Wanna date me?

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Not anymore then her living off her parents ornwith roomates would be awkward.

My only issue with dating a man who lives with his family is that people who have never lived on their own often don't realize what is involved in keeping up a dwelling because their parents or a housekeeper typically did the cleaning at home. I had to explain to my roommate when he moved in that it doesn't matter if he didn't make messes because things get dirty on their own.

Only things that get dirty by their own is dust.
Dishes get dirty cause someone used them and didn’t clean them after. I clean mine after before I eat, why should I clean up other peoples messes? They won’t even clean up heir own.

Because of the impression it makes on your date. She won’t know or care who made the mess, she will judge you based on it anyways.

I’m fortunate that I’m the least tidy one in the house, so just my room is untidy.

In your situation. Sly, honest to God you should NEVER invite a girl into your home - especially if you ever want to see her again. Seriously. Don’t tell her the real reason why. Just tell her that the family dogs are unpredictable and can get aggressive with strangers so no one besides who lives in the house can go inside because it’s dangerous.

Unless she’s blind and has no sense of smell, then by all means, invite her in for tea. But otherwise you should plan on always going out for dates and hanging out at her place.

Money=freedom, simple as that. Money is nothing more, nothing less, and how you choose to wield your freedom factors a lot into attractiveness.

Money is not the ONLY source of freedom. It’s just the big, obvious one.

Stay-at-home-woman types don’t mind dependency. We all depend on each other for something, so that’s not the real issue. Women don’t want to be slaves to a man or the household. The Netflix and chill girl can’t do that if she doesn’t know she has security, so the man who can offer that is who she’ll gravitate to. A lot of women, too, are attracted to the idea of being a homemaker with a good side-hustle (my wife used to sell Younique, but she started getting hate from her upline so she gave it up. She’s a Plexus girl now. PM me if you’re interested, haha!). So if you want that girl, you have to be responsible for her independence as well as yours. So both the homemaker and the working Netflix and chill girl end up being higher maintenance than you might think.

We have so many special occasions and social obligations that “dating” as a married couple is a thing of the past. Over time, you should expect a degree of upward social mobility, so we’re never short on being entertained. There is a renovated plantation home within walking distance of us that schedules events open to the public, and we see a lot of our friends there. We don’t do it as a date-date thing, but it serves the same function. When you are young or in early dating stages, dating is getting to know someone and having fun. As you move along in your relationship, you’ll probably find that you sort of transcend the “just-us” thing and start bringing more and more people into your circle.

It’s still romantic and fun, don’t get me wrong. It’s just you never think about going there in life and then...there you are. My point is that Netflix and chill is more often the destination and not the journey.

Only things that get dirty by their own is dust.
Dishes get dirty cause someone used them and didn’t clean them after. I clean mine after before I eat, why should I clean up other peoples messes? They won’t even clean up heir own.

What messes should I clean at restaurants 0.o

I don’t think I’d invite a girl to my house unless we were in a relationship, which would give me time to get them to clean it. They’ve cleaned a lot of it up currently. I just hope they keep up on it. I’d rather we just not have dogs. I get almost nothing from them.

You don't live at a restaurant.

Similar rules apply, though. You should avoid taking dates to restaurants you know aren't clean.

You said it’d make impression on my date. I won’t be having dates at my house.

I said that because it's extremely common for people to invite their date back to their home, especially when things are likely to get sexual. I cautioned you against this because you've described what your home is like. You'll have to go to her place, use the back of your car, sleep under the stars somewhere, or rent a hotel room etc.

I don’t onw a car. I won’t be having sex with a woman on first date or ones after. I dont know if ever have sex. If I did it would be after month or more.
At which point hopefully she knows and likes me and my house is cleaned up like for inspections. I won’t go to woman’s house either. Apparently a lot of women see that as mooching.