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AspieOtaku
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15 Oct 2012, 11:19 pm

Tramp works same with backstabbing whore! *ducks*

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16 Oct 2012, 1:00 am

Just go Ohio on her. To that one woman though, not all of them of course.

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16 Oct 2012, 6:51 am

I'd dump a cheater in an instant.

Even if it was an "accident" or a "good idea at the start", I wouldn't be able to give another chance.
What's going to stop her doing it again in the future? Even if alcohol was involved I doubt I'd be able to forgive, I wouldn't take the risk anyway.

Curious, how devoted aspies are compared to nt's in general? Or is there any difference at all?
Probably too hard to answer.

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16 Oct 2012, 7:02 am

tammy has a new male that is very "in love" with her after a few days of meeting her.

i really do not care. if tammy has sex with someone else, then it is up to her to decide who she likes better, and whatever she decides, it is fine with me. her happiness is more important
than our physical relationship which i do not enjoy anyway. i know that tammy will never tire of talking to me twice per day on the phone,and she is already sick of her new suitor who rang her 8 times yesterday ( i do not want to get involved but he seems to be worryingly keen, so i may have to encounter him at some stage).

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16 Oct 2012, 12:28 pm

meems wrote:

ValentineWiggin was repeatedly referred to as an assh*le in my unwanted attention thread... and then the one person called out for using the term was called out after referring to men who bother her in public as being assh*les. It didn't strike me as particularly sexist in either case but it only seemed appropriate in the latter case.

Ok.
Still Im leaving this conversation since I thought you wanted to settle things but members just want to argue between themselves and I avoid those situations here.

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16 Oct 2012, 1:56 pm

I love the comments my original comment created.

<3 aspies and their sense of 'justice'

But no, seriously, I stand by my comment. That "woman" doesn't even deserve to be called a woman after the treatment she put him through. So there.

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16 Oct 2012, 1:59 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:

Tramp works same with backstabbing whore! *ducks*

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16 Oct 2012, 3:02 pm

Women have no excuse to disrespect a man if he is treating er well but also men have no excuse for mistreating women end of story!

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16 Oct 2012, 5:36 pm

Fatal-Noogie wrote:

DerStadtschutz, your personal attacks don't help the merits of your argument.
Besides, how can Wiggin defend against [edit] an opinion she never expressed? (hatred for men)
That's a staw-man argumen: a logical fallacy, that you make so you can try to knock her down.
That's foul play.

No it's not, and that wasn't a personal attack. You'll also note that until she came here with her BS about how I supposedly defended wage gap discrimination(why don't you try actually reading the damn thing instead of just automatically siding with her?), all I tried to do was explain why calling someone a b***h isn't sexist. And her behavior constantly indicates a hatred, or at the very least, a strong disdain, for men. She can't stand NOT to call a man a sexist. She jumps at every chance... And you can't deny that fact.

Guess what? I can't defend against an opinion I never expressed either, but that doesn't stop wiggin from trying to shove her stupid f*****g "strawman" argument about me being a sexist down my goddamn throat.

I'm not a sexist, but I know telling her to make a sandwich will strike a nerve, as it clearly has. So, mission accomplished. You people are all welcome to believe whatever the hell you want, though. It makes no difference to me. I'm not here to win a popularity contest. I'm here to tell it as it is. If you can't handle that... Well, that's your damn problem, not mine. I've had enough of this horse s**t.

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16 Oct 2012, 6:05 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:

Women have no excuse to disrespect a man if he is treating er well but also men have no excuse for mistreating women end of story!

Here here!

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17 Oct 2012, 1:30 am

Stad, your misandry is sickening.
Give it a rest.

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17 Oct 2012, 1:34 am

AspieOtaku wrote:

Women have no excuse to disrespect a man if he is treating er well but also men have no excuse for mistreating women if she is treating him well.

Fixed that for ya. Equality and all that.

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17 Oct 2012, 1:59 am

DerStadtschutz wrote:

No it's not, and that wasn't a personal attack.

DerStadtschutz wrote:

Shut up and go make someone a sandwich already, for f**k's sake

Maybe it doesn't fit your definition of a "personal" attack, but it still sounds a bit rude (and sexist) to me.

For the record, I agree with your core argument. I don't think b*tch is necessarily sexist language.
I say it depends on the context and the OP context was NOT sexist.
Furthermore, I don't think ValentineWiggin's self-appointed crusade against
gender-specific language helps to further gender equality . . . at all.
Maybe some anthropologists argue that language is tied inextricably to behavior, but I don't buy that.
I wish she would stop generalizing people who use supposedly "sexist" words as being "sexists" themselves,
because that stereotype would include about 80% of the people I know, including both genders,
and all political affiliations and sexual orientations.
I just don't think cursing her out on it is an amiable method to get the point across.

And yeah, her attacking you for fake political views on wages was an unfair straw-man argument too.
I'm not a referee or a debate moderator. I can't notice/point-out every unfair remark made in this thread, nor do I particularly care to,
nor am I qualified because I'm not completely neutral.

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17 Oct 2012, 8:23 am

BlueMax wrote:

AspieOtaku wrote:

Women have no excuse to disrespect a man if he is treating er well but also men have no excuse for mistreating women if she is treating him well.

Fixed that for ya. Equality and all that.

Thank you, that was pretty much what I was trying to say. But yeah you guys see where I am coming from right?

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17 Oct 2012, 8:43 am

Fatal-Noogie wrote:

DerStadtschutz wrote:

No it's not, and that wasn't a personal attack.

DerStadtschutz wrote:

Shut up and go make someone a sandwich already, for f**k's sake

^ This.

I think it does depend on the context whether the b word is sexist or not. I dislike the word and prefer to avoid it, but I admit that I have used it on a few occasions to depict certain type of behaviour, similarly to the word as*hole. It doesn't have to have anything to do with woman/man hatred specifically.

I'm openly a feminist. I am not going to continue the sentence with a ",but..." as I expect people in this thread to know that feminism refers to equality between both sexes, men and women. Personally, I do think there are bigger problems to worry about in the world, including in the womens rights' front, than whether the b word is ultimately evil or not.

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17 Oct 2012, 9:17 am

Lilya wrote:

Fatal-Noogie wrote:

DerStadtschutz wrote:

No it's not, and that wasn't a personal attack.

DerStadtschutz wrote:

Shut up and go make someone a sandwich already, for f**k's sake

^ This.

I think it does depend on the context whether the b word is sexist or not. I dislike the word and prefer to avoid it, but I admit that I have used it on a few occasions to depict certain type of behaviour, similarly to the word as*hole. It doesn't have to have anything to do with woman/man hatred specifically.

I'm openly a feminist. I am not going to continue the sentence with a ",but..." as I expect people in this thread to know that feminism refers to equality between both sexes, men and women. Personally, I do think there are bigger problems to worry about in the world, including in the womens rights' front, than whether the b word is ultimately evil or not.

I did say that one of the main problems of this board wasnt the males attitude but the way posters of both sexes focus on discussions that are going to go nowhere instead of trying to give advice and whatnot less than a week ago...([shocking news] Despite what some of you may believe this boards aim isnt to discuss feminism or how you feel towards feminism...[/shocking news].)

I know that this is the section where this discussion has to happen but I just dont see how it benefits the forum. I mean if things had actually improved a little bit since the discussion started then Id applaud all of you for doing it but talking to a wall for months which is what both sides have been doing seems a bit unproductive to me.

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