02 Jan 2013, 7:41 pm
hyperlexian wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
if a man prefers that a woman should shave her legs, there is probably a question for that somewhere. but you can still prefer it and not expect her to be obliged. it's basically asking whether it is an absolute sticking point or not - a dealbreaker. if it isn't a dealbreaker, it seems like a "no" would cover it. and if a person is unsure what "obligation" means, they shouldn't answer the question perhaps.
But even a dealbreaker isn't the same thing as an obligation. A guy could go "women don't have to shave their legs, but I wouldn't date one who doesn't".
Extroversion is a dealbreaker for me, but that doesn't mean I believe people are obligated to be introverts.
true. the question is really more useful at weeding out people who don't see women as allowed to make decisions about their own bodies. for me, that would be the dealbreaker.
A lot of these questions seem to reveal a lot about the person giving an answer and whether or not they see others as allowed to make decisions about their lives or bodies.
Thus revealing that their self applied label of "nice" guy isn't accurate.
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02 Jan 2013, 7:44 pm
BlueMax wrote:
This was too good not to repost! Someone responded to the above question with:
Women have choices. Shaving is not obligatory. Women can wax, gnaw, pluck, scold, sear, shear, suck out, tear out, mow, scratch, plug, trim, trim with a hedge-trimmer, or blast out with dynamite all their hair they want to.
Women have choices. Shaving is not obligatory. Women can wax, gnaw, pluck, scold, sear, shear, suck out, tear out, mow, scratch, plug, trim, trim with a hedge-trimmer, or blast out with dynamite all their hair they want to.
At least that person is honest about not seeing women as free to do what they want with their bodies.
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02 Jan 2013, 7:46 pm
02 Jan 2013, 7:47 pm
See how much excitement the word "obligated" has stirred up?
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost. 
02 Jan 2013, 7:49 pm
02 Jan 2013, 7:56 pm
BlueMax wrote:
See how much excitement the word "obligated" has stirred up?
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Understanding questions before answering them is sexy
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02 Jan 2013, 7:57 pm
yellowtamarin wrote:
BlueMax wrote:
See how much excitement the word "obligated" has stirred up?
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Understanding questions before answering them is sexy
but its also smart, and as society has taught us smart means youll be alone for ever.
02 Jan 2013, 7:59 pm
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
BlueMax wrote:
See how much excitement the word "obligated" has stirred up?
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Understanding questions before answering them is sexy
but its also smart, and as society has taught us smart means youll be alone for ever.
Smart is sexy
02 Jan 2013, 8:00 pm
yellowtamarin wrote:
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
BlueMax wrote:
See how much excitement the word "obligated" has stirred up?
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Understanding questions before answering them is sexy
but its also smart, and as society has taught us smart means youll be alone for ever.
Smart is sexy
Yes it is
I certainly only look for smart people and they need to be witty too - I find that's where many fall down - they often lack wit
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02 Jan 2013, 8:01 pm
yellowtamarin wrote:
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
BlueMax wrote:
See how much excitement the word "obligated" has stirred up?
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Understanding questions before answering them is sexy
but its also smart, and as society has taught us smart means youll be alone for ever.
Smart is sexy
you're a woman, what do you know about what is sexy.
02 Jan 2013, 8:02 pm
02 Jan 2013, 8:02 pm
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
BlueMax wrote:
See how much excitement the word "obligated" has stirred up?
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Understanding questions before answering them is sexy
but its also smart, and as society has taught us smart means youll be alone for ever.
Smart is sexy
you're a woman, what do you know about what is sexy.
Are you making a joke?
Sexy is an adjective that applies to men as well as women - it means sexually attractive
02 Jan 2013, 8:03 pm
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
BlueMax wrote:
See how much excitement the word "obligated" has stirred up?
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Understanding questions before answering them is sexy
but its also smart, and as society has taught us smart means youll be alone for ever.
Smart is sexy
you're a woman, what do you know about what is sexy.
That was not smart.
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02 Jan 2013, 8:04 pm
nessa238 wrote:
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
BlueMax wrote:
See how much excitement the word "obligated" has stirred up?
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Understanding questions before answering them is sexy
but its also smart, and as society has taught us smart means youll be alone for ever.
Smart is sexy
you're a woman, what do you know about what is sexy.
Are you making a joke?
Sexy is an adjective that applies to men as well as women - it means sexually attractive
yes, itsbeen a sarcastic joke at the expense of guys that think they know things and talk about them as if they knew. both of those posts were jokes.
02 Jan 2013, 8:06 pm
MXH wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
BlueMax wrote:
See how much excitement the word "obligated" has stirred up?
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Any man who fails to READ the question and understand what "obligated" means/implies almost deserves the barrage he'll receive for it.
Almost.
Understanding questions before answering them is sexy
but its also smart, and as society has taught us smart means youll be alone for ever.
Smart is sexy
you're a woman, what do you know about what is sexy.
Are you making a joke?
Sexy is an adjective that applies to men as well as women - it means sexually attractive
yes, itsbeen a sarcastic joke at the expense of guys that think they know things and talk about them as if they knew. both of those posts were jokes.
Ohhhhh sarcasm!
02 Jan 2013, 8:08 pm
MXH wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
Smart is sexy
you're a woman, what do you know about what is sexy.
You were just asking for a good backside paddling with that one!
