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31 Aug 2010, 9:17 am

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"Left pure"? You don't seem to understand that nobody stays "pure". There is a wise saying "no one dies a virgin, life screws us all". Some people here are realists who can tell you that some guy is going to "ruin" you, or you're going to "ruin" some guy and you can't understand that yet you think that every guy is into impregnating chicks and leaving them and you think after you deal with these guys you will always be momma's little girl? Sooner or later something is going to go wrong and you are going to change your entire perception.

You do not invite tolerance of your purity you outright attack the sexually "immoral" with this self righteous crap about how awful it is to have multiple partners.

"Purity is for drinking water, not people" -Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster

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31 Aug 2010, 10:39 am

I agree, nobody is 'pure'. That's a notion thrust upon women by misogynistic men that didn't want their merchandise contaminated.

Erisad, I think your perception of men is really sad and completely off the mark. Saying all men make babies and abandon them is no different then if I were to say all Christians are like the Phelps from Westboro Baptist Church.

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31 Aug 2010, 11:19 am

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The Bay Area is where I went to college first. I thought that the values on sex that I learned were the same anywhere else in the US. Boy was I wrong.

It is horrible in some places, I spent almost a year in the US - that was enough.

@Erisad did you see the Sexuality world laws I posted?

You break a lot of them

those are not laws, those are rights and freedoms, as i recall. erisad has a right to her opinion. she doesn't want the sex. you should be okay with that.

to the rest of the nastiness: all she did was try to say what was right for her, and several people made personal judgements about her. i respect her right to choose to avoid sex before marriage, for whatever reason works for her. that is her right and her choice. people are pretty nasty and judgemental about her choice on here.

i've not made a choice like that. i think it is up to each person's ideology, morals, opinions, whatever. i chose to have sex, sometimes outside of a loving relationship.

also, foreveryoung: i don't remember you posting a picture of yourself on here. would you stand up to the scrutiny?

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31 Aug 2010, 11:24 am

I haven't been nasty or judgmental.

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31 Aug 2010, 11:34 am

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... it involves a lot of risks (STD’s, pregnancy, being seen naked, etc)...

this is hilarious, and so not-scandinavian... omg... poor people thinking things like this.

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31 Aug 2010, 11:43 am

Funny how the male vote is overwhelmingly no

My rationale -- not everyone you want to have sex with is a personality fit, but sometimes genes and biology override rational thinking. I've had sex with people I didn't love. Maybe I felt lust, maybe I felt nothing, but all that was important in that moment was for both of us to have fun and enjoy ourselves.

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31 Aug 2010, 11:49 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

I haven't been nasty or judgmental.

i was speaking about the nastiness that was on the thread... if you weren't nasty, then obviously i was not referring to you... why defend yourself againt a non-existent attack?

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31 Aug 2010, 11:55 am

hyperlexian wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

I haven't been nasty or judgmental.

i was speaking about the nastiness that was on the thread... if you weren't nasty, then obviously i was not referring to you... why defend yourself againt a non-existent attack?

That wasn't a defense. I was stating fact. Sometimes you have trouble with facts.

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31 Aug 2010, 12:03 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

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TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

I haven't been nasty or judgmental.

i was speaking about the nastiness that was on the thread... if you weren't nasty, then obviously i was not referring to you... why defend yourself againt a non-existent attack?

That wasn't a defense. I was stating fact. Sometimes you have trouble with facts.

no, that is not correct. i have no trouble with facts. you seem to have some trouble with me though - why are you picking fights with me?

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31 Aug 2010, 12:10 pm

If you say so.

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31 Aug 2010, 12:24 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

If you say so.

that was peculiarly passive-aggressive. your moods are very mercurial towards me on WP.... it's hard for me to know which TeaEarlGreyHot i am having a discussion with at a given time. i recall that i made one unacceptable remark to you once, and apologized for it. if there is something else bothering you, feel free free to PM me. or you could leave me alone too. that would work.

[edited to add a "towards me" in my statement. i have no idea what you are like towards other people]

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31 Aug 2010, 1:03 pm

aspi-rant wrote:

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... it involves a lot of risks (STD’s, pregnancy, being seen naked, etc)...

this is hilarious, and so not-scandinavian... omg... poor people thinking things like this.

I reacted the same way :lol:

. While I understand that many are less relaxed about nudity than Scandinavians (for example), what exactly do they think they are risking? After all, we're talking about being naked during sex, not in the middle of a crowded street...

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31 Aug 2010, 1:07 pm

I'm not sure I get that, either. Are they afraid their partner won't like what they see?

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31 Aug 2010, 1:08 pm

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TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

If you say so.

I'm not going to PM you. I will, however, offer up an explanation. I'm Bipolar.

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31 Aug 2010, 1:28 pm

billsmithglendale wrote:

Funny how the male vote is overwhelmingly no

My rationale -- not everyone you want to have sex with is a personality fit, but sometimes genes and biology override rational thinking. I've had sex with people I didn't love. Maybe I felt lust, maybe I felt nothing, but all that was important in that moment was for both of us to have fun and enjoy ourselves.

Relatively the women say no just as much if not more...

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31 Aug 2010, 1:31 pm

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hyperlexian wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

If you say so.

I'm not going to PM you. I will, however, offer up an explanation. I'm Bipolar.

thank you for letting me know. i shall be more easygoing in future.

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