Aspie Affection????

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I am not going to get into that. You don;t bring up past issues in agruments

I was talking to space

casual sex? take some measures so you don;t have children.

excellent, that is what I should have said in the first place. Cool you are considerate, some aspies lack that. Some aspie won;t get a women cause of that. Its not lack of consideration but a lack of fealing in general. I bow to you lonermutant. I commend you.

My interject? Lonermutant tells me he can;t handle the social stuff. Don;t suggest hooker that is inconsiderate to children. Hooker might have diease.

All of you are reducing the truama. Under the dirt there is social skills. I don;t know how but there is. I feal so bad for you lonermutant. One thing is for sure without experience you won;t do anything for yourself. I tried even though I was nervous. That is all I can tell you. Brains learn change and adapt. You learn from your mistakes. That is all I can say. Can you handle the blows?

If you can't handle the blows Lonermutant then we need to help you out there. We could give you tips even though most of my friendships with girls always always end with me getting hurt. I wasn't always this into relationships or even having friendships. I think my ex fiance who has the problem with keeping her mouth shut because she'll talk to everyone to death. She made me come out of my shell of being a loner. If I don't find anyone quick though I'm fearful I'll turn back into a loner and not have to do with any crap about anyone besides my self. Here's something that you could do. Try to find some woman your age and ask if you could hang out with her and her friends. You don't have to say anything just listen to what they have to say. When I was in a mental health hospital I didn't no body I was also freaking out. Then I found this one girl about three years older than I am and I kind of latched my self on her. We became friends and I became friends with her friends. Though after I left the hospital I never heard from her again.

Though Lonermutant I wouldn't consider my self a social conversationalist. I mean I won't talk to new people on my own without them coming up to me. I don't do go with meeting new people and not ever girls. I'm really afraid of meeting new people. I almost freak out in when loud conversations are going on in a restruant. So I'm not that bad off as you are. I actually have no way I can help you out. I can give advice but I wouldn't say that I have expreience with it. I both split on wanting to be home alone and wanting to go out. I hate going to social events but if the social events are outside I'm better off.