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29 Oct 2011, 4:35 pm

OP, if you want to make a public service announcements that says, "hey, disabled/ASD guys are people, too -- so, give them some thought and consideration," I think that would be fine. I don't think people are arguing that the situation is not unfair, but rather that expecting women to be forced into being with people who they don't like is even more unfair. If you're straight would you want to forced to have a boyfriend? That would be miserable for the both of you.

Like someone else said, above, I think guys are less well-designed to handle isolation, so this is actually a sad, ugly subject. But expecting people to be forced to be with someone who they don't want to be with is not a reasonable solution. (And, I am one of those 40yo virgins you mention, so it's not like I'm talking down from on high.)

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29 Oct 2011, 4:41 pm

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I stick to the facts. I stick to what I see happening myself, and what happens with other individuals who are going through the problem of finding a woman. I don't strictly go by what your kind calls "political correctness". In other words, I don't go by what we are "told" is normal or abnormal. You and I were taught that both genders needed to have roles, instead of being free to do what they want. When both genders are held up to a role, you create a problem because if the roles aren't equal in whatever way possible, it makes one gender have it more difficult and the other more easier. That's just it though, you'll say people are shallow and superficial. And they ARE. But you are missing the point, just like everyone else. Most of the guys struggling with this are NOT going for someone better looking. Just AVERAGE women. And ugly ones too. And they can't even get one of THOSE women to compromise. So if the guy does his part to make himself attractive, but every woman in America rejects him, who's fault is it? Women! DUH! Women tell guys to go after average and ugly women, but what if even women in those categories reject you? There is a serious issue going on in society today with the dating scene and relationships and attraction. I'm sorry you disagree and can't see where I'm coming from. Women won't really be able to, even though they should. When the warriors fight the kings battle, the king can't feel the pain. It's almost impossible for you to realize what's going on. Try living in the shoes of some guy who is a 40 year old virgin who never had a girlfriend. You probably wouldn't want to live anymore.

I'm only 21 years old but even I know gender roles are crap. Men having to be good looking providers while women can be leeches and are allowed to chase the top 20% of men while the rest are left to rot. If you support them, you are actually supporting one gender being above the other. You aren't supporting equality.

Check this video, which talks about why some men commit suicide, and the dangers of a sexually liberated society.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ab7yfRXXlec&feature=related[/youtube]

I always try to see things from all points of view, so I took the time to listen to your video. What did I get from it?

"Women should obey men and stay pure. Men don't need to change a thing."

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29 Oct 2011, 5:35 pm

Apple_in_my_Eye wrote:

I think guys are less well-designed to handle isolation, so this is actually a sad, ugly subject.

Im not so sure about that. I think that isolation is equally hard whichever gender is experiencing it.

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29 Oct 2011, 5:54 pm

Can someone print this thread please and throw it on my garden?

I'm running low on manure.

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29 Oct 2011, 6:00 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

Can someone print this thread please and throw it on my garden?

I'm running low on manure.

Word.

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29 Oct 2011, 6:00 pm

I printed dozen of copies because I was running low on toilet paper.

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29 Oct 2011, 6:07 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

Can someone print this thread please and throw it on my garden?

I'm running low on manure.

You must be promiscuous. You have an attitude. :lol:

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29 Oct 2011, 6:08 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I printed dozen of copies because I was running low on toilet paper.

I think your arse deserves a more well thought out argument to be honest.

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29 Oct 2011, 6:12 pm

hale_bopp wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

I printed dozen of copies because I was running low on toilet paper.

I think your arse deserves a more well thought out argument to be honest.

Thank you for your concern, you surely care much for my arse-esteem.

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30 Oct 2011, 2:14 pm

I only know one guy IRL that has Asperger's, and he's too far away to date. (and he didn't grow up around here so I couldn't have met him sooner)

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30 Oct 2011, 2:51 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Can someone print this thread please and throw it on my garden?

I'm running low on manure.

You must be promiscuous. You have an attitude. :lol:

Not sure where promiscuous comes into it? I think both female and male Aspies have their own unique challenges and to assume one has more issues than the other doesn't account for individuality either.

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30 Oct 2011, 2:57 pm

KITTY!

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30 Oct 2011, 3:12 pm

MishLuvsHer2Boys wrote:

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

Can someone print this thread please and throw it on my garden?

I'm running low on manure.

You must be promiscuous. You have an attitude. :lol:

She is joking(notice the smiley).

She is making a spoof of what a misogynistic male would reply to hale_bopp.

As zen_mistress pointed out cute pic.

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30 Oct 2011, 3:17 pm

Most of the disabled guys I knew growing up were Down's Syndrome (and march of dimes says the males are infertile anyway) or Cerebral palsy. I do not believe any of them were autistic. There was one guy in a wheelchair that was otherwise normal, but he was two grades ahead and not friendly.

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30 Oct 2011, 7:08 pm

Wolfheart wrote:

vilin66 wrote:

He makes a very articulate argument when he says

1. disabled men will date disabled women

2. normal men will date disabled women

3. disabled women won't date disabled men

4. normal women won't date disabled men

He also keeps saying that women with aspergers won't ultimately date men with aspergers but men with aspergers will date women with aspergers. This is really interesting to me. I don't know why women can't seem to conceptualize this.

That's very biased and stereotypical, not everything is typically in black and white. Personally I've had interest from girls who were interested in psychology or studying the mind, they found me to be different and it sparked an interest. I have also formed friendships with a few aspie girls that have and it's nice to be able to relate on certain issues and express more on a comfortable level.

I agree with you it is biased and stereotypical wish more men could think this way.

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31 Oct 2011, 1:45 pm

So basically, the OP is looking up stuff online to fuel his hatred of women.

Okay...

So you should be friends with the person who made that video.

OR-

This is just another attempt from someone who doesn't like different people to try to cause in-fighting.

I've noticed this. It's always man vs. woman in Wrong Planet. My guess is, there is some projection going on and manipulation.

The real division theme is discouragement. Aspie women do not date an Aspie man.

So this is old. Can you please try to come up with something new?

This social 'engineering' experiment has been played out with every single group of people that have bonded that society just doesn't like.

Yes, I get it. We're not your favorite. Maybe that is because you've failed to uncover the diamond in the rough because you're too concerned with convenience.

I really don't care who chooses who to date. I'd rather have the right to choose than have some whiny fascist come in declaring who you should date.

That's life. Whine about it forever or get over it and move on. The problem with people like you is, you don't understand your own problems so you take it out on everyone else and blame them instead of looking on the inside and fixing yourself.

If you have this attitude offline, I wouldn't date you.

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