do you find autistic girls attractive?

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I'm an Aspie, and I've dated a few Aspies guys and they've been awesome. I've met some pretty good looking Aspie women too. I think it's just like everything else. There's good looking and not so good looking women/men no matter where you look...aspie or not.

Never met an aspie girl before. Heck, never met an aspie in real life before either.

To me, it wouldn't matter honestly. Aesthetic qualities are practically on the bottom of my list when I judge a girl. What I care about more is whether or not they actually care about my wellbeing. That alone makes somebody my friend. Sad that I only have 2 friends then.

For many guys on here, it doesn't sound like it's an issue of them being attractive, but more of the mindset of a female Aspie being the best they can ever hope for.

I find their green skins and their antennas very sexy...

I would have imagined the two to be synonymous. Typically, there seems to be a correlation between attractiveness and beauty. But I digress - many people may not see that as true.

To answer the actual question then, I would expect no less of an Aspie girl as from any other one. Some will learn how to dress their best all the time, while others will prefer to ignore it and just put on whatever they want to. The same as any other regular people.

I would like to have an aspie partner, but each time I've gotten to know an aspie girl I've found that they're either:

A: Too frigid, even by Aspie standards.

B: Already has a boyfriend.

C: Too frigid and already has a boyfriend, though god knows how.

And that's after knowing ALOT of Aspie girls in person. Wish is why I've pretty much given up on the idea of 'find someone who you have alot in common with= Aspie perfect partner' I've now been much more successful in dating NT girls (and one special one )

But don't let that put you off from searching guys, maybe you are more favoured by fate.


As for phyisical attractiveness, I've found that they are just as varied as NTs; though that's strictly Aspies, not other autism. There was one Aspie girl in my college Aspie room that was quite possibly the most attractive girl in the college. *nods*

Last edited by SDFarsight on 12 Sep 2009, 8:08 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I prefer anyone who can be on the same page as me without making a bunch of stupid assumptions.

What does frigid mean?

I think there is a fine line between beauty and attractiveness. People tend to find the same traits attractive. But men are usually attracted to a woman's beauty instead of her personality. In this case aspie girls arent all attractive, if aspie males arent either. If every woman and every man looked the same, had the same financial staus, and everything/ Well let's say that the world was in extreme socialism and everyone looked the same and no one was more successful than the other. What would be attractive then. This is where aspies as a whole may succeed or fail as one. These men dont really like most of these women, they just want sex. This is why aspie girls are attractive.
Why do men call women beautiful, the rape them? because they like their beauty, but hate them as a person or is not attracted to them as a whole.
So are autistic girls really attractive? it depends on what personaluity traits you find attractive. If one likes shy, introverted, awkwards girls (all of us aspies are awkward to NTs), then thats what floats your boat. But most guys just like shy girls because they think they are stupid and naive and can get in their pants quicker.
So thats how it is.

No, I really mean it. Sorry if I made it sound like I was sarcastic.

I'd pick an autistic shy girl over a noisy, bitchy NT girl anyday.

Frigid means "emotionless b***h" if I'm not mistaken. Many people I know that apply for 'frigid'. Mind you, they are NT so I won't count them on the wrong planet.

Not necessarily unemotional and bitchy. Just so socially-phobic that it's like asexualism and epic shyness combined. Indeed one girl I knew did think she was asexual, though I'm sure some guy would eventually catch her heart someday.

Heather Kuzmich has Aspergers. I consider her to be attractive.

Has anyone noticed that there are already aspie men and women on this site and that there is NO chemistry between the two? At best I get along with AS women, kind of like the way it works with guys.

How would said people act in certain situations?