Multiple guys competing for one girl

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Porn messes with your mind, porn messes even with the minds of those who have relationships and real sex.
I urge you to consider quitting porn.

^ Yes.
I've noticed a difference in my partner's behaviour since he got an iPhone last year and started viewing large amounts of porn.
He makes more sexually aggressive and explicit comments to me now which I find quite hurtful at times and our relationship has suffered in consequence.

Yet you consider girls objects to be acquired.

Porn addiction recovery is by no means easy, by the way.

Why don't we just lock this thread?

Because darkphantomx1 has had personal issues for a while now, and has brought it out on this forum through aggression.

We're psychologically digging deep to find the underlying issues, and it appears to be working. Perhaps we can provide him some constructive criticism.

Better than letting him decay and continue down this path he is.

Or encouraging him to wallow by giving him attention for his deranged views. He's pretty much a lost cause, as nobody can help a person who sees no need for assistance.

I have seen this a lot where I work. There have been a few girls (decent looking, but not super models, or anything) that have actually shown interest in me, but you can almost count on 5 or 6 other guys (many are married, or in relationships) hitting on them. I tend to pass on girls that draw too much attention.

I don't think he's a lost cause.
Maybe just 'lost'.

I just wanna put my dick in some p****. I'm tired of watching porn and watching hot girls, it makes me jealous and even more angry. I wish I could f**k a hot girl too. Every time I see a hot girl, I can imagine f*****g her and I get instant boner.



I'm so lonely ='( I feel like a part of me is missing, I need someone to fill that thing that's been missing my entire life. We all want the things we've never had. All iv'e ever wanted my entire life is to find a girl to fill that void thats been missing in my life.

I fall for a girl I like very hard and it absolutely kills me inside if she doesn't like me back. ='(

Have any hobbies/interests, DPX1?

Or any good friends who relate to you?

Didn't you say your college roommates are neutral/dislike towards you? Well, are you making an effort to meet new people (male or female)?

Once he actually has sex, he'll realize the mythological nature of it. He'll realize that quality trumps quantity any day.

What's most important is the person behind the anatomy, rather than the anatomy itself.

Buy a flesh light, or save up $5,000 and buy a "real" sex doll. So, I haven't actually seen any real advice in this whole thread. When it comes to talking to women, you simple have to not care about rejection. I know that sounds hard, but it's the truth. Also, you need to learn to pickup on what women are attracted to you. I used to think women were just being nice, but thinking back on it there have been many times in college where I could have easily dated certain women. I'm currently talking to someone whom I've met in college. I was able to get her facebook, because I knew she liked me. I'm going to ask for her number in a few days and ask her out in person. I don't expect to get rejected, but if I do, oh well. Women will almost always give you hints that they like you, even if it's just subtle ones. This could be as simple as smiling at you everyday, or always asking how you're doing. Yes, they COULD just be being friendly, but there is also a strong possibility that they like you. If you ask them out and get rejected, so what? Are you going to go and die, because someone doesn't date you? Trust me, there is more important things to worry about than getting rejected. If you don't believe me, just put on the News.

Start watching some James Bond movies, they help.

Watch a film called "Shame"

It might help you with you issues Dark

I advised him to seek therapy for his very messed up ideas about women, which I meant in all seriousness.

Really, OP--get yourself some help. Things will never change for you (except for the worse) unless you learn to change your approach to women and relationships.