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I've got my exes hoodie on

It doesn't have his odour on it

I don't think I could wear it if it did. He was quite a heavy smoker

My asthma makes me quite sensitive to cigarette smoke. I wouldn't be able to date a smoker.

He used to chain it

I wouldn't allow it in my flat but it didn't really bother me otherwise

I wonder if I'll ever meet someone or if I'm just going to remain single.

Was Freddy and Daphne from Scooby Doo in a relationship

I never like him

I don't know quite how I'd feel if someone took me for a meal and paid for it with a voucher

I would if it was someone who I barely knew but if it was someone I'd known for a while then I'd enjoy the meal more

Not that it's ever happened or ever will and in all reality I'd go Dutch

i was just watching telly that's all, when the thought occurred

I wonder why my extroverted NT cousin can't keep the same girlfriend for very long. She dates a girl, all the family grow familiar with her (because my cousin picks lovely types), then all of a sudden my cousin finds she can't commit and then dumps her. It's been the same pattern for the past 10 years. And she's no way anywhere near ND.

So goes to show that not all NTs can cope in relationships. My cousin can't seem to. That, or she's very fussy and nitpicky and can't deal with any faults or quirks a girlfriend might have.

But I know that no human is perfect and that anybody you meet will have some quirks or faults. If their quirks or faults are within the normal range (ie, not abusive or anything) then sometimes you just have to accept them in order to be able to maintain a healthy relationship. My partner smokes like a chimney, can be moody, lazy, unimaginative, lacks a sex drive, lacks money, and gets himself too drunk sometimes, but it's still a healthy relationship and we become soulmates, because I still love him.

My faults are hoarding clutter, being disorganised, hyperactive, impulsive, sensitive, and have emotional problems such as Emetophobia, Agoraphobia and Misophonia. He accepts this as the way I am, and says I'm still a loving, caring, honest person and the "right" person to have a relationship with.

^Why can't all couples think this way?

I never had any reason to change anything about my ex either but for very different reasons

i just felt it was only fair to release him back into the wild the same way I found him

I was never in love with him but I respected him enough to just accept him as he was for the time we was together

The whole relationship was a learning curve I suppose

If you've committed to a relationship, or are in fact getting married, you should make every effort to not be bothered by things about your partner that you don't think ideal. Unless they seriously threaten the relationship, for example drinking could be a real threat to a relationship given the people involved.