Feeling ugly, flat chested and that I'm not good enough

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Can anyone else spot the REAL problem?

All I am trying to say is just because he looks, doesn't mean he wants to buy.

As a lot of people have already said, this is also about you. If you value yourself and feel good, you wont feel so insecure. Is it him that has a problem with your breast size, or is it you?

Retaliate, let him tastes from his own medicine.

Try to boast something in other guys he physically lacks (or financially/academically/intellectually...wtv).

When he gets pissed of this, remind him of his breast comment - that's the only way to make him understand

What size boobs do catwalk models have?
And these are the most beautiful women in the world judged by the best in the fashion industry.
Honey, you are in the A league already so don't worry about it.
The look of boob-jobs puts me off. Its like you have the perfect body to attract the mates that will really click with you and getting a boob job just screws up the system. The guys you may have got might look the other way.
About guys staring at other women's breasts, yes, that's just something that we do. It doesn't automatically mean we prefer those boobs we were just looking at on our girlfriend.

Last edited by ripped on 27 Jan 2013, 5:50 pm, edited 2 times in total.

Girls who are in relationships check out random guys (who are physically attractive or fit in some way) passing by, too. It's not just guys who do so.

@The Face Of Boo I LOVE how you think! I texted him that night that I wished men could go pantsless so I could compare their big penises to his "cute little macaroni noodle." I followed it up saying I was joking but asking how he felt, and he never responded to it.

@MCalavera I don't check out shirtless or naked guys though. Am I supposed to be cool with my boyfriend going to a strip club ans starimg at some woman's p**** and drooling over it while she grinds in his face too?!

This is a very dangerous assumption. As you said 'the habits of his gender' ... you know then that all guys are like this yet you choose to focus on your guy and somehow project your own breast size insecurity/unhappiness onto him in a punishing manner.

If you did send such a txt message to him you probably hurt him quite a bit. Out of the blue his GF is telling him his weiner is small. You already stated he never said anything about your boob size... you merely assumed things... you've done now far worse to him than what you assume he was doing to you.

You two really need to sit down and talk. Your relationship very likely has now been chipped because of this.

Being insecure is perfectly normal and repairable, but this attitude? Being completely honest, I wouldn't be surprised if he dumped you for someone who'll treat him better. I would.

I don't understand why people are condoning her actions here.

@Dantac Just because the majority of men leer and fantasize about how much better women with good boobs are than their flat chested girlfriends doesn't mean I'm going to condone and accept feeling hurt.

LOL girl that was too much but.... hmm; straight to the dicks eh?

...except you're the one hurting YOURSELF - and now hurting others too.
Really? Attacking and insulting his penis just because you thought maybe, JUST MAYBE, he might think as poorly about your body as you do?

Just maybe? Oops.

*checking the thread again*

I really wouldn't advise doing something like that.

If it were me, I sure wouldn't feel like hanging around. (no pun intended)

Umm...

EmoGlambertAspie

Listen to me, go to restoration mode.

Send him a text telling how big and delicious his penis is and how it's the most sucka.... wait this getting too adult for this forum, umm.... just fix it by saying what you like about his thing and go erotic.