I Have Aspergers, But I'm Not Attracted Guys With Aspergers?

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I hate to break it to you, but almost all guys, especially high quality guys, care about looks.
The difference is with a high quality guy, looks will only get you past the first part (after which the guys who aren't high quality simply don't care about anything more than just looks), not the second most important part, which must be met for you to even be considered to date them. In essence, you just made things much harder for yourself unless you are an exceptionally stunning human being in terms of who you are.

Define high quality guy.

Men who are the most in demand by women (or by men if they are gay).

Any other definition is too subjective to be useful.

Aren't playboys in demand too?

Quality, as in police record? That is about the only thing I can think of. Some couples commit serial crimes they love each other so much, so I doubt there is any defining quality. Peoples opinions differ on dating material as much as people look different from each other in the first place. If you are looking for something popular culture is not in women or men, your actually more likely to get it in my opinion, as long as it isn't and alien or something unreasonable.

All I know is, going the other way, I find Aspie girls really fascinating. I think there might be a few subtypes, but there is at least one kind of Aspie girl I'm extremely attracted to, if not more.

I appreciate NT girls too, but I find myself wishing that more of them were like the type of Aspie girl I'm drawn toward.

Your mileage may vary, and there are many individual reasons why someone's preferences work out the way they do, but I'm just glad that there seems to be something of a "market" for Aspies among other Aspies (and NTs!).

I've mentioned to many people here that I'm usually attracted to girls with AS who come off as slightly/somewhat NT.

I go either way, but I don't know, I'm not sure how well a girl can do dating someone with HFA/Asperger's unless she knows autism first hand.

I'm more attracted to people I feel like I could relate to, understand & connect with.. It doesn't have to be Asperges persay but Asie traits or some other issues I have.