How can you have hope as a 41 yo virgin?

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Actually, I just hit them over the head with my club, toss them over my shoulder and finally carry them home to my cave. Clubs are better than drugs.

I've said it before that if nobody hates you, then you are probably a push-over and someone who goes to great lengths to placate everyone.

Write a list of your good sides and bad sides, then write a list of what you look for in a woman.

And say what? It's pretty hard for me to start conversations as it is. I think most people think it's weird to just be approached by a random person and have a conversation started with them that has nothing to do with the situation. I've had it happen. The aftermath wasn't pleasant.

I have a friend who's crazy enough to stop a random girl on the street and ask for her opinion on a subject both of us had been discussing... well, at least from my POV he's crazy, as I'd never do such a thing. But who knows...

the link takes me to a site with a millionlittle pictures?Im not following

anyway I hate when girls flirt with you when they arent interested. There is this woman at shop rite(our supermarket) who I've known for a few years. I shop there everyday, so we have gotten to know eachother. Today I got some things and stopped by her booth to say hi and we talked for 30 mins. I told hvr I graduated college, we talked about life etc. She ept saying ''im so proud of you'' ''you're so smart'' ''you're so funny''. She always says this with a smile on hvr face in a flirty manner lol. She is very attractive and turns 30 this yr.

BUT she is not interested in me. Due to her flirty nature, I asked her back in February what she was doing for valentine's day. I did this to gauge whether she was single. She mentioned her plans with her bf.

It's hard to feel confident in asking any girl out when eveen the ones who show flirtation are not into you.

Another girl in one of my college classes this spring was flirting hardcore. She was taking another class that I had actually already taken and she asked me if I could meet her out side of school to tutor her. I figured hmm I bet she ust wants to get to know me and doesn't need tutoring, so I said ok. Her friend also was in both classes, and she and her friend joked around saying ''you should give him a lil somethin something for his help'' and I said ''she refuses as a joke'' and the girl said''you nvr asked under her breath'' her friend also said to stop flirting as a joke.

anyway long story short, this girl and I also had a presentation together and on the last day we met I met her to go over things. She told me she was late because she was with her boyfriend..i was pissed. I actually called her a few ties to see where she was and she's like''damn you callin me like you mah mannnnnnnnn'' lol.

during the presentation she played my mother and she was very touchy feely and physical on me during the practice and script, and even during the tutoring session I did wit her.

after that class ended summer session started and I had her in my class and she didnt talk
anyway another example of a girl who shows me all of the right signs who is just fuarking me around. Im very smart which maes me an easy target for abuse lol.

Its her job to be flirty at males in an attempt to get them to come back/buy more things.
There may be some cases where they are actually into you but Id say that its best to look elsewhere

no it's not her ob she's been talking to me for yrs did u read what I wrote? She knows I don;t buy what she sells lol. she couldnt care less if I buy he subs lol. When i ddi buy them she even gave me a discount. or put premium meats on them when she's only supposed to put shoprite meats.
and the other girl was agirl in school....girls have done tht before not the first.

I know that plenty of girls flirt for the point of flirting and can be taken/whatever
However Ive learnt to avoid taking interactions with anyone at their work place too seriously because some people change a lot once they are outside of their work place.
I never intend stop to talk to the people approaching you to join a new bank on the street yet they all smile at me, and are extremely interested on talking to me. Should I ask one of them out? .

"hellooooooo, you seem nice. i am interested in making a 'deposit' in your 'safe deposit box' after hours., know-what-i-mean, nudge-nudge-wink-wink"

nope, can't see how that could fail.

I dont know Olive, asking around if a tissue is covered in chloroform seems to be fail-proof so Im going to stick with that for a while

from what i've heard, the comedown is akin to suicidal depression. that kept me from ever trying it. i don't want to experience "ecstasy" if i must also experience the desire to end my life.

I think that's for high doses or for certain mental constitutions, but I have friends who have experimented with it extensively, and they haven't experienced this. Its over-stated and over-exaggerated by the media.

Time to give some risky advice..have you thought about an escort service? As in just for one time. I mean, just to get those fears and anxieties out of your mind so you can think less about the problem of asking women out?