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29 Apr 2012, 11:51 am

TommyTomorrow wrote:

My personal anecdote is a counterpoint to your statement that you don't see the point of post-menopausal sex.
I see the point of it, for myself and many others that I believe are like me.
My fiancee is also on the spectrum, and has feelings similar to mine, so I'm not unique.

Perhaps your earlier post was simply indicating that you didn't see the point in YOU having relations with post-menopausal women.
If that was the intention, then perhaps sharing my feelings was irrelevant.

well I don't understand why anyone would want to. But I'm not against them doing it if it is in fact what they want to do. But I'm going to refrain, since I don't think women of that age can be attractive, at all. But then I'm kind of hoping not to live past 45 anyway.

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29 Apr 2012, 11:52 am

Looking at what I've said, do you understand why I would want to?

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29 Apr 2012, 12:13 pm

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Looking at what I've said, do you understand why I would want to?

not in the slightest. But it's not my place to tell you you can't.

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29 Apr 2012, 12:24 pm

Fair enough.
Everyone is wired differently, and if you have no desire for sex, there are plenty of women out there who thinks that would make for an ideal boyfriend or husband.
As long as you are partnered with one of those while you're with post-menopausal women, everyone should be happy.

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29 Apr 2012, 7:23 pm

@rabbittss
any comment on your interest in other non procreative sex acts (oral, anal, safe sex, sex with birth control)?

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30 Apr 2012, 8:12 am

How women test men:
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30 Apr 2012, 8:38 am

TommyTomorrow wrote:

I had no clue what I was doing the first time I was with a woman, but I started off by administering oral pleasure to her for 45 minutes and had no trouble getting the desired result.

45 minutes

. I can't imagine doing or receiving it for 45 minutes.

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30 Apr 2012, 8:45 am

myth wrote:

45 minutes

. I can't imagine doing or receiving it for 45 minutes.

2 hours is no problem either

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30 Apr 2012, 9:42 am

Wow. These women and the men servicing them must have iron wills :lol:

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30 Apr 2012, 5:11 pm

myth wrote:

TommyTomorrow wrote:

I had no clue what I was doing the first time I was with a woman, but I started off by administering oral pleasure to her for 45 minutes and had no trouble getting the desired result.

45 minutes

. I can't imagine doing or receiving it for 45 minutes.

I can't prove that she was telling the truth, but she claimed to have climaxed about 7 times.
No complaints on her end.
However, I will note that the next day, I was at home eating some nice Breyer's ice cream... and my tongue cramped when I tried to lick the edge of the bowl clean.
Only tongue cramp I've ever had. Nowadays I alternate between tongue and fingers; whenever one gets tired, I switch.

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30 Apr 2012, 5:13 pm

@Tommy

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30 Apr 2012, 5:13 pm

Keyman wrote:

myth wrote:

45 minutes

. I can't imagine doing or receiving it for 45 minutes.

2 hours is no problem either

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01 May 2012, 4:25 am

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

If people are going to be making blanket assertions about the behavior of half the population I want to see some evidence, meaning well done, peer reviewed studies. Anecdotes/personal experience are not enough to vouch for the behavior of all or even most women. I sincerely doubt anyone has had the time/inclination to meet most of the women in the world.
If you want to say something is true, prove it.

Most researchers haven't met most people with AS but that doesn't stop them from writing about us.

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01 May 2012, 5:26 am

Chronos wrote:

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

Most researchers haven't met most people with AS but that doesn't stop them from writing about us.

And the point of your irrelevant statement is?
There is a difference between people you meet in your life and a representative sample.

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01 May 2012, 5:31 am

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

Chronos wrote:

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

Most researchers haven't met most people with AS but that doesn't stop them from writing about us.

And the point of your irrelevant statement is?
There is a difference between people you meet in your life and a representative sample.

he actually has a point on that last message. Most research is done with relatively small groups, and that ends up being "well done, peer reviewed studies".

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01 May 2012, 7:19 am

MXH wrote:

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

Chronos wrote:

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

Most researchers haven't met most people with AS but that doesn't stop them from writing about us.

And the point of your irrelevant statement is?
There is a difference between people you meet in your life and a representative sample.

he actually has a point on that last message. Most research is done with relatively small groups, and that ends up being "well done, peer reviewed studies".

Whatever their point is, it's miles away from the topic.
That has no bearing on the validity of unfounded generalization.
A single individual making a declarative statement based on their personal experience with however many people they have met is not the same as research. Methodology exists for a reason.
In any case, that's not the topic of this thread.
If you want to support the assertions of the poster I was asking for proof by all means do that.

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