Dating/Marrying People from a foreign culture Your thoughts?

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03 May 2009, 7:50 pm

jimmister wrote:
Is there a European population in the anywhere in the Northeastern US? And, no, I am not asking for anything serious. Just wondering.


Here's one: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brighton_Beach


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03 May 2009, 7:54 pm

raisedbyignorance wrote:
I'm a half-asian aspie and a girl. You would think that would be an awesome combination but it is an absolute nightmare for me.

Being approached and stalked by guys with their asian fetishes...having guys attracted to you cause you're some cute asian. It's insane. It's horrifying.

And of course they turned away once my true personality kicks in...so hypocritically typical of them.

My dad's side of the family are asian-fetish people. Aside from my dad marrying a Korean, he has a brother who married a Vietnamese woman earlier this year. I worry about what they were thinking when they married their wives. Especially my dad. My parents have a very loveless marriage. My mom yells at my dad at least twice a week and they dont even sleep in the same room.

I wouldn't want some guy to be interested in me on account of being asian. Some of those people are just crazy. Good to know that most guys are becoming more PC about being attracted to other races and such but I find it shallow when they're attracted to me cause I'm part asian. Oh well.


I get this same harassment, being multi-cultural. Since I am a woman of color, I get white guys who have fetishes for brown skin, thinking that I will be flattered if they hit on me. They are never respectful, these types. They come across frightening, over familiar, and arrogant. :x


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