How bad does my final text message sound? She didn't reply?

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Last edited by B19 on 12 May 2017, 2:20 am, edited 2 times in total.: personal attack

I know your type. You are one of those people that think their diagnosis is a valid excuse to behave like an a**hole. And I have a daughter (also with ASD diagnosis) that frequently blocks your type. Unlike you, she is not a complete a**hole, rather a nice, funny and positive girl. I hope she never hooks up with the likes of you.

Do you think you own the forum, or what?

Last edited by B19 on 15 May 2017, 5:47 am, edited 1 time in total.: offensive material

Are we gonna go back and forth all day, or are you going to leave like I asked?

No, you're not nice. You have a short temper, you're self-righteous and, like rdos pointed out, you use your diagnosis as an excuse.
If you were nice, you would still be disappointed and frustrated about the rejection, but you'd not like to kick anyone's ass for not wanting to be your girlfriend.
Of course a madman could murder a girl for not replying to his message. A person who does that would very likely assault her for refusing to give him her number too and all in all being killed because he loses his temper is more likely than planed murder. But being killed isn't the only risk. There's also the risk of getting injured or, if she's alone with him, raped. Of course in most cases it won't happen, but for her it's bad enough if it happens once.
If she just gives him her number/any wrong number and ignores him later, no one will see that she rejected him. Some guys might hate it if everyone witnesses how they get rejected.

Besides, how honest are you in real life? Based on what you've said so far you hate women and constantly lie to them to get a girlfriend (and if you're honest it's by accident). Of course lying to girls to get what you want is okay, but if a girl lies to you to avoid an uncomfortable situation it makes her evil, right?

Northwind, to be fair, rdos does frequently display an unhealthy compulsion to be right all the time when someone disagrees with him. He does resort to subtle psychological tricks to infuriate people when he finds the right buttons to push. I'll admit my own insecurities fall just below his, and I've had to become much more selective in my responses to people than I'd like to in order to avoid wasting time on WP. The way rdos handles this borders on bullying.

I like L&D because it's more of a supportive environment. If what you have to say is hurtful to someone else, no matter how "innocent" you make it appear, it's always best to simply withdraw from the argument. Take it to the resident WP Fight Club known as PPR if that's what you want to do, but in L&D please learn when it's best to leave someone alone.

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