is a common thing among women? how dare guys can say that most women are difficult to deal with and can be unfriendly and catty?
But WP ladies can say bad stuff about them MAJORITY of women so safely :P: viewtopic.php?t=294708&start=15

God forbids a man to say a single non-positive thing about any woman on the planet :P.



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11 Oct 2015, 10:24 am

Tim_Tex wrote:
I think the thing that irritates me the most is that some people don't bother to differentiate between people who are unemployed because of things they can't control, and are genuinely seeking work, and those who are lazy slackers.


I absolutely differentiate between lazy slackers and those who are actively looking for work. I've no issue with guys who work a crappy job to pay the bills while looking for something better. "Things they can't control" I'd try to look at on a case by case basis, as it could go either way.

I've a grad degree and a job I enjoy - and don't need a man to support me. My boyfriend earns less than me and it isn't an issue. But I've no interest in dating a man who isn't independent and employed or actively looking for work. If you think that makes me a snobby gold digger so be it.