What do you need to do to be more attractive?

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31 Oct 2011, 2:15 am

I don't dye my hair. It's bad for it, and my hair holds color strangely anyway. It's probably due to the natural red highlights in it. Apparently, red hair doesn't hold color very well. :lol:

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31 Oct 2011, 2:28 am

Some peoples hair dont hold certain things. This girl at my high school got a spiral perm once and it was gone in a few days. Her hair went back to being silky and straight again.

My hair holds colours ok though I have a couple of times gotten a red dye put through but it wasnt very visible as it just got lost in the brown of my hair.

Ive thought of trying henna, or natural dyes. But I cant be bothered applying it myself.

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31 Oct 2011, 3:13 am

femme wrote:

Not all men suck any way I think self confidence is the only thing you need to be attractive and my girlfriend is very attractive to me because she is confident in her own skin.

^ This and being able to fit in a social hierarchy, make friends, adapt easily, relate to people, use reverse psychology to manipulate people into what you want them to do. My uncle has the gift of charm and he lived with my grandparents at the time and he's 50+, he's an aged man, he was unemployed and at the time, he was getting dates left, right and center with women, young women, married women, single women.

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31 Oct 2011, 6:41 am

Wolfheart wrote:

femme wrote:

Not all men suck any way I think self confidence is the only thing you need to be attractive and my girlfriend is very attractive to me because she is confident in her own skin.

^ This and being able to fit in a social hierarchy, make friends, adapt easily, relate to people, use reverse psychology to manipulate people into what you want them to do.

In other words, all the things that many Aspies are most ill-equipped to do.

I'm doomed! :wink:

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31 Oct 2011, 6:50 am

I've said it all before, the physical stuff helps, but not in the way you think. As a man, being attractive buys you a few seconds, before you open your mouth and either see success or failure. Getting in shape, fixing easily fixed outer deficiencies helps build your confidence, and that's good. However, if you can walk around with unshakeable confidence (think fiddling while Rome burns), then you don't need to fix those issues, and doing so won't see much improvement. In which case you need to work on your banter.

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31 Oct 2011, 6:57 am

In my case, I think the answer is pretty simple - reincarnation

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31 Oct 2011, 7:08 am

Magically de-age 20 years? :wink:

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31 Oct 2011, 7:09 am

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A big rule of thumb is to never, ever, use cologne to cover bad body odor. The two combine and the smell is atrocious. If you worry about body odor, then the first plan of action is to shower and clean yourself thoroughly whenever possible.

I clean myself daily, thank you very much. And I'll use as much cologne as I feel like. I've never had any complaints so far - although I do agree that it can be obnoxious if people go hugely overboard, I generally never get that far.

And I perspire during the day, not at the time of application.

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31 Oct 2011, 7:09 am

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My best: Lose weight, wear better clothes, wear make up, do my hair, get a fake tan, get my teeth whitened, be less of a mental health cot case, Be happy, get medicated for depression better, sort out my concentration problem, learn and experience as much as I can about life, be more accepting of people, eyelash extensions, hair extensions, laser hair removal, meet as many people as possible, do as many things as possible and try as many new things as possible, increase my self confidence tenfold, have a better attitude (relates to depression).

You come across absolutely fine to me - honestly.

And a good few of those things aren't especially necessary anyway.

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31 Oct 2011, 7:22 am

Aspie_SE10 wrote:

In my case, I think the answer is pretty simple - reincarnation

The thing with that is, if you don't learn anything in this life, your next life is going to be exactly the same. You won' just be re-born as a popular guy.

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31 Oct 2011, 7:53 am

Confidence... i need more...

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31 Oct 2011, 7:58 am

Give my partner some aphrodisiacs.

Be 17 again.

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31 Oct 2011, 8:42 am

zen_mistress wrote:

I think they are both gorgeous, for different reasons.

The second one reminds me a little of Hyperlexian....

awwwwwww thank you. she is sexier than all heck so i appreciate that!! !!

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31 Oct 2011, 8:52 am

ValentineWiggin wrote:

I could start brushing my hair, instead of throwing an accessory in it and calling the tangles "beach waves".

I could paint my nails.

Shave.

Stop talking about politics.

PLEASE DON'T CHANGE. you are awesome exactly as you are!

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31 Oct 2011, 9:44 am

Botox lip
Silicone tit
Sausage in my pocket
Cool cell phone blue lit

I used to be such a happy carefree bimbo creature....women loved me for my simplicity....sigh

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31 Oct 2011, 9:53 am

puddingmouse wrote:

Give my partner some aphrodisiacs.

Be 17 again.

You're talking like you're in your sixties, woman!

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