Tired of this "nice guy" and "bad boy"..

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I don't have any problem with joking. So obviously everything you said was a joke I gather? I mean I just say something interesting and nobody even cares. Wow, it just completely turns me off to the idea of even being on here. I mean someone has a problem and no one gives two s**ts about how people feel. Whatever. i think I am done with this WP s**t. I deal with aspies I only get pissed because insensitiveness just is how they are.

I mean no one apologizes for s**t on here.

Everyone thinks this is just entertainment. Well, f**k you all then.

lol okay

I mean nobody listens. How hard is it to recognize you got a problem here.

No loyalty on here.

Aspies want to feel like the rest of the worlds is against them. Well now I know why. Because we are impossible to deal with.

I mean this is worse than a room full of old men. No one can get along.

Human nature is despicable.

f**k this and f**k everyone on here!

You don't understand yet.

I've spent two hours plus of my time trying to help you to see - I certainly have got no entertainment out of it, that I can assure you of. I can relate to your punk ideals, and your social critique. But that doesn't matter at the moment, does it? It's all about your feelings.

You seem to be changing your position and focus with every post. If this is not normal for you, and it doesn't ease off, please consider going for help. Obviously it's a difficult time for you. I hope you settle down soon.

For somebody who works with a charity, and is a manager of people...you're just about as useful as a chocolate fireguard right now.

Changing positions is actually pretty normal for me. And changing topics mid topic is definitely something I do. I am all good. Really. I guess someone thinks I am exhibiting psychotic traits.

Or oh my god this guy is whacked and off his meds!

I guess I am not entertaining enough. What is the matter you don't like a hit of adrenaline every once in awhile. i definitely did.

This will all just blow over as of right now. I am too tired anyways to continue anything and by the time I get up it will all be gone. Just a normal day for me really. I have actually been here over 12 hours. Seriously have not done anything else all night. Probably why I lost I am exhausted and worn out. i should of known.

Seriously I should ate a snickers I am not myself when I am hungry. Yeah I know bad joke but it just came to me. it has been done to death so nevermind.

I guess I need to join the "unpopular" thread on here. No scratch that I probably would not even get along with them. I am surprised I have not been kicked off of here. Interesting what you can get away with on here.

My last girlfriend said she got kicked from the facebook WP page just for ticking somebody off. Barely did anything. I think she got in the middle of a guy that was involved with some girl on there. And she was canned.

So if someone's got a personal stake in this they can decide to remove you.

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Could you not just have let me known all that about two hours ago, and I could have gone and done something else!

october - my work and skills have nothing to do with my opinions or advice so please don't resort to ad hominem. Think about what you're doing to a real person when you make that sort of assertion on a public board. Even worse, to judge me on two passive words is verging on ludicrous. You know as well as I do I made my contribution earlier on in the thread, and at least tried to diffuse this situation.

If you must extract another point from me for the benefit of getting the thread back on track (something you are not doing much to help by the way), is that yes I too am fed up with this nice guy/bad boy simplification. People have varying levels of good and bad that make them who they are. They are also qualities of a person, not who they are. Someone could do a lot of nice deeds but actually be a bad person, for example.

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What exactly are you talking about here. What is this a response to I am wondering. The fact that I am over it now. Or because I have been on here all night. I have no social life really. Which is why I get all into this thing. to get my mind off everything else that's bothering me. Unfortunately it seems the problems happened in here even though I was trying to avoid problems.

What did you have a hot date or something/ Sorry to keep you waiting.

well now we are back to the actual topic. I think what happened here is a good example of a good person who does bad things sometimes. That would be me. I rest my case that there is no such thing as a good or a bad guy. We all can get a little evil sometimes and for some strange reason I do it not necessarily because I cannot control it but I sometimes I choose to act this way to get attention. Because I am a nice guy I feel regret and remorse for my actions. I admitted more than anyone else probably would. And I take full responsibility. It is not any of you. I am accountable for my behavior and I somehow failed but rest assured that it was just a mistake that I hopefully can learn from. The reason why is because I am a man and I admit my faults and admit what I did wrong. Not sure how many people would spill all this. I don't that many.

I hope this is a truce or what the heck why be so formal a laugh

i was wrong. I made it personal and about me and I should not have. Octobertiger meant no offense and I understand that now.

Yes you are right. The question is who is getting laid and getting into relationships with their strategies and who is just talking the talk?

I've also gotten to this point where I don't need the aggravation in my life by coming here.

I come here to give people the help who are receptive to it but everyone else I'm pretty much done arguing with.

I expected better from you, to be frank, and I always would. And I'd expect you to see a bigger picture on this thread, rather than just be tied up in protecting your own ego (remember your thread in the haven?). I'm disappointed with the first part of your response. You weren't being useful - simple. Don't pretend to be mortally wounded. In hindsight, neither have I.

Point taken about the thread not being on track. In a chaotic way, though, it actually is.

There's a danger in calling someone a good or bad person. A lot of that usually comes down to a simple case of marketing. How can it make someone what they are? We are what we are. Can a simplification ever be replaced with the 'good' or 'bad' simplification? It's duality - back to that thread again.

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