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09 Mar 2018, 12:33 am

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I strive to be the best man I can be, f$#^ the rest.

I think most jerks have similar mindset.



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09 Mar 2018, 12:55 am

314pe wrote:
muffinhead wrote:
I strive to be the best man I can be, f$#^ the rest.

I think most jerks have similar mindset.

Just wait. In a few minutes he'll try to justify it.


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09 Mar 2018, 1:20 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
314pe wrote:
muffinhead wrote:
I strive to be the best man I can be, f$#^ the rest.

I think most jerks have similar mindset.

Just wait. In a few minutes he'll try to justify it.

BTW, I am not saying that muffinhead is a jerk or that this mindset is bad. I am just saying that most jerks probably think like that too.



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09 Mar 2018, 1:39 am

314pe wrote:
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314pe wrote:
muffinhead wrote:
I strive to be the best man I can be, f$#^ the rest.

I think most jerks have similar mindset.

Just wait. In a few minutes he'll try to justify it.

BTW, I am not saying that muffinhead is a jerk or that this mindset is bad. I am just saying that most jerks probably think like that too.

I stand corrected.


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09 Mar 2018, 3:06 am

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None of us are saying we're entitled to a relationship. This thread was started as a rebuttal to "no wonder you don't have a gf" , which is probably something that was said to the OP.

''no wonder you don't have a boyfriend.''
''no wonder you're not married.''
''no wonder you don't have many friends.''


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09 Mar 2018, 3:29 am

fluffysaurus wrote:
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None of us are saying we're entitled to a relationship. This thread was started as a rebuttal to "no wonder you don't have a gf" , which is probably something that was said to the OP.

''no wonder you don't have a boyfriend.''
''no wonder you're not married.''
''no wonder you don't have many friends.''

Well they're not nice things to say either.

Besides, you're a much better woman than some I've met who had lots of friends and a husband and/or boyfriend.


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09 Mar 2018, 8:10 am

RetroGamer87 wrote:
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None of us are saying we're entitled to a relationship. This thread was started as a rebuttal to "no wonder you don't have a gf" , which is probably something that was said to the OP.

''no wonder you don't have a boyfriend.''
''no wonder you're not married.''
''no wonder you don't have many friends.''

Well they're not nice things to say either.

Besides, you're a much better woman than some I've met who had lots of friends and a husband and/or boyfriend.

I agree, the whole "no wonder you're single" comment is a dick thing to say. But again, instead of getting angry about it, I'd take that comment as a wake up call to change my behavior. That's the healthy, positive thing to do.


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09 Mar 2018, 3:12 pm

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Meeks was born in Washington on February 7, 1984, and is the son of Katherine Angier[6] and brother of Emery Meeks.[7]

In 2002, Meeks was charged with robbery and corporal injury to a child. Meeks had violently assaulted a 16-year-old boy. After making a plea deal, he was sentenced to serve two years in a California prison. During this time he had admitted that he was a member of the North Side Gangster Crips.[8]



This criminal guy....is more successful dating wise than ALL of you, guys (Because he is very handsome).

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-06-20/w ... ot/5537580



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09 Mar 2018, 3:35 pm

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Meeks was born in Washington on February 7, 1984, and is the son of Katherine Angier[6] and brother of Emery Meeks.[7]

In 2002, Meeks was charged with robbery and corporal injury to a child. Meeks had violently assaulted a 16-year-old boy. After making a plea deal, he was sentenced to serve two years in a California prison. During this time he had admitted that he was a member of the North Side Gangster Crips.[8]



This criminal guy....is more successful dating wise than ALL of you, guys (Because he is very handsome).

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-06-20/w ... ot/5537580


And he probably isn't traumatized or easily deterred rejection. He certainly isn't easily deterred from crime by incarceration.



