How is being a rude person attract so many women? (sarcasm)

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The point was to stop believing things like that vulgar comic you posted. In other words, the above point you finally admitted.
Nice Guy, and nice guy, are said the same way. It was to debunk that myth, that was the purpose, to explain to nice guys, in a way they understand (which is made difficult by NICE GUY (TM) rot), that women like men who are genuinely nice, which is what they think of whne they say nice guy anyways.
As I said, whine arse, no NICE GUy (TM)

It is miiiiiine.

I don't like sharing. True story.

Because you attach vulnerability, insecurity and lack to the feeling?

Or maybe you're just an old goat

This is hopeless, threadlock please.

You cannot be serious. I thought all that locked thread rubbish was going to end.

Apperently this thread had zero point other than to make a convoluted semantics argument so I see no reason why it shouldn't be locked..........

It had a point that wasn't yours. You kept saying I needed help, when the whole point was to clarify beyond reasonable doubt, that being nice is a given, not something you strive to do. If it was made as simple as your response to "Well at least she responded as an honest woman and not some guy that thinks I need help", then this thread wouldn't be required. Say it so people know what you are talking about.
Why does being rude attract so many women? (SARCASM)

Well, that's finished now, hasn't it guys?

The argument was a little rude, which is in keeping with the topic, so therefore it's still on track, righ'?

lol are you trying to prove the title of this thread is actually true? nice try

I am an old goat. Very set in my ways.

At least when I'm nice it is genuine, and not fake like some Nice Guy (TM), so yeah.
I found the use of the word Nice to describe a flaw agonizingly absurd, so that put a little fuel to the fire as well.

We're all free to choose.

Funny someone brings up happiness. I had to learn that is just a state of mind that doesn't often last. Peace, and joy are real feelings that need to be sustained. Inability to sustain those feelings in my experience often leads to people not wanting me around either.

Being overly nice- I agree with the girl. It gets you nowhere and it gets you there quickly. It's what bad people take advantage of from you- take what they want, then throw you aside as if you had no real feelings. Then a good girl comes along, sees this in you and lets you down lightly, and you take out your frustration on her. Now you look like the a**hole or Nice Guy TM everyone hates being around. She will likely offer friendship, but you will turn it down out of a false sense of pride. (my experience). And yes, I was like the other guy in the boat... someone who got dumped for being too nice so she could go back to the a**hole she wanted to leave (she actually referred to him as an a**hole who didn't treat her right). Now she is broken up with him, and I can assure you she doesn't want me either.

Nobody said that being nice was a flaw. I sure as hell didn't.

It's not a virtue either. It's literally the bare minimum required to be a decent human being. Nobody deserves jack s**t for just being nice. Not sex, not a medal, not even a compliment. Look at this cartoon again:

The guy isn't losing because he's "nice." He's losing because that's the only thing he has to offer. If being "nice" is the best thing you have going for you, you're either incredibly boring or not actually the slightest bit nice.



If we really have been arguing the same point I fail to see how I'm anymore at fault for the communication issue than you are. I don't think your post was as clear as you think it was and based on some of the other comments in the thread, I'd say I'm not the only one who thinks this. I'm not always the best communicator so I'm willing to take 50% of the blame but only if you can do the same...........

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And why doesn't happiness - peace and joy - why doesn't it last? Because we get bored with them - we want to experience the whole range, or a broader range.

Hence - one of the reasons we don't want to be happy.

'Nice' guys are boring. The relationship is predictable. So, it denies possibility to the whole range.

I'll stop beating the drum now!

I hate this cartoon. It looks like lots of toffee apples running to snort a line of coke.

And I don't like the logic behind it. Stop running!

Yes, and at the same time... communication through multimedia format all the time = boring too. Noone wants to hang out with you if that is your primary source of communication as well as I have found in my experience.

I would also point out as well that when a girl is interested in you, it is up to the guy to keep the interest level high. Once her interest level drops below a certain level, there isn't a damn thing you can say, do, or any new hobby to engage in that will ever convince her to be interested in you again either. Her mind is made up, you will never be interesting to her again.