"Women aren't attracted to men"

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This is true. However, successful relationships are built on more than physical attraction alone. This thread is about being attracted to men. Attraction can be physical, or it can be to a person's brain/personality/achievements/whatever else.

You still need to see her pic first . She might be a hag ...you know.

I do know one thing though: at least 90% of women don't appreciate a damn thing you do for them. They just act like it's expected of you, and get mad at you if you don't.
So it's either "Oh ok, he did what he was supposed to do" or "Oh my god! You're not treating me like a princess! How dare you!?"

I think that's why Dave DeAngelo would argue that you should do very little for them, piss em off, and at least have their respect when they decide that maybe they like you just for being stand-up and having some guts. While I do see major shortfalls in his theory, like I'm more for a long term relationship than booty-calls, its pretty clear to me that I'd never want to be with someone who can't respect me. My private life is my sanctuary, I get enough stress at work, enough stress with bills, enough stress with auto repairs and the like, I don't need to add people to my life who do little more than drain me.

Really? You know 90% of women? That's just under 2.7 billion people, after all. Good Lord, how do you even begin to manage your Christmas card list??

She might. He may also be ugly.

She is a very attractive, but I think a bit old for you

Sure, that's why he must show himself too

I wondered about that myself.

I believe it has to do with the society. That is, the era we live in.
Long ago when individual life was more self-directed such as with hunting etc. men had a more pivotal role in women's lives being that they had to provide more extensively in areas of provision of livelihood.
Nowadays, our society has rendered men functionally useless as women can provide their own needs through being able to work.
They don't need men to bring home food as they can just go to the grocery store, drive their own cars, etc.
Unfortunately their is little men can do for women now beyond being rockstars for entertainment or rish tycoons or any form of societally dictated high status.
I think we'd find that if we returned to life as it was before women could not afford to be fickle as they are in modern day. Civilization has brought the natural strong male providing trait to nothing. Men today have no direction, they arent physically or mentally sturdy and have no function.
I believe back then men were thickskinned hardasses who brought order to their lives and the lives of women and women simply would not survive had they been fickle flaky creatures as they are today.
Its ok, men. I don't believe we should all strive to be rockstars or weird egocentric rich guys. We should not go to such extreme lengths to impress women. Neither can the world afford to have everyone running around tryin to be rich and destroying the planet in the process.
What i believe we should do is have understanding of what the situation is. I also think we should not spend all these enormous amounts of efforts to impress the opposite sex.
Is it really worth it to spend your life and efforts tryin to pursue women? I can assure you it is not. Go learn something new. Go start a fight-club or do some parkour and some form of mischief.
Don't let them let you how to live your life.
Most women simply don't care about who you are as a man and the ones who do care are already taken.
I mean, where is it written that men were meant to spend there lives looking for the next pussy-fix?
I've not come across anything like that.
I think its sad and pathetic that we make relationships and/or making money the focal point of our lives. Go do some DMT or something and just dictate the pace of your life on your OWN terms.
Get with the program men.

Please don't resurrect threads from four years ago! Many of the original posters have long since gone.