Mr Nice Guys

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Well. This is the hyperanalytic in me, but he did say "a" power.

But. Um. Yeah. We can pull up some stats on worldwide wealth/leadership/education disparities.
Not pretty.

Yes, women are much more pleasing to look at. If that's not power, then I don't know what is.

i consider men more pleasing to look at, but women follow closely behind. it is most likely a matter of opinion.

greg299L, listen to CrinklyCrustacean please. Fnord was joking, and i am going to assume you were also joking. and i read over what ialdabaoth said - nothing in there about aspie males.

ValentineWiggin... LOL

No more Mr Nice Guy.

No comment. I'll wait for other female members here to disagree with your opinion.

Many women generally find women more aesthetically pleasing to look at than men. Even homosexual men say so themselves.

No, no, not me. I find male body more beautiful and I find men more aesthetically pleasing to look at.

You haven't see me with my shirt off. My breast & pregnant looking stomach would change your mind

(Now I'm intrigued).

One wonders, too, how much of women preferring female aesthetics is resultant of being culturalized where the female, not the male, body is presented as an object of beauty.

That's a good question. But I definately find men more aesthetically pleasing. There's just something about a masculine figure that is very attractive.

^^ It's not a mastery really, you are a straight female, hence you find the male body attractive.
It's as simple as that.

Back to the nice guy thing. Niceness won't lessen a guy in my eyes. It is almost an irrelevant point. I have a friend who is the nicest person in the world. But he doesn't talk to girls. I think he's lovely. I try and talk to him, but he's so shy it doesn't work. I've seen that same thing happen with him n other women.

It's not how nice he is that is his hinderance in love. It's his lack of communication skills and his lack of confidence.

Niceness becomes irrelevant in the face of larger issues.

The nice guy gets rejected by most women. It has nothing to do with his lack of confidence, poor communication skills and low self esteem.

Thats like saying girls are supposed to be pretty and extroverts so low key girls that dont arent good-looking enough are invisible to males(which is what some of them claim and isnt true either).

There are males here that actually go for this low key girls and Im sure there are women out there that are looking for a nice guy(without quotation marks)

I think some of the issue is that what people want & what they are attracted to can be very different things sometimes. It's been my experience with NT women that I've known that lots of em wanted a guy who was nice however they thought of the nice guy as a friend & did not like them in "that way". I've heard from a couple women that women don't like having friendship & romance mixed together. They want to have friends that they can turn to for emotional support, advice, help; & they want a boyfriend for the dating sex stuff. I was told that nice guys like me have problems getting women because women see us as friendship material instead of boyfriend material because women only want either romance or friendship from a guy & not both.

Actually, that is kind of true, at least in my experience, especially in your teens and early 20s.

Just saying...