I want a girlfriend :'(

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Yeah, personal power, we all have it. Its called self esteem. Sex is a part of society and without it a person can feel "left out". So, I went and got some. Paid a very high price for a whole load of nothing, but I got some.

Why, what power did you think I was trying to get?

Last edited by Craig28 on 28 Dec 2010, 8:30 am, edited 1 time in total.

Nought, i was just making a point to Kilroy

You can go back to bed now

Its 1:31 pm here. Your British too, you KNOW what real time it is.

Go back to bed is usually a different way of saying leave me alone that reffers to someone who acts in a childish manner, it has nothing to do with bedtime. BTW its 2.53pm here and both my parents are in bed so I dont see why you cant go back to bed at 1.30pm

I wasn't acting childish, I was replying to someone that trolled me.

Are you of the school of thought that if you sling enough mud hopefully some will stick?

No one needs to troll you craig you do a good job of it yourself.

Sorry, I realise know that Kilroy is the troll.

what did I do?
I wasn't even here, so I can troll, by saying and doing nothing and not even be on the forum?

AWESOME!! !
my name itself is enough to get whatever the hell point I had across

or you just felt like saying I was the troll because I wasn't here to say otherwise and in your mind that means you're a winner?
I like the first one better

First of all, get your own house in order. Sort out any anxiety issues you have. You will have to change the way you think. Go on a self-esteem course.

If it's any comfort to you, I'm 38 years old and never had a girlfriend. It's a woman's problem, she cannot accept my dyslexia and aspergers status. I have to accept my challenges whether people like it or not and run the risk of being riddiculed and prejudiced in various manifestations.

I don't wish to be mean, but at the same time, please don't forget, there some people who are worse off than you (aspie or not), think about it. I might be one of them, but I am not going to say why, in case others may riddicule or prejudice me online or in a private message.

I think the OP's 'problem' works in stages. I think you have to go out and get your love from good friends and family, then you will be in a stronger position to 'get a girlfriend'.

My goal is to improve my career (massively!) and maintain good relationships with my family (i.e., see them all more often). That's all i care about at the moment... and to get a cat but to have enough free time to look after it.

Also, being a bloke I believe i have more time on my side. This is something that the 'lonely' twentysomething men on here seem to overlook. My question to them is who would you prefer to be? A fifty year old single aspie man or a fifty year old aspie single woman?

(please don't take my last paragraph the wrong way. I'm not being sexist - just observing the fact that men don't have to worry so much about their biological clocks therefore have one less added pressure)

Join the club.

If any woman doesn't want you as a girlfrlend, then it will always be their problem. From my perspective, I accept that as well.

No you don't they ruin your life.

Moaning grumpy gits and thats just the nice ones

The lot of us!

Wait, I'm not a girlfriend.

The lot of them!

You wouldn't say that now. Not after what's happened.



Hey, I talk to myself from time to time.

Sorry to hear about your troubles. I feel the same way, but that no guy will be able to take the fact that physical intimacy is not for me. The answer is, someone for you is out there. But you have no idea of knowing how long it will take to find them or what it will take to know if that person is right for you. That sounds harsh, I know, but it's true. Hope you find someone soon.