To nonvirgin gays & st8s: STOP GLOATING ABOUT YOUR SEX L
MissConstrue wrote:
There's something boring about people who assume the universe and people revolve around them....there's something boring about it.
__MissC.
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"All matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration. That we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively, there is no such thing as death, life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves. "
Think about it. You know why hippies are cool? They love unconditionally similar to a buddhist, they are spontaneous. They don't talk about themselves all day. It's not a matter of we think life resolves around us.
It's that we realize that all beings on this planet are alike, there's a sense of sameness. We are all connected in a mystical way and we should be happy together than to speak of happiness.
BE HAPPY, don't talk about it! That means you're probably not even really that happy.
TXaspie wrote:
There's nothing more boring and uninteresting than a female aspie with a boyfriend. All they can talk about is their boyfriend and he comes their obsession, they have no sense of independance and don't have a life of their own...
I want a girlfriend like that
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TXaspie wrote:
There's nothing more boring and uninteresting than a female aspie with a boyfriend.
All they can talk about is their boyfriend and he comes their obsession, they have no sense of independance and don't have a life of their own.
People are already not very interesting as it is, but for someone to go on about another person is even more boring.
"I can sympathise with people's pains, but not with their pleasures. There is something curiously boring about somebody else's happiness."
-A.H.
As a AS we should understand this quote more than anyone. So yea no one really gives a f**k about your happiness = ) Especially Aspies and other intellectuals, it's just not something to talk about unless asked about.
Also i'd just like to say. Aspie women have it much easier than Aspie guys. You will never understand our world, Aspie males are the truest aspies in the sense. Males are already logical, so just imagine the world that an aspie male lives in.
I have a sex partner but I am not in a relationship, it's my choice really at this point in my life. But anyway, I will say it again women simply have it easier to get sex. All you have to do is open your legs and some guy will accept(not literally).
No questions asked, women can only offer so much advice since they do not know how it really is.
All they can talk about is their boyfriend and he comes their obsession, they have no sense of independance and don't have a life of their own.
People are already not very interesting as it is, but for someone to go on about another person is even more boring.
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I have not seen much evidence of gloating in this particular forum, and whenever anyone shows the slightest sign of being happy to be in a relationship or speaking of their happy relationship experiences they're usually ganged upon
"I can sympathise with people's pains, but not with their pleasures. There is something curiously boring about somebody else's happiness."
-A.H.
As a AS we should understand this quote more than anyone. So yea no one really gives a f**k about your happiness = ) Especially Aspies and other intellectuals, it's just not something to talk about unless asked about.
Also i'd just like to say. Aspie women have it much easier than Aspie guys. You will never understand our world, Aspie males are the truest aspies in the sense. Males are already logical, so just imagine the world that an aspie male lives in.
I have a sex partner but I am not in a relationship, it's my choice really at this point in my life. But anyway, I will say it again women simply have it easier to get sex. All you have to do is open your legs and some guy will accept(not literally).
No questions asked, women can only offer so much advice since they do not know how it really is.
Call me crazy but I found this entire post not only offensive but just plain incorrect.
I have been with my other half over 4 years. He might have been an obsession at some point, but now he is just my best friend. I have other obsessions.
You say that women have it easier yet the only example you give is with sex. You know, there is more to life than sex. Women are expected to be better with people and more friendly. If anything we have more pressure to succeed socially and our AS obviously hinders that.
It's simply foolish that a) you would assume all non-single AS women have an obsession with their other half and b) all AS women are the same.
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they have no sense of independance and don't have a life of their own.
This I found especially offensive. I am much more independent than the NT women I know, and I have a life and career completely my own (though he is a part of it, obviously).
Hello, welcome to the 21st century. I hope your time in the 1950's was enjoyable.
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Of course I'm not talking about all women, but I've found many AS are like that. Including one of my ex girlfriends, she became obsessed with me and even talked about past boyfriends at times....which is very rude.
I am talking about sex since this thread is about sex.... It's an observation I've had personally. I don't mean to offend anyone, I come off as very blunt and crude at times.
TXaspie wrote:
"All matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration. That we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively, there is no such thing as death, life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves. "
Are we going to start rowing boats gently down the stream now?
