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Aspie_for_the_Lord
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18 Apr 2007, 3:54 pm

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cheers for the awkward comment Anonnymous....

i just wish i knew what it was that put women off me... if its not personality, looks, hygene, or clothing...... then what IS it.... im mystified

Stimming? (That's turned a few people off me). Ummm.........can't think of much else.........

Strange glow in your eyes? Inability to make eye contact? (another problem I have had. Not an issue with Kevin, but still an issue.)

Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Sorry, overdoing it with the suggestions aren't I? :oops:

nope, none of them..... what do you mean strange glow in my eyes? :twisted:

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18 Apr 2007, 4:23 pm

You have very nice eyes, Gamester. Very blue.

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18 Apr 2007, 4:51 pm

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alright.

this is a slightly better picture....I think at least.

How the hell did you acheive that Gamester?

Hahaha. Gamester you need to PUT your arms around them! Us aspie men are hopeless:p hahahaha I'm not good at flirting either. Actually I dont do it unless I'm dating the girl. lol You, Me, and Aspie lord need to meet up and go on the 'hunt'. between my half assed social skills and the good looks between the two of you we might just find those things called WOMAN! hahaha

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18 Apr 2007, 4:58 pm

Hmmmmmmm......Interesting idea......

you would have better luck without me methinks...

a old friend of my ditched me cos' he never got anything when he went crusing with me... i repulse women... it seems to affect people around me too...

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18 Apr 2007, 5:04 pm

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Here is the thing though; You're actually both good looking. I am average looking with a few social skills and my strong point is that I'm good at being friends with girls. Actually most of my friends are girls other then my cousin Tyler. I've have some girls as friends that most guys would stumble about and forget their name around. Bad thing is I end up as the friend boy and getting TOO close is a bad thing with woman because then they dont want to ruin the 'friendship'. Either that or they think I am gay. lol Anyways...

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18 Apr 2007, 5:06 pm

dont suppose you live in the UK?, LOL

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18 Apr 2007, 5:14 pm

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dont suppose you live in the UK?, LOL

LOL. Nope. Here is a good 'strategy' though. Take your interests for instance... Well find some girls who have the same sorts of interests. You'll find that NT and AS alike you'll have a better chance. Oh and btw. There is a little truth about the culture thing. US, Canadian, New Zealand, and Australian girls will find you more interesting and write off your 'weirdness' as being a cultural thing. Don't rule it out. Sometimes long distance can work. Good luck.

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18 Apr 2007, 5:18 pm

all i have to do then, is find a woman what doesnt automatically run away in disgust when i try to say somthing....LOL

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18 Apr 2007, 6:16 pm

The only thing I can think of that immediately turns me off is if a guy appears desperate to meet a woman.

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18 Apr 2007, 7:17 pm

its not really desperation any more, its more observational Empirical Evidence

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18 Apr 2007, 9:57 pm

Fatallyflawed wrote:

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:

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alright.

this is a slightly better picture....I think at least.

How the hell did you acheive that Gamester?

Uhm........Howabout........not. seeing as I sorta (sorta as in not sure yet) do have a girl. nere one of those girls in that picture is the girl. those two are just good friends whose dorm I hang out in.

and in answer to your question AnonAnon, women like me. I'm a nice guy, they enjoy being around me. Most guys with girlfriends don't mind me, they don't see me as competition. My senior year of high school, one of my good female friends said that if I didn't find a date to any of my dances that she'd go with me even though she had a boyfriend, who didn't mind.

And Fatally Flawed, I was roped into the picture, because they wanted a picture with me. and I don't smile in pictures......well....rephrase that, I do, if my parents find a way. they did, with my first girlfriend, mention her name and I'd get a smile.

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23 Apr 2007, 6:49 pm

so I thought that after this weekend, that we should have an updated photo.

here it is.

and yes, the blonde dude is me. I went blonde.