The Science of One-Night Stands

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19 May 2012, 3:38 am

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the belief that college students are representative of all adults.

That's a very scary thought. 8O



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19 May 2012, 3:51 am

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Facepalm in 3...2....


Ive got to start understanding sarcasm pleas explain your post I am confused :?



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19 May 2012, 5:31 am

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Facepalm in 3...2....


.....1

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19 May 2012, 5:57 am

Joker wrote:
ValentineWiggin wrote:
Facepalm in 3...2....


Ive got to start understanding sarcasm pleas explain your post I am confused :?


What you posted is taken as a given, Joker. The discussion had moved some way beyond that. No offence.



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19 May 2012, 8:50 am

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There is no physical evidence that a woman has had an orgasm. She doesn't ejaculate fluids, she doesn't do anything except allegedly moan and thrash about. However, that is so cliched and stereotyped now you have no way of knowing if she's doing it because she's getting off or if she's just doing it to get you off her.

Actually, if you look in Masters & Johnson, you will find a description of the female orgasm and the physical signs of it. One thing that can't easily be faked is tiny beads of sweat that appear all over her body. I don't know that it always happens, but when it does, it's diagnostic. I've only ever seen it once (either I forget to check, or I'm not in the right position to do so without spoiling the atmosphere).........so that's the only time I feel certain that my partner climaxed. Now all I have left to do is work out who she was thinking about at the time. I guess that can't be done, so it's back to learning to trust :x


I don't normally make a habit of reading books on anatomy. Not a subject which particularly interests me.



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19 May 2012, 9:40 am

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I have a feeling that the statistics are rendered inaccurate by the fact that many of the men may have only stated they would sleep with the female questioners out of pride. Many men in our society feel they need to appear virile, so regardless of their true feelings these (young) men may have answered 'Yes' simply to appear like macho men! And when it comes to the women, they may have been more reluctant to admit a desire to sleep with a random stranger because of the negativity surrounding women who appear to be promiscuous.


Still. 75% to 3%? I dunno.


men are naturaly whores.......spread the seed :wink:


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19 May 2012, 9:52 am

danmac wrote:
ValentineWiggin wrote:
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I have a feeling that the statistics are rendered inaccurate by the fact that many of the men may have only stated they would sleep with the female questioners out of pride. Many men in our society feel they need to appear virile, so regardless of their true feelings these (young) men may have answered 'Yes' simply to appear like macho men! And when it comes to the women, they may have been more reluctant to admit a desire to sleep with a random stranger because of the negativity surrounding women who appear to be promiscuous.


Still. 75% to 3%? I dunno.


men are naturaly whores.......spread the seed :wink:


i think its more the things needing to be right for women to sleep with someone are very complex, for a guy it might be just the other saying yes



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19 May 2012, 9:52 am

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I don't normally make a habit of reading books on anatomy. Not a subject which particularly interests me.

I didn't read much of that one - but what little I did read, paid off. Without that, I'd have no proof that I'd ever hit the spot. Master & Johnson have also done a much more "human" and readable book on sex:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Masters-Johnson ... 853&sr=1-1
They let you read a few pages without having to buy it. I don't particularly recommend it, but I wouldn't be at all surprised if it had a few useful ideas in it.



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19 May 2012, 11:24 am

ToughDiamond wrote:
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I don't normally make a habit of reading books on anatomy. Not a subject which particularly interests me.

I didn't read much of that one - but what little I did read, paid off. Without that, I'd have no proof that I'd ever hit the spot. Master & Johnson have also done a much more "human" and readable book on sex:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Masters-Johnson ... 853&sr=1-1
They let you read a few pages without having to buy it. I don't particularly recommend it, but I wouldn't be at all surprised if it had a few useful ideas in it.


Won't matter. Everyone turns me down anyway. No need to learn what you never get to put into practice.



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19 May 2012, 11:37 am

Maybe because you're playing way out of your league? No wait i forgot, you deserve them.



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19 May 2012, 11:40 am

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Maybe because you're playing way out of your league? No wait i forgot, you deserve them.


Even if that were true, my league is still way above fat girls, ugly girls, and girls with hairlips. Hey, if you don't mind being seen with them, more power to you.



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19 May 2012, 11:50 am

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Maybe because you're playing way out of your league? No wait i forgot, you deserve them.


Even if that were true, my league is still way above fat girls, ugly girls, and girls with hairlips. Hey, if you don't mind being seen with them, more power to you.


Ive not talked about my "league" as I have other issues in the way. But do you really care so much of what people will say about you? If so then im glad youve not found someone, sounds like youd be better off with a dog to walk around with



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19 May 2012, 6:14 pm

Aspie (guys) rarely have one night stands because we have a brain disorder that makes us unable to relate to other humans so girls find us creepy. For some reason I don't think anyone here will be impressed by hearing about your "league" or how good you are in bed.



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19 May 2012, 6:20 pm

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Maybe because you're playing way out of your league? No wait i forgot, you deserve them.


If a guy doesn't have a hormonal disorder, doesn't have a weird facial shape, isn't fat and so on, then girls who are all of the above is below his league.



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19 May 2012, 6:50 pm

Kurgan wrote:
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Maybe because you're playing way out of your league? No wait i forgot, you deserve them.


If a guy doesn't have a hormonal disorder, doesn't have a weird facial shape, isn't fat and so on, then girls who are all of the above is below his league.


let's stop this train right now and refocus on the topic of the thread, which as it happens, isn't the concept of "leagues".


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19 May 2012, 6:55 pm

MXH wrote:
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Maybe because you're playing way out of your league? No wait i forgot, you deserve them.


Even if that were true, my league is still way above fat girls, ugly girls, and girls with hairlips. Hey, if you don't mind being seen with them, more power to you.


Ive not talked about my "league" as I have other issues in the way. But do you really care so much of what people will say about you? If so then im glad youve not found someone, sounds like youd be better off with a dog to walk around with


Why would I want a dog? Then I'm paying for them, cleaning up after them, feeding them, and not getting anything out of it. No conversation, no communication, no intimacy, still being stuck eating all my meals alone, still stuck alone on Saturday nights. Not to mention the constant shedding. No thank you, in regards the dog. Cats are worse, they aren't even happy to see you when you come home.

On the other hand, I'm not surprised you're happy about other peoples misery.