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09 Mar 2018, 4:02 pm

Chronos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Meeks was born in Washington on February 7, 1984, and is the son of Katherine Angier[6] and brother of Emery Meeks.[7]

In 2002, Meeks was charged with robbery and corporal injury to a child. Meeks had violently assaulted a 16-year-old boy. After making a plea deal, he was sentenced to serve two years in a California prison. During this time he had admitted that he was a member of the North Side Gangster Crips.[8]



This criminal guy....is more successful dating wise than ALL of you, guys (Because he is very handsome).

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-06-20/w ... ot/5537580


And he probably isn't traumatized or easily deterred rejection. He certainly isn't easily deterred from crime by incarceration.


It seems you are trying to justify that they didn't like him for looks only.

Those women liked him because he's very hot looking and there's no more to it , not because of a personality trait , they just saw his pic on the internet - stop trying to give deeper meanings to things which aren't there.

So no, they didn't like him because he isn't easily deterred or such b.s.

...and I am not easily deterred by silly posts like this one or by rejection or by whatever you are trying to imply.



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09 Mar 2018, 4:55 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:
fluffysaurus wrote:
RetroGamer87 wrote:
None of us are saying we're entitled to a relationship. This thread was started as a rebuttal to "no wonder you don't have a gf" , which is probably something that was said to the OP.

''no wonder you don't have a boyfriend.''
''no wonder you're not married.''
''no wonder you don't have many friends.''

Well they're not nice things to say either.

Besides, you're a much better woman than some I've met who had lots of friends and a husband and/or boyfriend.
Thank you :star:


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09 Mar 2018, 5:11 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Chronos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Meeks was born in Washington on February 7, 1984, and is the son of Katherine Angier[6] and brother of Emery Meeks.[7]

In 2002, Meeks was charged with robbery and corporal injury to a child. Meeks had violently assaulted a 16-year-old boy. After making a plea deal, he was sentenced to serve two years in a California prison. During this time he had admitted that he was a member of the North Side Gangster Crips.[8]



This criminal guy....is more successful dating wise than ALL of you, guys (Because he is very handsome).

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-06-20/w ... ot/5537580


And he probably isn't traumatized or easily deterred rejection. He certainly isn't easily deterred from crime by incarceration.


It seems you are trying to justify that they didn't like him for looks only.

Those women liked him because he's very hot looking and there's no more to it , not because of a personality trait , they just saw his pic on the internet - stop trying to give deeper meanings to things which aren't there.
Of course his personality is part of it. A lot of women find thugs and nut jobs attractive, every murderer gets letters and emails from women wanting to marry them. His looks don't hurt either, obviously.
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Amanda Sullivan also left a comment, saying the mugshot was "the most attractive looking mug shot I've ever seen!".
Like mug shots are where you look to to find your next boyfriend :roll: Please take note, this guy might get interest from lots of women, but those women all have screws loose.
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So no, they didn't like him because he isn't easily deterred or such b.s.

...and I am not easily deterred by silly posts like this one or by rejection or by whatever you are trying to imply.
Chronos may have meant just what she put and not been implying anything. I mean, he does sound like he just does what he likes, and isn't deterred, which would also be attractive to some women.


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09 Mar 2018, 7:30 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Chronos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Meeks was born in Washington on February 7, 1984, and is the son of Katherine Angier[6] and brother of Emery Meeks.[7]

In 2002, Meeks was charged with robbery and corporal injury to a child. Meeks had violently assaulted a 16-year-old boy. After making a plea deal, he was sentenced to serve two years in a California prison. During this time he had admitted that he was a member of the North Side Gangster Crips.[8]



This criminal guy....is more successful dating wise than ALL of you, guys (Because he is very handsome).

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-06-20/w ... ot/5537580


And he probably isn't traumatized or easily deterred rejection. He certainly isn't easily deterred from crime by incarceration.


It seems you are trying to justify that they didn't like him for looks only.

Those women liked him because he's very hot looking and there's no more to it , not because of a personality trait , they just saw his pic on the internet - stop trying to give deeper meanings to things which aren't there.

So no, they didn't like him because he isn't easily deterred or such b.s.

