I'm going to Talk to that Guy

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26 Jan 2016, 10:42 pm

AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
Yes :)

(I never do anything with my hair, so it'd be fun to see what other girls do with their hair for a love interest.)



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26 Jan 2016, 10:53 pm

I haven't been to the coffee house since last Friday, I been doing other stuff. When I do go back to the coffee house, I hope we can start talking, I would love it. He really is a nice guy :D



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26 Jan 2016, 11:44 pm

I hope you get with the guy you like, I really do. It's always nice when you get to date the person you have a huge crush on.

Reminds me of last spring when I had a huge crush on this girl and I never could figure her out and honestly it got pretty annoying that she would send mixed signals and it got to the point where the last month of ever seeing her, I was depressed. The last day of ever seeing her in the middle of May, I wore all black and we hugged goodbye. It was sad for me to see her go.


So yeah if you like a guy, please remember to smile and act interested because he may like you too.



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27 Jan 2016, 10:18 am

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Maybe he felt rejected by you, it has happened to me before completely unintentionally on my part. i.e. I did not realise it. Don't hang around there for hours, just work out what day he goes in and just go in for a coffee, more if you get talking to him. If he picks up the vibes from you that you're interested, he might become interested back. Yet if he felt rejected before, he may be more hesitant. Don't be too afraid to look at him, unless he never looks back, in which case he may be trying to avoid eye contact. Men know a womans' interest from her looking at them frequently, or at least that's how they intepret it, and can find it flattering.


Why would he feel rejected by me? He knows I'm interested in him, I do look at him, I didn't know why I was looking so much at first. He been looking at me too & he helped me with my coffee once.


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27 Jan 2016, 5:07 pm

I'm at the coffee house & he talked to me, he said "hi, how are you?" And I gave him a big smile. I was going talk too, but someone else came, the guy was making sandwiches, when I came up to the counter, he turned & talked to me. I told the guy who was taking my order & he asked my name, the guy I have a crush on, he told the guy my name & he spelled it for him, wow! I want to talk to him, I'm sooooo tired of not knowing if he's interested or I'm believing in something that is not true. If this is true, why I'm not letting myself believe it, what wrong with me! When he made my sandwich, he brought it to my table, he don't to that for everyone. I should buy something else, I should go up to the counter & talk to him.



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29 Jan 2016, 7:27 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:
I hope you get with the guy you like, I really do. It's always nice when you get to date the person you have a huge crush on.

Reminds me of last spring when I had a huge crush on this girl and I never could figure her out and honestly it got pretty annoying that she would send mixed signals and it got to the point where the last month of ever seeing her, I was depressed. The last day of ever seeing her in the middle of May, I wore all black and we hugged goodbye. It was sad for me to see her go.


So yeah if you like a guy, please remember to smile and act interested because he may like you too.


Thanks for the good advice.



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29 Jan 2016, 10:35 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
Yes :)

(I never do anything with my hair, so it'd be fun to see what other girls do with their hair for a love interest.)



Do you still want to see a picture?


Yes, though you don't have to go to any trouble on my account. :)



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31 Jan 2016, 12:24 am

AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
Yes :)

(I never do anything with my hair, so it'd be fun to see what other girls do with their hair for a love interest.)



Do you still want to see a picture?


Yes, though you don't have to go to any trouble on my account. :)



I don't usually fix up my hair. The lightening was a little bad.
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31 Jan 2016, 12:27 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:
Yes :)

(I never do anything with my hair, so it'd be fun to see what other girls do with their hair for a love interest.)



Do you still want to see a picture?


Yes, though you don't have to go to any trouble on my account. :)



I don't usually fix up my hair. The lightening was a little bad.
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Very pretty Kitty :D
Thanks for posting the pic!



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01 Feb 2016, 7:16 pm

nice to know that, wish more girls did approach guys



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01 Feb 2016, 7:57 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
nice to know that, wish more girls did approach guys


Nice to know what? Well, I was very shy to talk to him, but I'm getting comfortable talking to him. I talked more to him last Wednesday than I ever did, I was proud of myself :D



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02 Feb 2016, 10:48 pm

Kitty4670 wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
nice to know that, wish more girls did approach guys


Nice to know what? Well, I was very shy to talk to him, but I'm getting comfortable talking to him. I talked more to him last Wednesday than I ever did, I was proud of myself :D


nice to know that you are interested in taking the plunge and going over to talk to him first, because most girls would rather miss out on being with a guy than to approach him first