Advice on upcoming dating profile...

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I'd click the back button if I saw that.

@yellowtamarin
I don't respond to online profiles with ab shots either, I don't know if it's because I'm autistic, it's just not my thing (I wanna see your face, not your man teats!) Not wanting to see you half naked is not the same as not being visual
but you have to understand, if we don't like what they think women like we're super liars and thats terrible...

What makes you think that physically working out somehow makes me lesser in mental aspects? Working out to a disciplined routine involves mental willpower and discipline, it isn't something that somehow takes away from your intelligence. No one will care less, you're right but what matters now is the moment and feeling good in the moment so we can either roll the dice, take a gamble and chance or just sit around in some library waiting for everything to fall in our place whilst debating about our God superiority complex of pure intellect.

You seek shelter in wisdom but you won't find it, I seek shelter in simplicity and that's a more achieveable goal. I'm not out to be the next president of the United States or the next Einstein, I'm simply someone who came to these forums with the hope of bettering myself, learning and helping others, I think I have done that to some extent.

It seems that people wish to question mine and Boo's motives simply because something has worked successfully, it just goes to show if you aren't on the level of negativity as other people on this forum, they will always find something to criticize.



I have been on second dates and I have had successful meetings from the site and I am set to meet more, I have even met people from this website on a friendly basis as well. I'm open minded and I am willing to give anyone a chance on a personal level if there is a mutual attraction between us, I'm not doing anything immoral because I haven't committed to anyone. If I don't feel a physical or mental attraction, I don't have to be obligated or justify anything, I am direct and I wouldn't date someone if I didn't feel attraction towards them. If me and Boo wanted to run down Times square shirtless,I don't see how that would have any negative effect.

People seem to be judging these women as if they are not modest, typical or that they are only interested in impersonal or casual dating when that is simply not true. Women are visual, from women with doctorates to women that work in Hooters.

Interesting that you aren't willing to respond to men with shots of their abdominals, you have stated in the past that height is very important to you. That's quite the contrary statement and you have mentioned before that height is a determining factor when you are selecting a mate.

Interesting that you aren't willing to respond to men with shots or their abdominals, you have stated in the past that height is very important to you. That's quite the contrary statement and you have mentioned before that height is a determining factor when you are selecting a mate.

Ok, can we live and let live now?

To each his own.

Firstly, we've been over this before that I stated height as a general advantage for men, not as a personal requirement, so false
even if it were true, it couldn't be a contrary statement, taking a topless photo of yourself is an action I don't particularly respect or find attractive (regardless of what the body looks like), height is a characteristic not an action, so you're still drawing a weird connection (with a false premise) to try to discredit me instead of addressing anything I said, how interesting

Not contrary. The equivalent of not responding to a man with a photo of his abs is not responding to a man with a photo of him standing next to a giant ruler so you can see how tall he is, i.e., he wants that to be the first thing you notice about him and wants you to find it important.

PWNED!

Not exactly because she may not find it attractive, there are many women who do find it attractive, respect appearance and they are willing to be more forward about it as I have shown in examples. If you believe that looks are no determining factor and these women aren't visual to a certain extent, you are kidding yourself and putting women on a pedestal to white knight them.

Fair enough, I understand what you are saying but what if someone has a photo of up as an athletic achievement? Or uses that photo to attract someone that is into fitness, martial arts or has an active lifestyle? If anything, a good body should show that someone likes routine and discipline so it would actually be more suited to someone on the spectrum.

I mean you aren't going to upload a photo of yourself sitting on some bench with a can of beer if you are looking for someone that is into an active lifestyle and body shots are great for men on the spectrum because they may not be able to express a wide range of expressions or particularly show many expressions in photos.

For all the women complaining about abs shots and how it wouldnt attract their type of woman, then maybe we arent trying to attract the type of woman who complains about such dumb things

he type of woman who complains about such dumb things

For all the women complaining about abs shots and how it wouldnt attract their type of woman, then maybe we arent trying to attract the type of woman who complains about such dumb things