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30 Jul 2012, 6:07 am

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30 Jul 2012, 6:56 am

Where the hell is hale bopp?

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30 Jul 2012, 11:14 am

nick007 wrote:

richardbenson wrote:

I dont really know.

if you stop and think about all the crap you have to do for someone else then it just doesnt seem so desireble anymore

But then I think of all the crap she's doing for me & I think I'm extremely lucky.

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Dude. I doubt your girlfriend is reading that so you can drop the act here

It's NOT an act. I really do mean it.

Casstranquility wrote:

Your doubting doesn't make what nick says an act, and besides that, I read just about everything he writes/has written here on WP, I just don't post that often. (I'm nick007's girlfriend if that first sentence wasn't clear enough for you.)

So, ok. you guys are inlove, thats cool but what can you two possibley do for each other when he lives in south lousiana and you live in vermont? are your locations wrong? are you two living in the same place? I guess my reply was geard more twords people who actually walk the walk. Long distance relationships, are far from actually being boyfriend and girlfriend

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30 Jul 2012, 11:34 am

richardbenson wrote:

nick007 wrote:

richardbenson wrote:

I dont really know.

if you stop and think about all the crap you have to do for someone else then it just doesnt seem so desireble anymore

But then I think of all the crap she's doing for me & I think I'm extremely lucky.

nick007 wrote:

richardbenson wrote:

Dude. I doubt your girlfriend is reading that so you can drop the act here

It's NOT an act. I really do mean it.

Casstranquility wrote:

No they're correct for now. I'm planning to relocate & we do travel to visit each other in the meantime. If you believe a long distance couple can not be a real couple; I respect that you believe it but respect the fact that us & others here who are in long distance relationships feel otherwise. As for as what w can do for each other; we chat a lot, listen to each other, are veyr supportive of each other

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30 Jul 2012, 4:26 pm

JanuaryMan wrote:

To the people that have found happiness with another person....did you previously think all was hopeless?

Love your Domo display pic, by the way. I just saw this and thought I'd answer.

Before meeting my boyfriend, I was pretty much in abusive relationships prior. So I did not trust any men, as you would expect, and I was pretty cynical about relationships.

It just so happened that when I stopped wanting to be in a relationship, I met my current boyfriend. And the rest is history...

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30 Jul 2012, 4:56 pm

JanuaryMan wrote:

To the people that have found happiness with another person....did you previously think all was hopeless?

I had forgotten to comment on this earlier. YES I had thought it was hopeless a lot at times. I vented frustration about it in a lot of my older post here

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30 Jul 2012, 5:51 pm

Love is blind

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30 Jul 2012, 8:32 pm

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To the people that have found happiness with another person....did you previously think all was hopeless?

Yes, I did. Very much so. I was very down and not at all in a good place in my life, at that time.

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30 Jul 2012, 8:34 pm

nick007 wrote:

JanuaryMan wrote:

To the people that have found happiness with another person....did you previously think all was hopeless?

I had forgotten to comment on this earlier. YES I had thought it was hopeless a lot at times. I vented frustration about it in a lot of my older post here

Yeah, I can definitely see the difference.

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31 Jul 2012, 6:11 pm

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Where the hell is hale bopp?

Doing what 97.5% of the other autistics are doing :wink:

re reading her older posts, do you think she comes here and read us ie the never ending words on a screen ? :wink:

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31 Jul 2012, 6:11 pm

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Love is blind

just like us

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31 Jul 2012, 6:22 pm

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Anyway, my view is there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. A healthy relationship is reliant on mutual respect, understanding, and trust with that person. Without those factors, a relationship can't really work. It comes down to compromise as well, we all have our flaws that people can tolerate or drive them crazy.

I do agree that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, just as there's no such thing as a perfect person. What you said reminded me of what someone told me once: "Love isn't about finding the perfect person. It's about finding an imperfect person and learning to see them as they are, perfectly." This saying has really made an impression on me, because being able to see your partner's positive aspects while at the same time recognizing and acknowledging their faults while forgiving them at the same time, that is to me what a true relationship is about, and it is for this reason that I believe my relationship with Kyuuchan is as powerful as it is, because we both think along these lines - after all, she's the one who taught me this philosophy, and the above quote belongs to her.

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31 Jul 2012, 6:30 pm

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Do you ever wonder what it's like being in a truly loving, healthy relationship? Where both people are equally attracted and affectionate towards the other?

Yeah, sometimes I do. Whatever, it is never going to happen. I prefer to wonder what it is like to not care about these things.

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31 Jul 2012, 11:16 pm

Magnus_Rex wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Do you ever wonder what it's like being in a truly loving, healthy relationship? Where both people are equally attracted and affectionate towards the other?

Yeah, sometimes I do. Whatever, it is never going to happen. I prefer to wonder what it is like to not care about these things.

Never say never.

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31 Jul 2012, 11:18 pm

Wolfheart wrote:

Magnus_Rex wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Do you ever wonder what it's like being in a truly loving, healthy relationship? Where both people are equally attracted and affectionate towards the other?

Yeah, sometimes I do. Whatever, it is never going to happen. I prefer to wonder what it is like to not care about these things.

Never say never.

easier said than done

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01 Aug 2012, 8:07 pm

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do you have any guns?

what is it with you and those guns ?

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