Omg WOW, really, what were the odds of that?!

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I'm sorry, but that's starting to sound offensive to me. I understand that you're happy and all that, and to be honest, I wish you the best, but I can understand where loner is coming from because seeing the haves flaunt it just makes me more sad

I thought I had found that with an aspie guy (we met in person, not via the net though), and it was absolutely amazing for a week, but things were messy and he rejected me in the end.

He said I had acted too childish (I do that sometimes when I like someone, it's stupid, my maturity level fluctuates all over the place on a daily basis anyway) and he didn't like the fact that I was still a virgin. But I think there must have been more to it than that, because what we had briefly found was too perfect and intense not to hold onto unless there were more serious issues. I think I must've screwed up.

But anyway, congratulations!! And please whatever you do hold onto this as best you can, think everything through before you do it and don't scare her off! (I think I scared my guy off/alienated him in some way) I really really hope you guys make it through this transition period and find happiness together.

For an Aspie she certainly has an unusual desire to take pictures of herself. At least, if you actually meant hundreds of pictures.

Anyway, I rant too much. It's good to see people with AS branching into new territory. As some know, the very idea of a relationship is horrible for me but I can appreciate other people wanting them. Somewhat. Good luck.

There are 300 photos of me on my facebook, and I love taking photos of myself. (I could take 600 in one day and then delete them down until I'm left with about 10 I really really like). I am also most definitely an Aspie. We're all diverse people

OP, how's the relationship going?

wellll, she doesn't have hundreds exactly haha.
more like prolly somewhere between 100 & 200.

Me too =D!! ! i love to take pictures, lol.

I call a spade a spade. If you read my posts on here, I'm not a troll like Lonermutant, but I find it sickening that you're bragging about having an internet girlfriend. I don't care if she looks like Jennifer Connelly and has Aspergers. First, she probably isn't real or what she says she is. Two, even if she is, it's no more of a relationship than what you and I are doing on here and typing back and forth. Do you hug the computer screen or something? Actually, forget that, I don't even want to think about what you do when you're typing to her (or him).

Only 300?

I have to agree with therange here. I'm sure she's a real person, but I wouldn't call her my "girlfriend" until some physical intimacy (at least a kiss) happened. For now, I'd say you're two people talking to each other online, and there's only a possibility of a relationship. If I were you, I'd take a more conservative approach, and not call her my girlfriend until I actually meet her in person, and even then, probably not until after I kissed her on the lips. I use a kiss a benchmark of sorts, a sure sign that a girl likes me. After all, if a girl doesn't like me, she by definition can't be my girlfriend.

"Sickening"? Oh come on, relax a bit will you? You're talking like a miserable 50 year old or something. Can't you just be happy that he's managed to find someone? Yeesh...

There are other ways to tell if a woman likes you, you know. I don't see what the big deal about kissing a woman on the first date is... personally, I'd rather wait until we were both comfortable with a relationship before I even tried to start running the bases...

But yeah, I agree in that until you've spent some time with her in real life and determined that you are actually compatible with each other, nothing is set yet. Talking online a lot is one thing (my ex and I talked mostly online because we both have an easier time writing out what we're going to say instead of saying it), but without at least some real-world contact, you can't call it a relationship...

Please, call her! It's better to find out sooner than later, just in case. Also, I'm pretty sure you want to hear her voice.

Yes, we are. I have NO pictures of myself. If I see a mirror I think "Who the hell is that?" when I see myself. Especially when I'm walking... my legs go too far forward when I walk for it to look "normal".

I also don't think that Lonermutant is a "troll", but I haven't see all that many of his posts. He probably just expresses his REAL opinion rather than sugercoating it. After all, many people with Aspergers are unusually blunt are they not?

If you read most of LonerMutant's posts, everything is negative and in some cases downright creepy. He basically thinks women were put on this earth to be f***ed like a pornstar, and he's mad that women don't want him. Also, look at his picture...it says it all.

Well said! I have no feelings for other people. I lost those feelings in second grade. I'm a sex-fixated misanthrope.