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11 Oct 2012, 3:14 am

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Guess there's no ad that will suit high quality woman, but also attract the low quality ones.

i dont get what this means



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11 Oct 2012, 3:26 am

MXH wrote:
Keyman wrote:
Guess there's no ad that will suit high quality woman, but also attract the low quality ones.

i dont get what this means


Mutually exclusive. If your ad attracts one, it will repel the other. Very few "lures" will work for both... with the possible exception of relatively intelligent, well-off financially and have one hot body.



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11 Oct 2012, 3:31 am

BlueMax wrote:
MXH wrote:
Keyman wrote:
Guess there's no ad that will suit high quality woman, but also attract the low quality ones.

i dont get what this means


Mutually exclusive. If your ad attracts one, it will repel the other. Very few "lures" will work for both... with the possible exception of relatively intelligent, well-off financially and have one hot body.


Not necessarily. Your profile can attract both if you do it well.

It's how you treat them in chats and messages that will be the mutually exclusive part.


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11 Oct 2012, 3:35 am

i meant on what dictates a good or bad oman



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11 Oct 2012, 5:45 am

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i meant on what dictates a good or bad oman


Well, personally I'd take it as a good omen, as a way to attract only high-quality girls, even if (or rather, especially if) that reduced the total volume.


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11 Oct 2012, 7:46 am

Not again with this low-quality and high-quality false assumption.

I have been repeating it was't the case since the okcupid thread.

Enough of this BS already!



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11 Oct 2012, 9:00 am

So a few more tips.
1. Have a funny profile that is different.
2. Use a different opening line.
3. Wear a suit so you look like a stylish guy, women love this.
4. Be cocky, confident and funny in your messages.



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11 Oct 2012, 9:00 am

Also create a bit of mystery in your profile and make them smile, I get a lot of messages because my profile makes people smile.

Quote:
About Me
I make Christian Gray look like something from the Teletubbies.

I look like James Dean but far cooler. I wear my sunglasses at night.

I'm a professional at spooning and give out world class cuddles.

I google random things and call myself a genius.

I won a dance off with Michael Jackson and I consistently beat David Hassellhoff at Arm wrestling.

David Cameron has declared my photos top secret.

I know the location of every item in the supermarket.

Basically, I rock.

Feel free to message me if my profile made you smile or giggle.

First Date
I want to stare in your eyes like a weirdo. I want to kick your feet and try to trip you when you walk in front of me. I want you to open the doors for ME and whenever I enter a room, you whistle the theme song to top gun.


I have that written in my profile and it works a treat, I get unsolicited messages from women telling me that it made them smile.

Some of the messages I have gotten.

"Your profile has made me smile, and chuckle on a s**t day like that. One problem tho, I dont know the theme tune to top gun sorry lol"

"haha ur profile cracked me up. Theres someone else out there who likes to trip people up!"

"Well, you said to message if you made me giggle- so here I am.
Love the profile, very funny- very self assured ;) You sound like great fun! Hopefully talk soon. X"

"Well u r def hottie.... Mr Grey eat ur heart out...... Hi I'm gem xx "

The messages go on and on and I have about 30 messages just in my inbox that I haven't bothered reading yet.



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11 Oct 2012, 11:32 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Not again with this low-quality and high-quality false assumption.

I have been repeating it was't the case since the okcupid thread.

Enough of this BS already!

that was what i meant. what dictatues the quality of people. is there a grade sticker somewhere i havent found yet?