TXaspie wrote:
MissConstrue wrote:
There's something boring about people who assume the universe and people revolve around them....there's something boring about it.
__MissC.
__MissC.
"All matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration. That we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively, there is no such thing as death, life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves. "
Think about it. You know why hippies are cool? They love unconditionally similar to a buddhist, they are spontaneous. They don't talk about themselves all day. It's not a matter of we think life resolves around us.
It's that we realize that all beings on this planet are alike, there's a sense of sameness. We are all connected in a mystical way and we should be happy together than to speak of happiness.
BE HAPPY, don't talk about it! That means you're probably not even really that happy.
I think this takes the "boring" prize & the allegations about how male AS are true AS seems kind of egocentrically deluded to me.
There may be a reason why the girlfriend was talking about her ex's.
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TXaspie wrote:
There's nothing more boring and uninteresting than a female aspie with a boyfriend.
snip. . .
Also i'd just like to say. Aspie women have it much easier than Aspie guys. You will never understand our world, Aspie males are the truest aspies in the sense. Males are already logical, so just imagine the world that an aspie male lives in.
I have a sex partner but I am not in a relationship, it's my choice really at this point in my life. But anyway, I will say it again women simply have it easier to get sex. All you have to do is open your legs and some guy will accept(not literally).
No questions asked, women can only offer so much advice since they do not know how it really is.
snip. . .
Also i'd just like to say. Aspie women have it much easier than Aspie guys. You will never understand our world, Aspie males are the truest aspies in the sense. Males are already logical, so just imagine the world that an aspie male lives in.
I have a sex partner but I am not in a relationship, it's my choice really at this point in my life. But anyway, I will say it again women simply have it easier to get sex. All you have to do is open your legs and some guy will accept(not literally).
No questions asked, women can only offer so much advice since they do not know how it really is.
If all we wanted to just open up our legs and take it, I suppose in some cases it would be an advatage. However as most women want more than that, it doesn't make it much of an advantage as a liability, never knowing if a guy liked you for you, or what you can give him.
As for being a male Aspie and that is just too mysterious for a girl Aspie to comprehend I can get your meta message that you just don't wanna take advice from a girl, is all.
That is OK with me.
Merle
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sinsboldly wrote:
TXaspie wrote:
There's nothing more boring and uninteresting than a female aspie with a boyfriend.
snip. . .
Also i'd just like to say. Aspie women have it much easier than Aspie guys. You will never understand our world, Aspie males are the truest aspies in the sense. Males are already logical, so just imagine the world that an aspie male lives in.
I have a sex partner but I am not in a relationship, it's my choice really at this point in my life. But anyway, I will say it again women simply have it easier to get sex. All you have to do is open your legs and some guy will accept(not literally).
No questions asked, women can only offer so much advice since they do not know how it really is.
snip. . .
Also i'd just like to say. Aspie women have it much easier than Aspie guys. You will never understand our world, Aspie males are the truest aspies in the sense. Males are already logical, so just imagine the world that an aspie male lives in.
I have a sex partner but I am not in a relationship, it's my choice really at this point in my life. But anyway, I will say it again women simply have it easier to get sex. All you have to do is open your legs and some guy will accept(not literally).
No questions asked, women can only offer so much advice since they do not know how it really is.
If all we wanted to just open up our legs and take it, I suppose in some cases it would be an advatage. However as most women want more than that, it doesn't make it much of an advantage as a liability, never knowing if a guy liked you for you, or what you can give him.
As for being a male Aspie and that is just too mysterious for a girl Aspie to comprehend I can get your meta message that you just don't wanna take advice from a girl, is all.
That is OK with me.
Merle
I'm thinking they probably also don't want the advice that prepubescent misogyny is unattractive to women. Tidbits like that are missing from the comic-book, pulp fiction advice that seems to go over well.
TXaspie wrote:
... All you have to do is open your legs and some guy will accept(not literally). ...
Wow, not only wrong planet, but not even in the same space-time continuum. Unfortunately for you, the fact that we DON'T do that means you have to figure us out, as much as guys would like to stick to adolescent comic book ideas of how to bag a babe.
