If you're 27 and never had a girlfriend, is it too late?

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16 Aug 2015, 4:43 pm

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Not straight away, I'll wait a few months. I don't want to have done it only once and I don't want the cruise tickets to go to waste.

Yeah, but now that you know she wants kids, aren't you worried that she might try to fool you into getting her pregnant?

Hmmm. That would be pretty scary. She refuses do it without a rubber because even she's not ready for kids 'till she's 30.

have you considered the Reality FC2 female condom? those are said to feel a lot better.

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16 Aug 2015, 6:40 pm

No, I just plug into an old stereo.

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16 Aug 2015, 7:12 pm

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well thats you're girlfiriend see when you start dating you as the guy can never be the first one to bring up sex. you have to wait for the girl to if you bring it up even though she'll like it she act upset and call you a pervert. heck she might even do sexy talk with you and share some pictures then next day when shes not horny get mad at you and blame you for her getting horny.

She won't get mad. She'll politely decline.

However, if you don't bring up sex soon enough through word or deed, she'll think you're a cold fish and dump you like a ton of bricks. It's happened to me too many times.

no they get mad. trust me. been through it enough times. it usually means end of contact with them too.

yep that is a another possibility, but you risk ending it by saying it with 75% of women and the other 25% will be upset if you don't . women are strange ones.
its all about mind games to the 75% I think

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just no winning unless one is practically perfect, it seems.

yep. which makes it super stressful and depressing.

If ALL girls ALWAYS get mad, it is YOU. Not the female population of the planet.

YOU. Your lack of something or another. YOU are the common denominator.

You are simply so awful, so gross, so scary that women sense it and avoid you like the plague.

this happens to lots and lots of men so whos the common denominator now?

it happens so much its common place in social sites, jokes, tv, movies.

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This isn't fitting with any of my experiences dating. In fact I found more success after I dispelled this illusion. Are you sure you're not projecting your own anxieties onto your dates?

sorry but if I remember right you'r only had the one dating which lead to your current simi gf?

also you say that mine is is wrong but yours is right so its wrong for me to use my and others experiences and things women themselves say but you can override that with your few personal experiences?

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16 Aug 2015, 7:13 pm

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No, I just plug into an old stereo.

what kinda old stereo? is your other half as into audio as you are?

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16 Aug 2015, 7:15 pm

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I tried to explain that I need a second TV in the bedroom because the Super Nintendo can't be plugged into an LCD. Super Nintendo games don't look right unless they're plugged into CRT. She doesn't even consider that

I already have three TVs in the living room. Isn't it neat?

cables need tidied. I prefer mine to be behind everything. though tye come out of the side on the new tvs

you must be well off indeed.

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16 Aug 2015, 7:18 pm

it seems people from down under are generally comfortable, don't hear too much about homelessness and poverty down there, it would be nice if an aussie would talk about those things.

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16 Aug 2015, 7:20 pm

auntblabby wrote:

RetroGamer87 wrote:

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Not straight away, I'll wait a few months. I don't want to have done it only once and I don't want the cruise tickets to go to waste.

Yeah, but now that you know she wants kids, aren't you worried that she might try to fool you into getting her pregnant?

Hmmm. That would be pretty scary. She refuses do it without a rubber because even she's not ready for kids 'till she's 30.

have you considered the Reality FC2 female condom? those are said to feel a lot better.

then the skyn thin condoms?
"
Your partner doesn’t need to be erect to use FC2. You can insert FC2 before penetration so there is no need to stop to put on a condom during foreplay. Plus, since you are wearing the condom, your partner does not have to pull out right after he has finished…more cuddle time"

that does sound nice.

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16 Aug 2015, 7:56 pm

from what I read, it is worth the duckie$.

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16 Aug 2015, 8:36 pm

I hope the OP tells us when he gets a girlfriend.

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16 Aug 2015, 8:51 pm

and soon.

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16 Aug 2015, 9:01 pm

auntblabby wrote:

it seems people from down under are generally comfortable, don't hear too much about homelessness and poverty down there, it would be nice if an aussie would talk about those things.

Australia still allows natural selection.
Drop Bears greatly reduce our homeless numbers, so it's not really an issue.

Seeing as the homeless are generally outdoors at night, with no income to buy vegemite (Drop Bear repellant), they either get picked off by hungry Drop Bears or start fights trying to steal the vegemite of others, which often leaves them injured and an even easier Drop Bear Target.

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16 Aug 2015, 9:53 pm

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sorry but if I remember right you'r only had the one dating which lead to your current simi gf

More than one dating experience. I dated five girls but only one ever called me her boyfriend. However, I take all five lessons. The first four I took a hands of approach. This upset the girls. One said she thought I didn't like her and one was even in tears.

With girl number 5 I took a more hands on approach, resulting in greater success. I think my mistake was that I should've taken an even more hands on approach.

I only kissed her one or two times per day when I saw her but I now realise that since she talked about kissing a lot, I was neglecting her in this. Fourplay should be more intense than I had thought. I will improve my instincts with practice.

At all points the lesson was repeated that I was doing not too much but rather not enough. Going too far can be quickly forgiven so long as you respond immediately. Going not far enough can result in a failed date.

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16 Aug 2015, 9:56 pm

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Going too far can be quickly forgiven so long as you respond immediately. Going not far enough can result in a failed date.

sounds a lot like "better to ask for forgiveness afterwards than permission beforehand."

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16 Aug 2015, 9:58 pm

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from what I read, it is worth the duckie$.

what?

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16 Aug 2015, 10:00 pm

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sorry but if I remember right you'r only had the one dating which lead to your current simi gf

I don't want to be a felon and lose my rights because some girl says I assaulted her by tying to kiss her and thats what women here say will happen.

my dates went fine but the compatibility wasn't there with many. one was just horrible because she made it very very clear she just went on the date to get free food.

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16 Aug 2015, 10:14 pm

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auntblabby wrote:

from what I read, it is worth the duckie$.

what?

the Reality FC-2 female condom.

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