What kind of people are you attracted to?

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depth. mystery.intregue. charm. compassion. intelligence. warmth. courage.

you know, the absolute perfect person. lol.

actually, i'm highly attracted to people with a 'depressiveness' or 'cynicism' about them. not to the point where that is thier only 'persona' but it needs to be in there somewhere.

the depth is the most important probably. physical attractiveness is important, but not the most. i would assume the same would be said about me.

i'm highly gaurded in what is of interest to me. which varies with my moods.

laziness is a bad quality. i get along quite well with those types, but if they don't push themselves where they could (as i know, i push myself constantly) then i can grow annoyed and disinterested.


sincerity is important. honesty as well. but there are times when the rearrangement of words is necessary when interacting with those you care for. i suppose this would be considered 'white lies'.

overall, non-abusive types are probably the best to seek out.

I really don't know what type of people attract me anymore. Being desperately single, you just quit caring.

I'm attracted to people who are interested.
There are certain looks that I am attracted to, but looking good is a bonus at best.
I like people who are interested.
They don't have to be smart, they don't have to know everything, but they must be willing to give a crap, to be willing to learn new things.
I enjoy being with people who are smart more than with dumb people, but if they're not humble it's just annoying.
If they're humble, they can put down their ego and welcome new experiences and be tolerant and open minded.

Just friendly, caring, cute girls at around my age really.

As far as physical appearances go, this is pretty much a non-issue for me when it comes to women, minus unhealthy obesity. I don't mind a little chubbyness, mind you, but when your weight is a potential health hazard, then I have to draw the line. For the most part, yeah, physical apperances matter not to me in women.

Personality-wise, I'm attracted to a woman who's emphatic, understanding, open-minded, loving, accepting, patient, and non-judgemental. Like me, I'm also attracted to a woman who's intelligent and can hold a pretty good conversation over anything without it becoming a heated, hateful debate or argument.

Another thing I'm attracted to in a woman (and this is probably gonna piss a lot of women off who fit in the two previously mentioned categories, but not this one. Oh well) is how chaste they've been/they are. I'm a virgin, and when/if I ever meet a woman who fits the previous two categories AND is a virgin, then she's got me hooked (assuming that she has any attraction to me, that is). I find that saving yourself for marriage and being a virgin is something that's highly respectable and commendable in my book. It takes a lot of willpower not to give into your bodily urges for a quicky.

Number one pre-requisite:
a cracking sense of humour
creative
general fitness
no terrifying ex girlfriend or offspring
good personal hygiene
not too much beer flab
caring but distant
not clingy
youthful
outsider
haunting eyes
bright
wise

I'd say my boyfriend is the perfect example of what I'm attracted to.

Personality:

Caring
Sweet
Assertive
Weird and interesting
Kind

Physically:

Tall
Well-built
Slightly chubby
Deep eyes

women who wear mini skirt

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Naaaah looks doesnt matter if she fits with me... i'd love her to be smart and intelligent ... having a nice heart is a must ... i'd like her to be the quite type ...but the deep loving ...

Love works in mysterious ways for me.

HOWEVER,I like the women/girls who are are unique,weird, and interesting.


-SpaceCase

Someone who is quite quiet, so not attracting too much attention to them or myself, kind and caring to their friends and the people around them, so they have their way of showing appreciation. Physically I don't mind, I like men to be taller, but it isn't a real must and I like them to be at least half smart, otherwise I find I can't engage with them properly. Normally go for older men by at least 1-2 years.

I am attracted to women who are kind of quiet yet are nice to others. I'm more or less attracted to pure intelligence and love very intellectual conversations. Basically I am attracted to nerdy women Though I have one odd thing going for me. I usually don't go "hey nice butt" but I will go "Hey, those are some sweet glasses!" >.> Yeah I'm strange.

EDIT: Not too short either. I'm 6'3" tall and it's kinda odd being with someone half my size. It draws a lot of unwanted attention.

I'm attracted to anyone* who isn't morbidly obese and has an above-room-temperature IQ.

*female

I like girls/women who are outgoing and nice and who understand people and the emotional side of life very well, and who aren't technically minded.