why do girls sometimes treat me like a little kid?

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kid020
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28 Feb 2008, 3:44 pm

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No it's called sex, I wasn't talking about random girls I didn't know. ( you don't seem to know much about it). You have no room to call me a loser, and tell me to get my life together. I have managed to be in a relationship, and have friends and quite frankly do well most of the time. Just curious, have you?

Not really. I have one good platonic friend for eleven years, but that's about it.

I admit I have little social success, though at least I'm damn sure it's not because I'm disrespectful or sexist.

You remind me a bit of one of my friends he thinks talking about women in a sexual manner is sexist. I try to explain to him that as males we are naturally wired to behave that way, just not talk in a very foward manner to a girl's face Ie banging them against a bed or wall because that is threatening to them.
He doesn't get it. He has Asperger's. Interesting coinsidence.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:47 pm

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Kid020, you're clearly caught off guard and looking for an arguement...and so, I present to you:

2+2=22.[/quote

no 2+2= 4

Sigh. Just as I expected. I don't like you, or your "wide" yet narrow views.

I dare you to submit to one of your faults. I dare you.

You seem to be the arrogant one. Thinking you are better than me for whatever reason. Frankly your games are quite immature. There is no possible way you could know what my flaws are. I sure as f**k don't like you either, oh btw Math isn't my subject.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:50 pm

kid020 wrote:

]You remind me a bit of one of my friends he thinks talking about women in a sexual manner is sexist. I try to explain to him that as males we are naturally wired to behave that way, just not talk in a very foward manner to a girl's face Ie banging them against a bed or wall because that is threatening to them.

What?

No, no, no. I understand that we humans are sexual creatures, and that there is nothing inherently misogynist about talking about women in a sexual manner. But I don't know exactly what kind of response you wanted from me after boasting that you could "physically" throw a woman against a wall or bed and copulate with her. What exactly, is it, that you are boasting about?

I don't know you. But look back and reread your posts. Is it really that hard to arrive at the conclusion that you're an immature misogynist?

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28 Feb 2008, 3:50 pm

Bluesummers wrote:

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wow you're not very intelliegent are you?

I don't know if I'm "intelliegent" or not, whatever the hell that means. If you're going to insult me on the basis of intelligence, at least have the decency to use proper English. Spell correctly, and punctuate when necessary.

Guess what I did spell properly? You don't know what intelligent means, yea thats obvious lol.

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Guess what I can physically throw a girl to the wall or on the bed and bang her brains out. Why the hell wouldn't I want to?

So can a lot of people. They're called rapists.

Stop being a loser and get your act together.

I could almost swear your a bitter virgin. Try much to impress while seeming indifferent much?

No! Sorry you've lost 50 points on that question. I am not a virgin. A virgin as you probablly already know is someone who has not had sex. I have had sex with a girl, many times. Now this discusiion is getting pointless and way off topic.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:53 pm

Speaking as moderator here: the insults have got to stop. "You are arrogant" etc.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:53 pm

kid020 wrote:

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I've had people treat me like a kid. It's annoying at times but I rather be that than the boring "adult".

Are you Asperger's because this made me think of another aspect of this situation which I find quite interesting: I have read that people with Asperger's tend to act developmentally younger. This is a very positive view on your situation. I think it would be less likely to bother a girl to be treated like a kid. At times, I don't mind it when girls treat me like a kid if there being nice to me, it just makes me feel like they don't look at me as a potential boyfriend.

Yes, I have AS. No, I don't like being treated "at times" like a kid unless they're not being insulting about it. I consider myself mature for my age but I like to do some things that aren't seen as age appropriate. People with AS should know what I mean by problems with age appropriate interests such as anime, collecting dolls, laughing at things others wouldn't consider appropriate. If this is about IQ, that's another matter.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:54 pm

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What?

My point was if I could physically throw them into a wall or on the bed and have sex with them (when they were willing let's get that part straight) then why would they be treating me like a child when I'm a man. Immature misogynist. I get really tired of this kind of talk. A misogynist is a guy who doesn't respect women, I respect women very much, so therefore I am not a misogynist.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:55 pm

How old are you?

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28 Feb 2008, 3:57 pm

kid020 wrote:

The answer to that question is that the ability to have sex or perform feats of physical strength does not convince others of one's maturity. Generally a man is treated by others as an adult when he appears to be the sort of person who can handle adult responsibilities.

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28 Feb 2008, 3:59 pm

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How old are you?

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28 Feb 2008, 4:00 pm

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Yes and I most certainly can handle adult responsibilities.

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28 Feb 2008, 4:00 pm

Phagocyte wrote:

How old are you?

I second that, but furthermore it's not about physical age.

If I had to guess from your petty defensive arguments and insults, I'd say your mentality is that of a 12-16 year old. Young and confused, yet so adamant in your own godliness.

I don't know your real age, but if it's anything above what I had specified, I really do pity you.

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28 Feb 2008, 4:02 pm

Bluesummers wrote:

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How old are you?

No actually, my mentality is that of my age, which is 20. You do not know me stop pretending you know what your talking about in this situation ebcause you don't. I pity you for not knowing what you're talking half the time.

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28 Feb 2008, 4:05 pm

kid020 wrote:

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Yes and I most certainly can handle adult responsibilities.

Your actual capabilities don't impact people's behavior toward you so much as their perception of your personality and abilities. You might want to think about this for a while, about the way you come across to other people. This is a hard subject for aspies. I still don't know how I come across to most people. But it's worth some thought.

If you have trusted friends IRL, you might consider bringing it up with them. "How do I seem? How do I come across to people?" Don't argue with what they say (you don't want to discourage honesty, or you might not get it again). Just listen and see if you can gain something from what they tell you.

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28 Feb 2008, 4:09 pm

kid020 wrote:

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How old are you?

Still so defensive...and you're right, I don't know you. But I know well enough to see the predictable patterns of a sad human. So, tell me, what has led you to come here and act like this? I know it's an act. You're not this pompous. What are you hiding?

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28 Feb 2008, 4:12 pm

Bluesummers wrote:

kid020 wrote:

Bluesummers wrote:

Phagocyte wrote:

How old are you?

It's not an act I'm just so damn frusterated. I'm sick of people tellling what to do. I lost my only girlfriend in high school who I was with for 2 years due to my mom forbidding me to see her, which I fought against but I didn't win. After that I just got so depressed about losing her, that I just didn't care anymore about much.

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