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Interesting reading, thanks for the links.

Sadly, most women I know believe this, they have the attitude that sex is something they allow men to do to them rather than a mutually enjoyable experience. I think the articles are right in that many men are attracted to porn because it depicts women who enjoy sex. And whereas such women do exist in reality, they are few and far between, and I really don't understand why.

Many of them should wear that tee shirt I saw once: "I have the p****, so I make the rules."

"It's raining cats and dogs."

Then why were they born with clitorises? Because they were designed to enjoy sexual pleasure as well as males. Yet most of them have chosen to override perfectly natural and normal desires, because they've been indoctrinated to see sex as a commodity they can barter to get something else they want out of us. Then they indulge in industrial-strength hypocrisy, screaming blue murder about prostitution and "female cirumcision"!

I'd go for a gigolo but I don't got the balls.

I honestly don't see how guys just pick up a prostitute and get with it.

There are many guys I look at and think...ooh I'd take him, but I guess it's different for women or me. I sort of like a guy who doesn't play this stupid role of being macho when it comes to getting laid yet for me this would be like the pot calling the ketttle black. I mean I could never work myself into asking a guy how much he'd pay to do this or that. Anyway, I was loaded when I use to have one night stands. They weren't very fullfilling or anything I imagined it would be to lose virginity. I did however, find it somewhat satisfying when there were no attachments involved like...making small talk, and having a guy tell me what I SHOULD wear or do.

Other than that, nothing. Being sober now, it would be almost impossible just to take a random stranger home unless I had some connection to him. Not sure what that connection is precisely. I don't want to say emotional because that would make it seem like something mushy such as love.....Don't get wrong that would be nice but I don't think it's highly realistic or at least for me. I have trouble sharing so much room and space with someone, it'd even be weird sharing it with whom I was attracted to.

Just goes to show you, you can't really have it both ways.

I've never hugged, touched, kissed or slept with a woman. Sometimes prostitution sounds like the answer, but it's like... sex only sounds like it will go so far. And there's the cost... The cost of one hour with a woman would buy me civilian versions of military training software. One lay versus weeks of learning how to attack fortified positions with tanks and infantry. Sounds kind of biased to me. It would be nice if a woman actually liked me, but going eight years without even a simple friend makes me doubt that will happen in my life time.

Maybe a couple of more years will break my resolve about all this.

I never did see what the turn on was for people who wanted real relationships but oh well...

I'd be a bit insulted if I had to buy my way into sleeping with someone actually. Would ruin the sparks and everything else that gets my mojo hojo working.

You would be surprised. Even maggots can hold back starvation.

wow, i completely forgot about this.
i joked! i edited your reply
i find it such a HILARIOUS thing to do, i decided to make a thread for it :]

as for the actual thread, if prostitutes are important, it means sex is important. in my life, right now, finding true acknowledgement is more important than the sex, since sex is basically masturbation in a more social context. just meat.

Then why were they born with clitorises? Because they were designed to enjoy sexual pleasure as well as males. Yet most of them have chosen to override perfectly natural and normal desires, because they've been indoctrinated to see sex as a commodity they can barter to get something else they want out of us. Then they indulge in industrial-strength hypocrisy, screaming blue murder about prostitution and "female cirumcision"![/quote

To partly answer my own question, and yours, some of the women I know who do not or claim not to enjoy sex had bad experiences during their sexual awakening. Male patners who only thought of themselves, and gave no consideration to the woman's comfort, let alone pleasure. It only takes a few such experiences for women to decide that sex is not for them. And getting them to give it another try with a considerate lover late in life is often impossible.

Well, if they just want to write off the rest of us and assume we're all like that, that's their funeral, isn't it?

now prostitution is something that can be legalized, if people want to f**k for a living that shouldnt be made a crime.

As someone who has used my fair share of prostitutes.... I have to agree that it can be an expensive habit... I always say the key is that if you just want to have sex is to find a woman who is drunk and/or desperate enough to do so. There's usually no love or romance in the act of having sex with loose women but at least you keep your money in your pocket. I have a saying that any woman no matter how much of a slut she is if no money changes hands then she isn't a prostitute. Besides, most of the women who would go for me without any such exchange of money aren't the best looking or the best in personality or anything like that. I was actually once at a fast food joint one night with a girl who I've hung out with a few times and actually had sex with twice and when I stepped outside to have a cigarette this prostitute who I'd been with a couple of times said to me "You can do better than that" so I guess you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. The thing I say about using prostitutes or loose women in general is if you just want to have sex then go for it. But you have to have an understanding that just sex doesn't equal a relationship so it's not for everyone.

I would like a relationship or a GF, but it seems like that isn't going to happen for a long time. I do want sex though, and porn/escorts become addictions themselves... part of it is convenience. I don't wake up saying that I want to sleep with escorts, but time goes by, you get lonely and bored, and you have a surplus of money. What do you do?

I go back to escorts every now and then because it's so easy. A couple e-mails, 5 minutes to read a review, and I've got an appointment. The law of diminishing returns is in effect though, after awhile it starts to become the same and you don't get the same thrill anymore. Part of it is I just think that as a man I should have slept with huge numbers of women. I talk to some of my NT friends who say they've been with 50 or 100 women. I feel like I have to do that too for some reason, to be on par with NTs.