Can I really get a "hot" girl?

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Attractive to whom?

Um, what?

Not sure if you're talking about Aspie women or NT women, but I for one have been told by more than one person that I'm too logical at times!

If he is attracted to girls with the supermodel-type looks, then that is his choice. The question isn't offensive, because the fact that he is attracted to women with supermodel looks is a preference, just like some guys like women with blue eyes, others may like women who have dark hair and eyes etc.

Although personalities are still important too. But you cannot expect a relationship to work if the person you are dating is not your type appearance-wise. There are lots if attractive women out there, it mostly depends on whether they are attracted to you or not. Women don't judge so much on appearance, so you don't have to have a male model physique to date an attractive women. Out of all the attractive women in the world, I'm sure theres someone out there who finds you 'hot' too.

I am not sure about women not judging by looks. When I have been on dating sites women seem to look at my pic and block me without even talking to me.

I don't necessarily need a model-type girl, but there doesn't seem to be a very big abundance of them. I see there are only a few girls who look like that.

But the deeper someone looks beneath the skin, the harder or more complex it gets to understand the attraction... Does anybody else have this?

You seem to have your heart in the right place, as for the future, you definitely can get a hot girl but it's up to you turn the tables.

I don't have any friends in real life and my car is ten years old but I get laid so my online friend seems impressed when i show him photos of me and a beautiful woman. I'm more of a loner by choice, try to be your one man without caring about the approval of others and that definitely helps because it removes that desperation and that can act as a wall or a deterrent to women.

People like to chase something out of their reach or value so be out of reach instead of acting desperate. Lust is not as creative as the discovery.

A word of warning though, once you've been with beautiful women, it's hard to want anything else but it should give you confidence. That's why many men are working like crazy or working out like crazy because they know they have to keep the ball rolling if they are not socially gifted.

So yes, it can be done if you try and believe in yourself, be persistent in your goal.

"Get a hot girl"? Like do you pay for them or what? They come in that s**t packaging you have to kill your fingers to open?

Girls are not things to get. They are not things, period. They're people, much like you.

A "hot girl" is any girl who turns you on, body and soul. If you fail to understand your own tastes, and go for whatever you're told is hot, you're going to confuse yourself and use some girl, and hurt her. It will matter.

K. Kelly, you're talking in ways that promise misery and surprise when things go wrong, and unhappiness for the women in your life. Stop treating girls as objects to acquire, and understand what you're really after.

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I think we're all complicating the issue. If you want a "hot girlfriend", make yourself attractive first. Not an insult, I have no idea how you are, or what you look like. Also make yourself assertive. I don't recall anyone mentioning that.

To me attractiveness comes pretty far down the list in the qualities I'm searching for in a person. I mean, it does matter a bit to me, but I'd rather meet someone who is polite, non-judgmental and understanding as opposed to someone who is "hot" and disrespectful.

How do you make yourself assertive? Become stronger. Learn how to say no, things like that. Actually that's a good idea. If you aren't that assertive now, you should work on that.

Being assertive, doesn't make someone disrespectful. You are thinking of aggression, but difference. Being assertive will help his character. It wouldn't be for him to just get a girlfriend. Being assertive will help with his confidence and help in alot of other areas.

You sound bitter.

Yeah I started going to the gym too even though I'm primarily doing it for myself and nobody else.

Points out that women are people, not objects.

Must be a bitter, twisted old crone.

Yes, very bitter; the poor guy didn't even say what he finds hot and assuming and she wants to impose on him what he should find hot, hell the OP might even be teen.

Kezztar's thread is almost the same yet she didn't receive a such attack; they both want "conventional hot" partners and both aren't fit, the gender of the OP is the only difference.

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