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10 Mar 2009, 1:21 pm

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What I don't understand, though, is how (same gendered) NTs always try to trash each others' self esteem. Like if it were a measure to how much worth you are as a human being.

They are just trying to find out how much power they have over you. It's all a question of responses. If you get angry but don't do anything they have power over/control you (in their little world), if the hierarchy isn't settled yet they can use it to in the "fight".
When they do it afterwards it's a way to feel good and show that he/she is superior to you.


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10 Mar 2009, 1:33 pm

Sure, I understand it objectively. But I don't understand it, if you know what I mean. Why the need to be superior?

EDIT: And yes, I can actually understand why they need to be superior. It's based on basic instincts or something. I can perfectly well see that. But acting on them, seemingly completely thoughtless, is what I really don't understand.


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10 Mar 2009, 2:05 pm

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10 Mar 2009, 3:00 pm

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10 Mar 2009, 3:14 pm

Marty, i swear you look much older on that picture o.O



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10 Mar 2009, 3:16 pm

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Marty, i swear you look much older on that picture o.O

What do you mean?



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10 Mar 2009, 3:22 pm

Well, i'm older than you and huh, maybe it's the way you smile? Makes your jaw seem broader >< (I've been told i look younger than my age....provided i shave ofc)



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10 Mar 2009, 4:02 pm

I have no idea why I posted here... Who am i kidding? :roll:


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10 Mar 2009, 8:02 pm

actually, that asian girl in the above avatar is quite cute. Too bad we know you're a guy :wink:



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10 Mar 2009, 8:43 pm

Thanks. I'm totally in love with that avatar. Use it on every forum I'm on. :)


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10 Mar 2009, 9:50 pm

I think it's nice getting to see the faces of the people you talk to - although I am not one to 'tell' people if they're cute or not...



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10 Mar 2009, 10:11 pm

No one going to say anything about Berns' pic? :?

Maybe not the thing you'd want to hear from a guy but you look good in that pic. :wtg:


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11 Mar 2009, 2:09 am

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No one going to say anything about Berns' pic? :?

Maybe not the thing you'd want to hear from a guy but you look good in that pic. :wtg:



Thanks, Fantom. Denk you veddy much.
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None of the lovely ladies have commented on it yet...



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11 Mar 2009, 3:12 am

Kenjuudo wrote:
Sure, I understand it objectively. But I don't understand it, if you know what I mean. Why the need to be superior?

EDIT: And yes, I can actually understand why they need to be superior. It's based on basic instincts or something. I can perfectly well see that. But acting on them, seemingly completely thoughtless, is what I really don't understand.

Well, it's like the computor, they are preprogramed to do this sertain thing before they can move on. It's like one of our security patters, exept that this is forced upon others. It's fully automated like breathing, so they never notice it being done.


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11 Mar 2009, 4:04 am

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Really though, Were tired of feeling like peices of meat here, sometimes men want to feel like more then a "plaything" You cant expect us to sleep with you just cause you bought us a drink. :wink:
...(and for the record, we never wanna go back to your place to see your "stereo")


Hot.

(I am a woman of few words.)


I feel so vunerable and taken advantage of, Im gonna need a pic and a phone #, atleast then I can feel like I know you.

And dont think just because your from new zealand Ill fall for your sexy accent, although Im sure you dont think of your own voice it that way. :wink:

-Always on the prowl, justgivein. :oops:


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11 Mar 2009, 5:58 am

JustGiveIn wrote:

I feel so vunerable and taken advantage of, Im gonna need a pic and a phone #, atleast then I can feel like I know you.

And dont think just because your from new zealand Ill fall for your sexy accent, although Im sure you dont think of your own voice it that way. :wink:

-Always on the prowl, justgivein. :oops:


Urgh, NZ accents suck, i'm thinking of leaving just to get rid of it :P
I get s**t from people for it. Other New Zealanders, too.. >_<