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19 Feb 2013, 2:33 pm

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Look at all those horny women....


Been exchanging pm's have we?



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19 Feb 2013, 2:52 pm

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Ask away - what advice do you want?

Aspies are often prohibited from trendy NT parties and clubs as we often don't fit in or feel too uncomfortable with the social environment

From the photos you look like you enjoy socialising


Well I have already gotten some advice...I would just like to find someone I'm attracted to and really care about. I apparently don't look very aspie-like, but in fact I am very much so...

I do like socialising. But to a certain extend. If I am to be together with someone for a long time, I'd prefer it was an aspie...



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19 Feb 2013, 2:55 pm

btw., my internet connection i really slow, don't know why, takes a war everytime I send a post :D



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19 Feb 2013, 2:56 pm

qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:

Ask away - what advice do you want?

Aspies are often prohibited from trendy NT parties and clubs as we often don't fit in or feel too uncomfortable with the social environment

From the photos you look like you enjoy socialising


Well I have already gotten some advice...I would just like to find someone I'm attracted to and really care about. I apparently don't look very aspie-like, but in fact I am very much so...

I do like socialising. But to a certain extend. If I am to be together with someone for a long time, I'd prefer it was an aspie...


You haven't explained what leads you to think you might have Aspergers



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19 Feb 2013, 2:56 pm

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"They're everywhere qawer, and wet for you already."



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19 Feb 2013, 3:01 pm

Speak for yourself Boo.

Speak out. We are all gay friendly.



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19 Feb 2013, 3:02 pm

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"They're everywhere qawer, and wet for you already."


Hahaha...can't say I've had problems in that regard :wink:

But really not what I am posting about



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19 Feb 2013, 3:03 pm

aspiesandra27 wrote:
Speak for yourself Boo.

Speak out. We are all gay friendly.


Lol! :lol:



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19 Feb 2013, 3:21 pm

nessa238 wrote:
You haven't explained what leads you to think you might have Aspergers


Trust me, I am.

I think analytically, black and white, friendships are very difficult, like routines...etc. etc.



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19 Feb 2013, 3:32 pm

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Qawer, we aim to help, but we need more details.

What is the oldest you will go for?

Any preference for blondes or brunettes?

Curvy, slim?



Hahah, in their 20's...brunettes most often...

someone, standing next to me in this picture, where you would think: "that makes sense!" :wink:



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19 Feb 2013, 3:32 pm

qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
You haven't explained what leads you to think you might have Aspergers


Trust me, I am.

I think analytically, black and white, friendships are very difficult, like routines...etc. etc.


Who's to say that it's not possible to still be a NT but be more sensitive than average and have asperger-like traits?

How are friendships difficult? You're good looking = Nts love you = end of story

That's how it's always appeared to me

You evidently have friends and most NTs dont' find friendships easy anyway - they're always moaning about each other on the NT forums I look at eg Digital Spy and TSR - a student one

it's constant angst!



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19 Feb 2013, 3:34 pm

qawer wrote:
aspiesandra27 wrote:
Qawer, we aim to help, but we need more details.

What is the oldest you will go for?

Any preference for blondes or brunettes?

Curvy, slim?



Hahah, in their 20's...brunettes most often...

someone, standing beside me in this picture, where you would think: "that makes sense!" :wink:


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If you had dark hair in that photo you'd look a bit like Robert Pattinson

Your look seems to vary a lot from photo to photo



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19 Feb 2013, 3:38 pm

nessa238 wrote:
If you had dark hair in that photo you'd look a bit like Robert Pattinson

Your look seems to vary a lot from photo to photo


I don't know what to say, it's all me for sure (-:

I guess the previous picture is very authentic if one was to meet me irl.



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19 Feb 2013, 3:41 pm

I feel *very* tempted to place a "certain" photo next to you qawer, but I am scared Hyperlexian will smack me. :(



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19 Feb 2013, 3:44 pm

qawer wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
If you had dark hair in that photo you'd look a bit like Robert Pattinson

Your look seems to vary a lot from photo to photo


I don't know what to say, it's all me for sure (-:

I guess the previous picture is very authentic if one was to meet me irl.


I've tended to go out with people who've shown an interest in me, who I find entertaining, have things in common with
and who I fancy back

Surely there are plenty of females like that all around you?

It's just a matter of trial and error

You can't hope to find a perfect match - that's unrealistic

Better to be getting experience of a variety of different relationships now so that if the perfect person does come along you'll be prepared

Every different person teaches you a bit more about human nature



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19 Feb 2013, 3:47 pm

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I feel *very* tempted to place a "certain" photo next to you qawer, but I am scared Hyperlexian will smack me. :(


Don't do it! 8O