...and I am not easily deterred by silly posts like this one or by rejection or by whatever you are trying to imply.


It's probably because he's "hot" and confident.

Doesn't take a genius to figure that out.


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10 Mar 2018, 4:10 am

fluffysaurus wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Chronos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Meeks was born in Washington on February 7, 1984, and is the son of Katherine Angier[6] and brother of Emery Meeks.[7]

In 2002, Meeks was charged with robbery and corporal injury to a child. Meeks had violently assaulted a 16-year-old boy. After making a plea deal, he was sentenced to serve two years in a California prison. During this time he had admitted that he was a member of the North Side Gangster Crips.[8]



This criminal guy....is more successful dating wise than ALL of you, guys (Because he is very handsome).

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-06-20/w ... ot/5537580


And he probably isn't traumatized or easily deterred rejection. He certainly isn't easily deterred from crime by incarceration.


It seems you are trying to justify that they didn't like him for looks only.

Those women liked him because he's very hot looking and there's no more to it , not because of a personality trait , they just saw his pic on the internet - stop trying to give deeper meanings to things which aren't there.
Of course his personality is part of it. A lot of women find thugs and nut jobs attractive, every murderer gets letters and emails from women wanting to marry them. His looks don't hurt either, obviously.
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Amanda Sullivan also left a comment, saying the mugshot was "the most attractive looking mug shot I've ever seen!".
Like mug shots are where you look to to find your next boyfriend :roll: Please take note, this guy might get interest from lots of women, but those women all have screws loose.
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So no, they didn't like him because he isn't easily deterred or such b.s.

...and I am not easily deterred by silly posts like this one or by rejection or by whatever you are trying to imply.
Chronos may have meant just what she put and not been implying anything. I mean, he does sound like he just does what he likes, and isn't deterred, which would also be attractive to some women.


This is correct. I was speaking of him seeking women and not women seeking him. But it's true some women seek out men in prison. My theory on this is those particular women do like "bad boys", provided they are in a cage where he can't hurt her or easily cheat on her, she always knows where he is and she doesn't have to see him often.



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10 Mar 2018, 6:56 am

XFilesGeek wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Chronos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Meeks was born in Washington on February 7, 1984, and is the son of Katherine Angier[6] and brother of Emery Meeks.[7]

In 2002, Meeks was charged with robbery and corporal injury to a child. Meeks had violently assaulted a 16-year-old boy. After making a plea deal, he was sentenced to serve two years in a California prison. During this time he had admitted that he was a member of the North Side Gangster Crips.[8]



This criminal guy....is more successful dating wise than ALL of you, guys (Because he is very handsome).

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-06-20/w ... ot/5537580


And he probably isn't traumatized or easily deterred rejection. He certainly isn't easily deterred from crime by incarceration.


It seems you are trying to justify that they didn't like him for looks only.

Those women liked him because he's very hot looking and there's no more to it , not because of a personality trait , they just saw his pic on the internet - stop trying to give deeper meanings to things which aren't there.

So no, they didn't like him because he isn't easily deterred or such b.s.

...and I am not easily deterred by silly posts like this one or by rejection or by whatever you are trying to imply.


It's probably because he's "hot" and confident.

Doesn't take a genius to figure that out.




Because he’s hot, and that’s it.

He looks confident to you because he looks hot.



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10 Mar 2018, 7:06 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Meeks was born in Washington on February 7, 1984, and is the son of Katherine Angier[6] and brother of Emery Meeks.[7]

In 2002, Meeks was charged with robbery and corporal injury to a child. Meeks had violently assaulted a 16-year-old boy. After making a plea deal, he was sentenced to serve two years in a California prison. During this time he had admitted that he was a member of the North Side Gangster Crips.[8]



This criminal guy....is more successful dating wise than ALL of you, guys (Because he is very handsome).

http://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-06-20/w ... ot/5537580


Not just handsome. It takes some serious courage, strength and survival skills to be a competent criminal.


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